It is no secret men enjoy having sex, but what they admire more is a woman that knows how to turn them on. Although men are not afraid to let you know when they are in the mood, just remember that they are secretly hoping that you would take charge. Apart from being blunt, there are hints that we miss. Men want affection, love, and attention. Here are a few definite signs that he wants to have sex. Beat him to the punch by watching his body language and making the first move. How Can You tell If your Man Wants to Have Sex? My husband is a very sexual man. In our relationship, he is the aggress ..read more

Suffering the loss of a family member or close friend is one of the most difficult challenges one can face. The fact that death is a normal part of life does not take away the sadness and hurt. Coping with the loss of a loved one is not easy. There is no “right” or “wrong” way to express your feelings. Mourning is personal to each and everyone, so do not allow others to dictate your grieving process. While coping with the loss of a loved one you will experience every emotion imaginable, which is perfectly normal. Understanding a few of the different stages of grief will be crucial in your grie ..read more

How will I achieve my goals? What are the necessary steps? These are a few of the questions that we ask ourselves over and over again. I was thinking about the goals that I have been setting and why accomplishing them seemed so out of reach. It dawned on me that something was wrong with my system. I have found that more times than I would like to admit, I have set out to accomplish a goal without a few key elements. No goal is obtainable without a solid plan. A goal without a plan is just wishful thinking, fantasizing that somehow it will just land at your feet. 4 Things You Should Definitely ..read more

It is no secret men love to have sex, but what they love more is women that know how to turn them on. Although men are not afraid to let you know when they are in the mood, just know that they are secretly hoping that you would take charge. Aside from being blunt, there are signs that we miss. Men want affection, love, and attention. Here are a few subtle signs that he wants to have sex. Beat him to the punch by watching his body language and making the first move. How Can You tell If your Man Wants to Have Sex? 1. The Twinkle in His Eyes When a man wants to have sex his demeanor changes, he ..read more

I was not going to write a post about Mother’s Day and all its significance but a call from a friend changed my mind. “Rochelle, how should I react if my husband and children did not get me anything for Mother’s Day”? “Wow”, was my response, but I had to be the voice of reason in this situation. Sometimes they forget that what matters is the simple things. They might think what we want is a grand gesture, but to the contrary, we want the small things, most of all a hint of appreciation. I know it can be tricky trying to figure out what to get for the Mothers in your life, but in all honesty, a ..read more

When you’re in love things seem so simple. There’s no care in the world. Over time the love, joy, fun happiness, and passion begins to fade and things become mundane. It’s easy to lose focus on the importance of keeping a relationship strong. you become so wrapped up in your everyday life that you miss these 3 signs that your marriage is falling apart. “Marriage is a big deal”. “Neither one of you even knows what a real relationship is”. You’ve heard it all. Truth be told they were right. We have no clue. You didn’t know what to expect and you definitely didn’t know what you wanted or needed f ..read more

So many people struggle with the idea of forgiveness. I think the confusion comes into play when you are constantly told that you should forgive in order to free yourself. We get so overwhelmed with the idea of forgiving and what it means when instead we need to understand more of what forgiveness is not. “Forgiveness is not for them but for you”. These words are easier said than done. It takes time to forgive, especially if you haven’t had the opportunity to resolve the issue. The misunderstanding of forgiveness is not knowing what forgiveness is not, rather than what it is. It’s easy to conf ..read more

It’s official: we are now on a stay-at-home order, our two weeks have turned into several weeks, and that’s what we know for now. Schools are closing all around the country, some for weeks and some have closed for the remainder of the school year. As all parents know it’s not going to be an easy task trying to keep the kids entertained, but this pandemic doesn’t have to control our lives. I love to have fun, so here are a few fun family activities while quarantined. As parents, we have to keep the kids entertained and stress-free, as this COVID-19 doesn’t just affect the adults. We mi ..read more

Losing a family member or close friend is one of the hardest challenges one can face. The fact that death is a natural part of life doesn’t take away the pain and hurt. Coping with the loss of a loved one is never easy. Losing someone you love can cause loneliness, sadness hell it can even lead to depression. We try to rationalize things which is a natural way of coping with losing a loved one. Grief is not a problem, but it is a process. There is no right or wrong way to express your feelings. Coping with the loss of a loved one will take time. The moment I found out that my friend ..read more

In arguments, we don’t play fair, men nor women. It’s easy to get caught up in the moment, and forget that there are words you should never say during an argument. The house becomes a battlefield, and hurtful words are our strongest weapons. The most damaging thing to do is to speak from an angry place. During an argument, it’s a given that you will say something you either don’t mean or things you’ll regret later. I can’t tell you how many regretful things I’ve said during my 15 years of marriage. A lot of it was things I really didn’t mean, but what hurts me the most is knowing that ..read more