(Single)Father's Life Coach
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Hello, I'm Aaron Nolan. While raising my four children alone, I needed a way to share my ideas and to write down my experiences. My blog is for the support of struggling single dads that have lost their purpose beyond parenting.
(Single)Father's Life Coach
2y ago
To judge who is the better single parent, between moms and dads, without sounding discriminatory, is not possible. While scientist have recently discovered significant differences between the male and female brain, both can be equally successful at raising responsible children. It is safe to say that some subjects may come more natural for MEN while other tasks are easier to accomplish for woman. This exact struggle is what defines us as parents. Simply Being there is the first step. A present parent is the greatest start to a perfect parent.
Blue Collar Dad. Stay at Home Mom.
No one can deny ..read more
(Single)Father's Life Coach
2y ago
Single Fathers feel like failures. It’s a sad but true fact. No matter how successful or how many things a man has accomplished in his life, it will never feel like “enough.”
Focusing on the Failures
This information came oddly as a relief to me. First and foremost, It means that maybe, just maybe, I am more normal than I thought. But more importantly, I feel this is an opportunity to help not only myself, but to truly solve a nationwide problem. This is my chance to change the world for the better.
We all feel like FAILURES
I’ve see married men, that are the head of the household, work 80 hou ..read more
(Single)Father's Life Coach
2y ago
Broke single dad? Many men can relate to the feeling. However if you actually ask a single father if he feels broke, his response may surprise you.
Having kids that love and adore you, makes you the richest man in the world. The love that we receive from our children each day is worth more than all of the gold and silver on the planet.
Unfortunately, Love can’t pay the bills.
For a lot of guys, their main job as a man and as a father has always been to provide. And most are really good at it. They always had a routine and a plan. They had their family and their family had them.
Broke Single Da ..read more
(Single)Father's Life Coach
2y ago
For most fathers, finding ways to discipline can be a pretty uncomfortable subject (even more so for the child.)
Daddy doesn’t discipline
While I never had any issues finding ways to discipline in the past, I recently found my mind dwelling on the subject more frequently. I felt like I was constantly stressing weather or not I had been too hard on my kids. Even when I hadn’t really been hard on them whatsoever.
Then there were other times I knew I was being a complete pushover.
How many ways to Discipline
I remember one shameful weekend all to well, and for the sake of my parenting, hopefully ..read more
(Single)Father's Life Coach
2y ago
To judge who is the better single parent, between moms and dads, without sounding discriminatory, is not possible. While scientist have recently discovered significant differences between the male and female brain, both can be equally successful at raising responsible children. It is safe to say that some subjects may come more natural for MEN while other tasks are easier to accomplish for woman. This exact struggle is what defines us as parents. Simply Being there is the first step. A present parent is the greatest start to a perfect parent.
Blue Collar Dad. Stay at Home Mom.
No one can deny ..read more
(Single)Father's Life Coach
2y ago
While one of the four basic styles of parenting may be “YOU” in a nutshell, some fathers really don’t know what kind of dad they actually are at all.
Parenting on Purpose
“Don’t make me get your Father!”
We have all heard these words at some point in our lives. This is probably the single most familiar statement that frustrated moms use to instill fear into a disobedient child.
Often times, as single fathers, men find it uncomfortable to actually have to be more than just a source of fear to their children. It’s easy to be nothing more than a scare tactic. Its much more difficult to actually f ..read more
(Single)Father's Life Coach
2y ago
Single Fathers feel like failures. It’s a sad but true fact. No matter how successful or how many things a man has accomplished in his life, it will never feel like “enough.”
Focusing on the Failures
This information came oddly as a relief to me. First and foremost, It means that maybe, just maybe, I am more normal than I thought. But more importantly, I feel this is an opportunity to help not only myself, but to truly solve a nationwide problem. This is my chance to change the world for the better.
We all feel like FAILURES
I’ve see married men, that are the head of the household, work 80 hou ..read more
(Single)Father's Life Coach
2y ago
Finding time alone for single dads is crucial. Not only to ones sanity, but also to ones sobriety. It is vital to find some personal time to clear you head. Some people use simple breathing exercises while others do serious meditation practices.
Everybody is different. It is important to find whatever it is might allow you a little piece of mind.
The main problem I have found as a single father of four young children, is that stepping away for any amount of time is simply not an option.
Time Alone for Single Dads
Single Father Seeking Solitude
Have you ever tried telling a bunch of wild, misbe ..read more
(Single)Father's Life Coach
2y ago
For most fathers, finding ways to discipline can be a pretty uncomfortable subject (even more so for the child.)
Daddy doesn’t discipline
While I never had any issues finding ways to discipline in the past, I recently found my mind dwelling on the subject more frequently. I felt like I was constantly stressing weather or not I had been too hard on my kids. Even when I hadn’t really been hard on them whatsoever.
Then there were other times I knew I was being a complete pushover.
How many ways to Discipline
I remember one shameful weekend all to well, and for the sake of my parenting, hopefully ..read more
(Single)Father's Life Coach
2y ago
As a single dad self care should be a priority above even your children. You heard that right. Nobody will care for you if you don’t.
Father First?
The first thing that went out the window, for me, as a single dad, self care.
Constantly getting advice about my parenting used to make me pretty angry. Generally because it usually comes in the form of correcting.
I Knew how to parent my kids just fine. I didn’t want, or need, help from anyone. Not anymore. I have seriously taken my focus on parenting to a whole new level since becoming a single father.
I love learning new strategies an ..read more