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Alexa is a Registered Clinical Counsellor who works with individuals and couples at her private practice in downtown Vancouver. Good relationships challenge and propel us to grow. When we experience positive relationships we're better able to identify what's good for us and what's not. We're better able to identify unhealthy behaviours and dynamics and work towards changing these.
Alexa Gelles Blog
11M ago
When we’re feeling overwhelmed or stressed, it’s important to have self-soothing techniques at our disposal to help us find calm and tranquility. These simple yet effective methods can bring peace and restore balance to our minds and bodies.
Here are some of the best self-soothing techniques you can try: 1. Deep Breathing:
Inhale deeply through your nose, then exhale slowly through your mouth. Repeat this several times, focusing on the sensation of your breath entering and leaving your body.
Self-soothing techniques are invaluable tools for managing stress and anxiety in our lives. Give them a ..read more
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11M ago
Navigating relationship challenges can be daunting, especially when your partner isn’t open to seeking support. It’s natural to feel frustrated and isolated in such situations. However, it’s important to approach this matter with empathy and understanding to increase the chances of getting them on board.
Reasons Your Partner Might Be Resistant: 1. Past Negative Experiences:
Your partner may have had negative experiences with counselling or support services in the past. These experiences may have left them skeptical about the effectiveness of seeking help or worried about being judged or blamed ..read more
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11M ago
In our journey through life, we inevitably encounter moments that leave a lasting impact on our emotional well-being. Whether it’s a traumatic event or a persistent emotional distress, these experiences can weigh us down and hinder our ability to move forward.
But what if there was a way to tap into our brain’s innate ability to heal and help us overcome these challenges? Enter EMDR Therapy, a powerful therapeutic approach that unlocks our natural healing potential.
Understanding EMDR Therapy
EMDR Therapy, or Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing Therapy, is a therapeutic approach root ..read more
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11M ago
Every couple experiences disagreements—it’s a natural and even healthy part of any relationship. However, what truly matters is how you approach those conflicts. The key is to fight fair.
Fighting fair means engaging in difficult conversations where both partners can express themselves openly, without fear of things spiralling out of control.
Here are five practical tips to help you fight fair: 1. Find the Right Time:
Before engaging in a discussion, make sure to find a suitable time when both of you are calm and in the right headspace. Recognize your emotions and be honest with yourself about ..read more
Alexa Gelles Blog
11M ago
Why Do Timeouts Matter?
Timeouts are crucial because they prevent conversations from escalating into regretful words and actions. When we’re caught up in the heat of the moment, it becomes challenging to communicate effectively. By taking a break, you can come back to the conversation with a refreshed perspective, improved emotional state, and a greater ability to find common ground.
What are Timeouts?
Timeouts are intentional breaks taken during heated conversations to allow partners to step away and regain their composure. By temporarily pausing the dialogue, you create space for emotional r ..read more
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