Through the Years Birthday pictures
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by Gay N Lewis
2d ago
My family takes a lot of photographs, but we don't often look at them. I decided to pull a few of Shelley and our family from their hiding places and put them on this blog. Shelley has always been a hugger, a smiler, and a happy person.  Shelley 2 years Shelley and Christy 3 and 2 years Shelley at 18 years 1990s Early 20s. Shelley expects a baby. (Courtney) September 1999 Shelley, Christy, and Lanissa Shelley was on her way to meet her future hubby, Don. They married in December. Don, Courtney, Richard and Shelley Birthday 2010 The family. Gay, Paul, Christy ..read more
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Shelley's March Birthday
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by Gay N Lewis
1M ago
  Shelley arrived in March two days after her dad’s birthday. At the time, we lived in a small rural Texas area in a parsonage.  A church furnished preachers with a house situated next to the church back in those days. As a young minister and wife expecting a baby, we came to serve this sweet congregation. Along with three churches, this little community had a post office, a general store, a gasoline station, and a beauty salon. The paved, asphalt highway in front of our house enjoyed the distinction of being the primary road to travel, but a few of our flock lived off the ma ..read more
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Our Little Chipmonk
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by Gay N Lewis
1M ago
Images Today is Sunday, February 11, 2024. We visited Shelley after church. We arrived around 2:30 to find her sitting in the main room with other residents. A few napped in their chairs, and a small number stared at a television. Shelley seemed oblivious to all of it. We wheeled Shelley to her room for privacy. In certain ways, she seemed better, at least she held her head up straight. Most of the time, her head hangs to the side.  She didn’t indicate she knew us as much as she did a few days ago. But then, that’s typical for patients with dementia. I again noticed her cheeks. They ..read more
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Eating Shrimp
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by Gay N Lewis
2M ago
  I met two friends for lunch recently. We chose a restaurant featuring an endless shrimp menu. Wow! We had such fun delving into the various ways this eatery prepared shrimp! My favorite is popcorn shrimp, but I tried several other varieties. I didn’t care for the coconut selection, but that’s okay, there were other assortments, and I did my best to try them all. We talked and ate for about two hours. To this day, I feel stuffed with shrimp.  These little things are high in cholesterol but are so satisfying and delicious. We ate a lot and laughed often. The three of us s ..read more
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A Memory from May, 2018
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by Gay N Lewis
2M ago
I wrote this in May, 2018 and ran across it again recently.  In A Bible Study, my group talked about Eve. You know, the first woman to live on earth? Yeah, that Eve. Poor lady. She had her sins recorded for history, and now we talk about her. Wouldn't you just hate having your sins written down for all to see and discuss? Me too. Eve talked too much, was an over eater, and that led to her downfall. The good news is that God rescued her from shame and forgave her for failure. Oh, sure, she faced consequences, but she witnessed first-hand the resources of a faithful God.  God ..read more
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Even with Dementia, Breate in the Good and Breathe out the Bad.
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by Gay N Lewis
3M ago
  While Shelley’s daughter, Courtney and baby Mackenzie were here from New Hampshire, we visited Shelley. We sang, danced, and almost stood on our heads as we entertained Shelley and the baby. At one point, Courtney said, “Breathe, Mom, breathe.”  Courtney then said, “Mom, you used to tell me to breathe all the time.  You’d say, ‘breathe in the good and breathe out the bad.” I don’t remember Shelley saying that phrase, but it was glued into Courtney’s memory. And it is a beneficial idiom. Shelley has always been an optimistic, positive person. Even though she suffers in the th ..read more
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A Dementia Christmas
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by Gay N Lewis
3M ago
  Shelley’s daughter, Courtney, flew in from New Hampshire to visit her Texas family. Mackenzie, her adorable daughter, came with her. I had been telling Shelley for weeks they were coming. Did Shelley understand? I don’t know, but she has moments of clarity, so perhaps she did. I’d say, “Courtney and the baby are coming.” At times, she’d reply, “Bebe bebe.” This woman used to be exceptionally verbal and outgoing. She can make appropriate comments at times. When the day came, I believe she recognized Courtney, but she didn’t seem to register the baby, I don’t think Shelley understands ..read more
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Helpful Numbers
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by Gay N Lewis
5M ago
At times, we don't wish to complain, but there are circumstances that need to be addressed. When we report a facility, it is to improve the service. As caregivers, it is our responsibility to see that our loved ones receive the best care. When we help one, we help all. I'm in Texas, so I'm listing numbers for Texans to call if they question the service in a long-term facility. I also suggest looking up your congressman and sending a letter to them. At times, state laws need changing. Office of the State Long/Term Care Ombudsman Texas Department on Aging P.O. Box 12786 Austin, TX 78711 5 ..read more
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A Good Day
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by Gay N Lewis
6M ago
 October 1,, 2023 Look at Shelley's sweet smile!  She is natural, no makeup. When I go, I always apply the Mary Kay Extra Emollient Night Cream to her little face. It helps with dryness, and for some reason, her skin stays dry. Nevertheless, people think she’s is a Barbie Doll. A teenager came to visit her grandmother, and she asked an aid, “Is she younger than me?”  The young lady who asked is eighteen. Shelley doesn’t look like a teenager, but she definitely appears younger than she is. When she was well, she loved makeup, and I remember the day I visited and she didn’t ha ..read more
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Wheel Chair Now
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by Gay N Lewis
7M ago
 When we interviewed at the new facility, Shelley's acceptance was based up her ability to walk into the establishment. This was a major concern. Shelley could shuffle with help in July, 2023. If she was having a bad day, could she do it? We wondered why walking into the place was the stipulation. We have decided since the admission that the new facility didn't want to accept a person who was already bedridden. Leaving the old facility was a chore! From her room to the car was a long way, but with help, she walked there. July 10, 2023 We leave friends By the time we arrived ..read more
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