(  A quick little warning  :- this is a SERIOUS topic.  IF THIS SEEMS TRIGGERING TO YOU PLEASE CLICK AWAY AND SEEK HELP.  I am going to try to put everything in a  funny way ,  because its already DARK .  ) Definition :- Gaslighting is a form of emotional abuse that’s seen in abusive relationships. It’s the act of manipulating a person by forcing them to question their thoughts, memories, and the events occurring around them. A victim of gaslighting can be pushed so far that they question their own sanity.  It is basically  a TWISTING-REALITY ..read more

 The phrase " Toxic Positivity" refers to the concept of being positive and just positive. We have all come across situations where we are heartbroken or crying ,basically in an emotionally stressful state and then there's always that one person who keeps blabbering things like " at least it is not the worst case scenario "  , "don't cry" , "it could have been worse"  LIKE NO KAREN WHAT THE HELL . SHUT UP AND HOLD MY TEA!! I agree that it could have been worse. I could be dead or unemployed or whatever the case is ...but that doesn't make my pain less .  It is like runn ..read more

 “No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.” ~Eleanor Roosevelt People judge, it is the ultimate truth of the society we live in.  Maybe you have been through a situation where you questioned yourself things like "why am i like this ?" OR "why can't i do this when others can do it?" It is completely normal , after all we all are human beings and we all have some kind of insecurities. But the funny thing is - These insecurities pave the way .  You are different . We all are different , unique in our own ways.  Okay so  you are insecure about the way ..read more

 So this post isn't going to be like the rest , it won't be all butterflies and rainbows. It is something serious please hang on and read the entire post. Yes, it is hard to let go. Your heart doesn't want to let go but your mind knows what's best for you. Letting go might sound so easy like it's a piece of cake but we all know how freaking hard it is to tear yourself away from "it". Now letting go can be in regards to anything - friendships,relationships,habits,addictions,a certain place, just name it. But regardless, it feels difficult to let go. Here it comes ....  WHY IS IT SO ..read more

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 Who am I? What do I want? What am I here for? These are the questions that may haunt you. Life often puts us in the hardest of situations which can be handled only by ourselves. Any of us in these situations may feel like we're sinking under the water with no one else to support us. Here we'll show you some ways to come out of these problems and be yourself again:- First of all,believe it or not but there is absolutely no one in this world for you except you! However impossible or hard it may seem you have to realise the problem and come out of it. If you feel that you're lost th ..read more

We usually assume that we need to make drastic changes to our habits, routines or bank balances to be happy. However, in reality, that’s not the case. Often, we already have everything we need to enjoy life—it’s just a question of prioritizing what’s really important. FOCUS  ON YOU We spend way too much time on thinking what other people think of us . The question is what do you think of yourself ? People give opinions and advices but at the end of  the day it is really just you who got your back. GET TO KNOW YOURSELF  FIRST , that's the first step . 2.MAKE A WISH-LIST Don't ..read more

                                                                       ||MINDSET|| It is the most essential thing to survive in this heartless society. In case we fail to align our mindset,every negative thing that happens around will affect us. Throughout your life almost every person will judge you , criticize you and also it is not possible for you to go and smack everyone and prove yourself , lol?. It's su ..read more

||TRAUMA|| Trauma doesn't always need to be caused by an incident. It can be caused as casually as a daily activity like eating or sleeping its effects can be severe and long-lasting.  Trauma isn't always depression or like anything that we see and imagine in movie .It can be caused to normal people like you and us through series of repetitive events that seem torturous to us. Now the thing is , you need to accept the fact that you are hurt. Why to keep lying to yourself when you know that it is not going to be of any good ? 90% of people are in trauma and can't come out of i ..read more

    "??? ?????? ??? ?? ???? ???? ?????? ???? ???? ?? ?? ???? ????." Yes, sometimes it can be hard to choose a path to walk on. But what is life without a dream?  The most successful people among us dream big dreams while being awake.                                We compiled a short guide to help you take baby steps towards your dreams and slowly embrace them .  SET YOUR MIND UP At first you need to decide what your dream is or what you want to achieve . Do you wann ..read more