HEY! DON'T FORSAKE YOUR PARENT   "Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother, and cleave unto his wife: and the two shall be one flesh." Genesis 2:24 KJV One thing is to leave your parent; another thing is to forsake them. You don't have to mistaken one for the other.   Marriage doesn't necessarily mean breaking the bond between you and your parent. It is having another bond. Yes, the bond between you and your spouse should be ..read more

                                                                                      SEX IN MARRIAGE  It was a remarkable day, the day I discovered that there is nowhere in the bible where God says “Thou shall not have sex”. But rather thou shall not have it outside marriage. That is God does not want us to fornicate nor commit adultery.        Sex was o ..read more

SAYING NO! TO INTRUDERS Do you realize that a lot of folks have an expiry date for your marriage; they are waiting for the day your marriage will collapse so that they can mock you.  Mostly these people are families and friends.       You have to shut them out of your marital affairs, to prevent something nasty in your home.     Marriage is between you, your spouse, and God. If you need any counsel; consult God directly or true his vessels, because God is the only present help in the time of need and the great witness between you and your spouse. "….Because th ..read more

                                        HEY! DON'T FORSAKE YOUR PARENT   "Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother, and cleave unto his wife: and the two shall be one flesh." Genesis 2:24 KJV One thing is to leave your parent; another thing is to forsake them. You don't have to mistaken one for the other.   Marriage doesn't necessarily mean breaking the bond between you and your parent. It is having another bond. Yes, the bond between you and your spouse should be ..read more

HOW TO HAVE A SCRUPULOUS RELATIONSHIP WITH IN-LAWS   When you were joined with your spouse, you have automatically been annexed to his or her family.     And the two shall become one flesh covers this area as well. Your spouse's parent had automatically become your parent as well, and your spouse's siblings are now your siblings. This is the way you should regard them in your heart if you truly desire a successful marriage.    It is written that "whatever you sow you shall reap".  You have to realize that you will become someone's in-law someday. Therefore ..read more

                                                                         AVOIDING NASTY WORDS     Our words are strong tool to secure the kind of marriage that we want. Words comfort, it discomforts, it creates and destroys, it builds up and it breaks down. Therefore, wisdom is required for its use in marriage.      A word that is represent fun to you may signify an insult to your sp ..read more

                                                                                              THOUGHTFUL WORDS AND ACTIONS     Thoughtless words and actions are great damages to marriage. The effect of it is often irreversible. A lot of couples have regretted this a lot. Oh! I ought not to have acted that way, had I known, I wouldn’t have said t ..read more

                                         JEALOUSY IS CRUEL AS THE GRAVE     “…For jealousy is cruel the grave…” Songs of Solomon 8:6 KJV    What is jealousy? It is a state of being afraid of losing what belongs to one or being suspicious that someone might take what belongs to you. Therefore, jealousy in a marriage context connotes the state of being afraid of losing one’s spouse.      Jealousy is bad, is an enemy of marriage. It triggers unnec ..read more

REMAIN FAITHFUL TO YOUR MARRIAGE VOW    Your marriage vow is beyond just a promise or ordinance, it’s an important thing. And God is the witness between you and your spouse, and a witness to your vow. “Yet ye say, wherefore? Because the LORD hath been witness between thee and the wife of thy youth, against whom thou hast dealt treacherously: yet is she thy companion and the wife of thy covenant” Malachi 2:14 KJV THE VOW As a man, you have stipulated with your wife to love and cherish her (only her), regardless of the circumstances until the rest of your life. Didn’t you? Howeve ..read more

                                                          LOVE COVERS ALL SINS "And above all things have fervent charity among yourselves: for charity shall cover the multitude of sins." 1 Peter 4:8 KJV     The best marriage isn’t a marriage that is void of offenses of either of the couple, but it’s the marriage that the couple had learned the power of forgiveness.       Because of our imperfections, we are prone to ..read more