It’s About Trusting It’s about trusting yourself first. Trust has been a commodity that has been so poorly abused that most people have a hard time giving it. That trust is especially hard to give to the people we most want to give it to. Sadly, the people we love suffer the most from our difficulty in trusting. Here’s the thing every wound heals eventually but it leaves behind the scar as a reminder and every time you see that scar you remember the pain. Unfortunately we cling to the remembered pain and forget to recognize that wound no longer hurts. Trusting means letting go of that remember ..read more

Dear Future Husband…I Died…Kind Of Dear Future Husband, I have worked hard on preparing myself for your arrival in my life. My life up to this point was spent believing I was ready to receive you. Baby, I was not ready! I never realized just how broken I was. Being prepared to give and take equally is not as easy as it sounds.  I want you to know how much I love you, I love you so much I worked on myself tirelessly. Healing is not easy, it takes breaking yourself down and putting yourself back together. I never realized how broken I was until I felt whole. Reaching the feeling of wholenes ..read more

People are not things. When did “fuck your feelings“ become a thing? Why did we start using people instead of things? When did people become interchangeable and disposable? Why did we stop treating and recognizing people as human beings?   Let’s Start Here Ask yourself whether you think or feel this way. Also ask yourself whether you can honor your wants and needs without destroying someone else in the process. People who have suffered the most pain tend to be the most giving, the most loving, and the most in need of loving in return. Let me tell you something these people will never tell ..read more

Black Women Are Not A Monolith! Black Women Are Not A Monolith! Black Women Are Not A “Fucking” Monolith! Just in case you haven’t heard, WE are not a monolith and they (the world) should not expect us to be. There is the expectation that black women can shoulder the burdens of life alone. We are “strong” because we have to be, society did not give us many options, to begin with. Our parents, partners, and society frequently abandon us and we have to keep standing, strong and unprotected!. The world often sees black women as monolithic, almost superhuman, and, as a result, our own needs and de ..read more

I think most little girls dream of meeting Prince Charming and getting married, living in a castle surrounded by luxury. I know I did, and I felt for sure I was going to have that one day. As I got older that castle turned into a house with a white picket fence that included husband, children, and happiness. I also had a very strong addiction to romance novels, that contributed to the unrealistic expectations I carried into adulthood. I had a real Cosby show kind of vision, but as time passed that vision started to disappear because my life was not shaping up the way I thought it would. Coming ..read more

  “I Let My Guard down, and then you pulled the rug,  I was getting kind of used to being someone you loved” I have spent the last several months contemplating my past, the moves that I have made, and as usual with hindsight I see so much clearly. A part of me will always wish for a do over and a chance to move forward with what I know right now. Would anything be different? Maybe these experiences were necessary in order to change, in order to grow. I have grown and I have changed and learned so much about myself. The how and why of it is a lot clearer now.   “I Can See Clearly ..read more

To the good folks who follow my page, I just launched my new podcast! doesn’t that sound exciting?! I would love for you guys to now check out the “Podcast Episodes” tab on this page. I plan to really dig in with this new added platform so keep a look out! I am also open to suggestions on what to talk about so reach me in the comment section. Happy Listening!   The post So I Did a Thing! appeared first on Let Me Tell You This ..read more

There seems to be a formula when it comes to the Twin Flame journey, I have been obsessed with learning and absorbing everything that I could find on Twin Flame awakening. Let me start at the beginning, I was involved with someone with whom I had fallen in love and there was an abrupt separation. This separation was emotionally devastating for me because I had fallen for this person. I had laid all of my needs, expectations and my future on his shoulders and after the the fact I realize it was not fair to him. There has to be a balance in all relationships, there has to be an equal give and ta ..read more

We last left off with Twin Flames, right? I am sure some people took my advice and used google to find out what Twin Flames are, but I will still explain. Twin flames is supposed to be one soul inhabiting two bodies. In this dynamic exist the divine masculine and the divine feminine. Discovering your twin flame is usually preceded by some calamitous event. An event strong enough to affect your spiritually, mentally, and emotionally. I was left screaming why to the universe and begging for an answer that I could understand. I had never been so shaken or felt like my soul had been ripped apart ..read more

I have always been drawn to all things connected to spirituality. I sensed that all the answers I was seeking could be found there. What I did not realize was that  would have so many questions to begin with. Organized religion has always turn me off instinctively I knew that what I was looking for could not be found there. The more alternative views are what resonates with me, like tarot cards, pendulums, and psychic ability. Lately the messages for me have been to let go and trust the universe to guide me to where I want to be, and to get out of my own head. I will admit letting go is h ..read more