..read more

Sister, please take good care of yourself!  To all of us warrior women balancing the triathlon of motherhood, careers, and domestic jungles once again I say the Lord is our strength but also remember, you didn’t say “I do” to lose very yourself in the laundry pile or the corporate ladder. The real person who dazzled your partner into commiting to marriage with you is that he loved you for *you*—not just for your potential as a supermom or as a business guru.  Yes, kids come with all their bundles of joy and truckload of responsibilities, bodies changes happen, exhaustion sets in ..read more

Dear Woman: ● changes her name ● changes her lifestyle and sometimes identity. ● changes her home. ● leaves her family. ● moves in with you. ● builds a home with you. ● gets pregnant for you, most times more than twice and the pregnancy process changes her body forever. ● she gains weight ● almost gives up in the labour room due to the unbearable pain of childbirth. ● even the children she delivers bear your name... Till the day she dies, everything she does cooking, cleaning your house, taking care of your parents, bringing up your children, earning, advising you, ensuring you can be rel ..read more

Today I was privileged to record a short clips of how my kids and I roll everyday they come back home from school. Their dramas and tantrums and everything in between ..read more

Dear young unmarried woman. Please note that there are no norms or common practice or universally accepted way of doing marriage especially in this part of the world. Whatever traits or beliefs that you've noticed in your intended partner that doesn't sit well with you, make sure you discuss it immediately and trash it out with modalities and agreements between you both as it suits the uniqueness of your relationship. “I saw my mother be@ting my father” is not a norm! “I grew up watching my mother kneeling down to serve my father” is not a norm!  “My mother was a stay-at-home mum” i ..read more

HERE ARE SOME KITCHEN TIPS THAT MIGHT HELP YOU.  I guess you never know most of them ? (1) If you don't want your seasoning cubes to get soft and start bringing out water....add garri to the container where you put your seasoning cubes. It will remain strong and fresh.  (2) Don't throw away your left over pounded yam. Dry it and crush it. After its dried then use it to eat beans....its a great taste. (3) if your pot of soup sour or changes taste. Put 2-3 pieces of charcoal in it and warm v toery well....you will recover the delicious taste again. If your shoe is smelly....add pi ..read more

Below are evergreen 'rules of advice' on how to prayerfully work out the marriage of your dreams ??? 1. Choose to love each other, even in those moments when you struggle to like each other. Love is a commitment, not a feeling. 2. Always answer the phone when your husband/wife is calling. When possible, try to keep your phone off when you're together with your spouse. 3. Make time together a priority. Budget for a consistent date night. Time is the "currency of relationships," so consistently invest time into your marriage. 4. Surround yourself with friends who will strengthen your marr ..read more

Table of Contents: • Introduction • The Importance of Keeping the Flame Alive • Sparking Communication and Connection • Keeping the Passion Alive • Spontaneity: A Secret Ingredient • The Power of Date Nights • The Role of Fun and Laughter • Conclusion Introduction Every marriage starts with a spark, but over time, that spark may fade away into the abyss of daily routines and responsibilities. Marital romance is like a delicate flower that needs nurturing to bloom. So, let's dive into the world of rekindling that once fiery connection. Because who needs boring, monotonous relati ..read more

When a woman becomes prégnant, which is a difficult stage of a woman's life yet she had this confidence that after prégnancy she will be free and relieved. After giving birth, nursing her little baby wasn't an easy job.  She so much looked forward to getting past that stage as a bréástféeding Mom The sleepless nights, anxiety, body pain and general stress was much to deal with but she said again "once my baby starts crawling and  moving around I will be free" Finally, the baby starts walking and moving about She heaved a a sigh of relief thinking it will be far easier but she wa ..read more

  You sleep with every single man that comes your way. You can't even remember your total body count i.e the total number of men you've slept with 'premaritally'. These men you sleep with will never marry you. Never. Even if one of such men eventually marries you, he may have done so out of his own selfish innate interest that he will never declare to you and it most likely will not end well. So why must you keep hurting yourself? And if you even marry that same man. He knows you believe in and practice sex outside marriage. The next you have in that your marriage is battle after battle ..read more