A backbencher... Normally we all take backbenchers as the most non-serious amongst the student, many see them as having less calibre, less responsive as they tend to show less attentiveness towards the class. Many believe they are amongst the failures, which is all true for some and false for some others. So here's my question... How do you see this classroom from a backbencher's view??? Didn't catch it? Here's a little observation. Let me take you back to your school life, where sometimes a new demonstration was carried or a class check made on regular basis by the Administrator or Coord ..read more

Almost everyone of you have been a student of some kind at some stage, if we see current times- High School/College is the most common student life we all have in common. Experiencing that life, there was always a room where we could hang around/rest/do any favorite activity or carry out discussions besides our working day or routine. It was a way to share our thoughts by sharing a same roof with difference of opinions etc...  What is a commonality?  So, here let's see that what is commonality and what does it bring and offers?  In very simple words sharing attributes and f ..read more

  Have you ever been in that place, where you knew you were lying, but you didn't accept it? That happens to all of us. There are many situations in life and events where our inside keeps reminding us that don't go that way, you are lying! Which means we keep denying harsh truths of life... Why? Maybe it's easier to be comfortable? And it's in human nature that it's comfortable to live a life with lies as it's easier rather than embracing simple truths.  The bad news... " It's a deceptive life."  The good news... "You can take charge of it!" How?  Start accepting that you ..read more

What it is that you are taking granted for, the most in your life? Put yourself into self accountability. Think... And then, realize what have you you been doing with that particular thing you have been taking lightly, yet it was around you!? That's how we take things when they are quite familiar to us. Be it a person, a place, a job, a blessing...  At first, we enjoy it. But, when we see that they are easily available for us all the time, we barely appreciate those little things. And look for what's negative in that. We forget the positive qualities! That's human nature!  We value ..read more

 What do you see in the mirror?  Reflection of the candles? What's that reflection doing? Increasing the light..? What's the original candle doing? Spreading it's energy to reduce the mist on the mirror and clearing things out?  This is how proximity works. The original candle, say if it's a person who's purpose is to guide people and lighten up lives... He/she should go near or be close to people who want to recieve guideline willingly. And if it's about the candles in the reflection, say if it's people who want to get enlightened should go close to people who are already in ..read more

  Is it important to have "self expression"? How can it be shown? What part it plays in our lives??  Many people don't work for this. Persona, gestures, emotions, feelings, words, writings, thoughts and body language... They all are buts and pieces of you expressing all mentioned above on their limited scale. So, it shows your limited part. Self expression... It is what you are completely along with the mentioned aspects of you.  If you want yourself to be totally known, as in who you are from inside out... You need it! It shows your real traits and qualities.  When we ..read more

  "I can do this!" "I am beautiful!" "I am brave!" "I won't give up!" Do you know the power that lies behind these sentences??? Many of us don't. Why? Because, we keep paying attention on these sentences, "I can't do this.. I give up.. I am not brave enough to do that..."  Both of them are called, "Affirmations". The above ones are positive ones and the ones mentioned bellow are negative.  To affirm something means that you are declaring that you have ability to do or not to do something.  People ask, how to be positive and motivated, when you see nothing? Affirmat ..read more

There is always a cost we pay when choosing, alternatively along with a potential gain... Take this for instance...  You are on a drive, and you get to stay either in a luxurious hotel or you have a chance to visit a great tourist attraction area with peace and serenity. What will you choose? Whatever you choose... You loose one good opportunity!  But... Life is all about decisions. And whenever you get to choose from two choices you have or maybe from 3 to 4... Just ask this...to avoid major costs or regrets... Will this make my life more meaningful??? If yes, go for it ..read more

  "Nothing is more expensive than a missed opportunity." Do you think you will find a possible opportunity for yourself by just driving along a straight road? No, it won't... It's quite rare that an opportunity knocks at your door by itself. And that it is there for you without finding it. But, would that be helping you, if you are not ready to go for it? No, it won't... In both cases, you lost what might have been turned out best for you!  We all want good opportunities for ourselves in our related fields, and for that we have to be there to show up for it, work for it and even be ..read more

Let's test how tactful are you? Are you Ready..? Let's start... 1. What do you do, when people misjudge or misunderstand you?  Usually, we reply back or create an argument. But, sometimes it's better to ignore or explain them calmly. Why not tackle a situation in a good way? That's the whole point... 2. You see someone who doesn't seem to fit in a theme party, will you let him down, ignore or help him/her out in following the theme in some way or another?   Many people tend to look down upon some odd wearing person or even people with odd traits. It's always better to help out ..read more