We the family went for our first holiday together to Legoland in Billund. I wanted to hire someone to help The Narc* with the farm and the guesthouse and contacted him about that. He answered: I assumed to take care of the guesthouse while you were abroad. I already said I didn't want to hire anyone. Then it would maybe be a good idea to apologize to me for your behavior the other day.  There it is obvious he wants an apology from me. Like I have said before I believe I had every reason to get angry. I also believe this demand is about controlling me and making me obe ..read more

G, the third owner of the farm has been "selling" his share for the last ten years. But it doesn't matter what offers Martin makes him he never answers or makes counter offers. I made a video about this but put a car instead of a farm. I found other blogs about narcissistic encounters on Feedspot if you are interested ..read more

My principal wanted to have "A Talk" today. I've had a feeling something was up. I've made mistakes. Two or three, I'm not sure how to count it. When we have exams we have to send them to the secretary who prints them out and has them copied two days before the exam takes place. I did so with all my exams but with the last one I attached the wrong file. It wasn't discovered until the students had arrived and were supposed to begin. Then the exam had gone through the hands of the secretary, the vice-principal and two oversee-ers with wrong name and year on the cover. It was rather panicky ..read more

Being the eighties child that I am (born in the seventies!) I like mixed tapes. The tape recorder is long gone and now I do it in the computer but... I still do it. This weekend I've been trying to make The Perfect Rock Playlist (because I don't have enough to do, like grading exams and cleaning the house, ugh). There are songs that there is of course no doubt about but then there are others. Anyways, these are the sure bets. That's alright my mama, with Presley. (Like there was ever any question about that.) While my guitar gently weeps. The Beatles. Me and Bobby McGee with Janis ..read more

'You can't have a difficult exam!' 'Well, it won't be difficult for those who have read the book.' 'Nobody reads the book! We don't have time for it!' I really don't know how to take this discussion any further ..read more

perilsofdivorcedpauline.com I started my new job in the beginning of January. I'm walking on eggshells I'm so worried my new boss won't like me. My mind knows this is unnecessary but my heart doesn't. This is of course making me awkward, I'm so obviously trying to please it's rather pathetic. A friend of mine, from my former workplace, sent me an email the other day just to catch up and I told her about those feelings. She was one of the Three Musketeers so she knows, she was there. It helped me a lot just putting this in words and telling somebody. Last week I had a little trouble ..read more

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Old song, I know. Yes, I'm listening to music these days ..read more

I'm not blogging very much these days. I'm just looking forward to Christmas, preparing and spending time with my children. Love them, love our time together. I'm starting work in the New Year so I'm savoring our time now. In Iceland we have 13 Santa Clauses. They will start coming from their home in the mountains 13 days before Christmas and then our kids will start getting something, candy or toy, in the shoe. They put one on the window sill and the Santa coming down will give them something. Unless they have been naughty then they will get a potato. If you are interested you can read mo ..read more

Icelandic group ..read more