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Does Your Partner Want To Leave? Has the thought ever crossed your mind? Does my partner?? Are they happy? How do you know? Are You? Are you in tune? Are you observant? Their behavior, their mannerisms, their actions, moods, and conversations or lack thereof Changes Things that are different What are they doing differently? Have you noticed? The post 16 Signs Your Partner Wants To Leave And What You Can Do About It appeared first on Wings In Relationships ~ Build Better Bonds ..read more

L-O-V-E… That four-letter word we all know so well. There are many different stages of life, but there is one thing we all internally long for; to love and be loved. The greatest thing you’ll every learn is just to love and be loved in return. David Bowie Finding love is not always easy. Most of us have gone to war with love and have the battle wounds to show for it. Often, these scars can make it difficult for us to love and trust again. Finding love doesn’t have to be dreadful unless we make it that way. Remember, dating is a big game so you might as well have some fun with it. If you are ..read more

Who and I? Life’s Most Defining Question Have you ever looked in the mirror and stopped yourself to stare? Who is that person staring back? Do you recognize her or him? You may even ask yourself out loud, “Who am I?” “Who have I become?” You stare at yourself with a blank, vague, emotionless expression and wonder where your life went wrong. You may wonder what state it is in, what purpose it has, and where it is headed. What happened to your dreams? You once had desires and goals. Now you are just going through the motions of everyday life. At work, you are just punching in and punching out ..read more

Have you ever looked in the mirror and stopped yourself to stare? Who is that person staring back? Do you recognize her or him? You may even ask yourself out loud, “Who am I?” “Who have I become?” You stare at yourself with a blank, vague, emotionless expression and wonder where your life went wrong. You may wonder what state it is in, what purpose it has, and where it is headed. What happened to your dreams? You once had desires and goals. Now you are just going through the motions of everyday life. At work, you are just punching in and punching out. You are watching the clock and begging fo ..read more

The holidays are here and with Christmas right around the corner, many of us are stressing big time! To truly be able to enjoy this time we must learn to intentionally stay on the upside and redirect difficult situations. With simple reminders and support, we can have an incredible holiday time (even in this less than perfect year! Twenty-twenty… it sucked – a BIG ONE!!!! And, it’s not over yet. It’s been a really tough year for all of us and the holidays are different all the way around. Some people were affected worse than others and I really feel awful for them. We have tried to help a few ..read more

Co-dependency… It’s an interesting topic. But, do you know The true meaning? Codependency can mean different things to different people. For instance, there is a codependence of the alcohol and substance abuse type. That is an entirely different subject. The codependency that I speak of is the psychological type. Warning: This blog may blow your mind! Are you codependent? Do you know someone that might be? Sadly, there is little awareness of codependency in today’s society. Therefore, many people suffer silently from it and may not even know that they have the issue. These people suffer day ..read more

Does this look like you? We laugh, but let’s be honest… how many times do we feel like not coming home? How many days do you wake up and not want to go to work? There are instances when I just want to get in the car and drive… and KEEP driving! First let’s talk about how this stuff surfaces. STRESS Whether it’s the demands of your job, your boss, your family, or your relationship, stress can creep in at the most unexpected of times. We think we have it totally under control and then – BAM! Big baby bawl fest or maybe you just go numb and get quiet. Maybe you get super angry and lose your m ..read more

I couldn’t even get through writing the title without crying. It’s a topic that needs to be written. I’ve considered it many times. I unexpectedly lost a dog last year and now am losing another one. This time, however, I at least know it is coming. Sometimes I’m not sure if that’s better or worse. About three weeks ago, we found out that Marley, our yellow Labrador Retriever has lymphoma. It is basically incurable. Even if chemotherapy (which we cannot afford) is successful, the vet says it will most likely only buy him four to five more months of life. We decided to opt for steroidal treatmen ..read more

Dating… It’s a scary word. We’ve all been there. Some people are still there. Nonetheless, it is a necessary task if you do not want to spend the rest of your life alone. But, it doesn’t have to be painful. Dating is like a labyrinth and if you want to win, you have to deem yourself David Bowie, The Goblin King. Here is some love-guiding Bowie advice: “The Greatest Thing You’ll Ever Learn Is To Love And Be Loved In Return” ~David Bowie~ There is nothing else like love. Once you have it, you never want to be without it again. If you’ve been hurt from it, you may be scared to try to have it ag ..read more