There are many reasons people participate in kink. Some do it as a way of connecting more intimately with their partner(s); some enjoy pushing themselves to extremes through kink; some love giving up control to a partner because they have too much responsibility "in real life"; some enjoy having sexual adventures they can later tell stories about... There are about as many reasons to do kink as there are kinksters in the world! One key motivator for some kinky folks, though, is the way that kink can reduce their stress level, both in the moment during a scene and in a more long-term way over m ..read more

Hello #MomentumLovers! It's me Dr. Drai. I wanted to chat with you about MonkeyPox. The US declared a state of emergency over Monkeypox. This virus can spread through sexual contact. Let's learn the basics about this disease. Keep reading...  What is MonkeyPox?  Monkeypox is a disease caused by the monkeypox virus. Monkeypox virus comes from the same virus family that causes smallpox. It’s a zoonotic virus which means it spreads from animals to humans. Monkeypox was first discovered in the 1950s when an outbreak occurred in Monkeys in a research lab. Humans can transmit this v ..read more

What’s more satisfying than never having to fake the Big O again? Let’s get into it. Reaching orgasm is very much a mental exercise as well as physical. Keep these 3 important tips in mind to make achieving orgasm a breeze. Learn About Your Body It's important to know and understand your body and what makes you achieve orgasm so you can properly communicate that with your partner. Take the time to explore and get to know your body. You need to know and be able to connect with your own body before you can allow someone to do it for you. You will eventually know your entire body`s secret ..read more

Staying with family over the holidays? Entertaining houseguests? Rolling your eyes at your roommate's rowdy house parties? Then it might be just the time to try some super-quiet kinky activities, so you and your partner(s) can get your kink on while keeping the volume level low. Here are 5 suggestions!   1. Try a ballgag Sex and kink can both make sounds come out of your mouth that you didn't even know you were capable of making – which is often wonderful, but occasionally inconvenient. Slipping a ballgag into your mouth (or your partner's mouth) before playing can help keep the noise con ..read more

  It’s a great time to step up the intimacy in your relationship and take your sexcapades to the next level. Here are 5 tips to heighten the intimacy and connection in your relationship.  Be spontaneous  Nothing will arouse your partner more than a change from the norm. Bring back that animal attraction and have sex in places that you haven’t in a while. Forget the bed...I’m talking the shower, kitchen counter, or car. Having sex in different locations can make sex hotter and more enjoyable. Appeal to your partner's senses Light a candle, give a sensual massage, play your favori ..read more

Dirty talk can be seriously hot. Talking about sex can feel really taboo when you’re discussing likes and limits, let alone when you’re aiming to evoke explicit responses from your partner - which is part of why dirty talk can be so much fun, but also means that it can feel awkward. Uncomfortable. Embarrassing.  If you’re nervous about telling your partner exactly what you want to do to them or you’re worried that you’re going to sound silly, you’re not alone! Here are five tips to help you get comfortable with dirty talk:   1. Start with sexting  If you’ve never talke ..read more

The new year will find many of us making resolutions about our health. In the midst of a global pandemic, it’s more important than ever that we prioritise taking care of our mental health. Although sex is often the last thing on our minds when we get stressed, self-pleasure as a part of your self-care can be extremely effective and, well, pleasurable!  While it shouldn’t be the only thing you’re doing to cope with stress, masturbation comes with many benefits for your mental health. Here are five reasons why masturbation is great for stress:   1. Feel good hormones Did you know that ..read more

Hello, #MomentumLovers! I'm Dr. Drai a board-certified OBGYN, sexual health expert, and founder of Momentum Intimacy. Through my FDA-cleared sexual wellness line called Momentum, I help people improve their intimacy and have a more satisfying sex life. Are you ready to get in momentum? Discover secret flirting tips and flirting advice for romancing your special someone.  Be comfortable with who you are. As you get older, you realize that most people aren't paying attention to your flaws nearly as much as you are. You are your own worst critic when you should be your own best friend.  ..read more

Hello, #MomentumLovers! I'm Dr. Drai, a board-certified OB/GYN, sexual health expert, and founder of Momentum Intimacy. Through my FDA-cleared sexual wellness line called Momentum, I help people improve their intimacy and have a more satisfying sex life. Would you like to go on a sexual escape? If so, the world of sexual fantasy is one you should definitely explore. Here are 5 common sexual fantasies that you can share with your partner. First of all, you should have a clear idea of what you expect from this experience and try to make a plan of action. All that preplanning will help you to avo ..read more

Did you ever play Spin the Bottle when you were younger? This kissing game has long been a staple at parties thrown by teenagers and open-minded adults alike. The point of the game is to facilitate kisses between people who otherwise might not be brave enough to initiate those kisses. There's one major element of this game that makes it fun to play, time and time again, and that element is randomness. See, when it comes to sex and romance, many of us are just not bold enough to state what we actually want and go after it. There are many reasons for this, ranging from sociocultural co ..read more