Team, I would like to know how to measure for a chastity device, how to choose a chastity cage and what to consider when choosing one size or another. I’ve been looking into incorporating a chastity cage into my game, but I don’t want to buy something I’m not sure will fit me. Anonymous Hello my friend. Thank you for opening your world to us. It sure is not easy to talk about these issues with other people. I will try to advise you so that you can enjoy the experience of chastity, whether accompanied or in solitude. Entering into the search for a chastity cage can generate a lot of doubts and ..read more

Hey there! Read through the article on chastity devices. Love the content! I’ve been into chastity for a few years. Married guy but wife is not interested in play. So I’ve been self locking. Any thoughts, ideas, etc on how to stay self locked and not give into urges? I know lock boxes exists. I’ve frozen the keys which works. I’m not exploring a Domme but perhaps simply a keyholder if such a thing exists. I appreciate any insight you have. Thanks man! My reply to “my wife doesn´t want to play with chastity devices” Hello my friend, I’m Federico, sexologist at ThePleasureKeys. Thank you for ope ..read more

If you want your woman to have an amazing sexual experience, you should not only limit this to a short time in bed or even one or a few hours during the evening. Instead, you want to build up as much sexual excitement and seduce her for as long as possible. Way before before the sexual act itself begins. This is the meaning of All Day Foreplay, and it’s just as important for amazing sex as what you do in the bedroom. To learn all about how you create an All-Day Foreplay that your woman will love, just continue reading. All-Day Foreplay if you are in a Relationship In fact, seducing your partn ..read more

Maybe things are getting a bit slower in the bedroom than they used to be. Or maybe you realized that your wife is not really enjoying the sex as much as you would want her to. Regardless of the issue, after having read this ultimate guide on how to please your wife sexually, you will have lots of new input to try out. And your wife will love it. The guide starts out with the foundation. Then it continues all the way to the specific techniques that you should use once in bed. Techniques that will give your wife some very intense sexual pleasure. Use it all at once, and your wife will probably ..read more

Bondage is a quite popular practice in the BDSM world. If you are into bondage maybe you have some funny or hot bondage stories to remember. Stories about being caught in the middle of it, when your friends or parents finding your gear and toys, or memories of the best and hottest experience you ever had. There are hundreds of bondage stories out there waiting to be told, and some users from Reddit explained them in this NSFW thread that compiles some of them (you need an account an be 18 or older to read it). Bondage stories and BDSM real anecdotes In this blog post we feature the most intere ..read more

In this weeks’ post our sexologist Federico Bordón answers a question we received a few days ago about what is rimming and how to communicate if you like it. The question is the following: “I am straight guy but I really like to be rimmed and also eating girls ass. I would like you to talk about rimming and how I can convince girls to like it, there are very few girls who like to eat a guys ass” Alex H, 24 YO, US Let’s check out what is rimming and talk a bit about anal play and communication around sex. What is rimming: the spice you are missing out on First things first: what is rimming wh ..read more

Looking for the best books on how to please a woman sexually? Then you’ve come to the right place. In this blog post, I’ve compiled a list of all the Amazon top-rated books on pleasing women sexually. Just keep on reading to get my recommendations and personal comments on each book. From lowest to the highest rating. The Best Book For The Mental Aspects Sex God Method by Daniel Rose One of the classics when it comes to books on how to please women sexually. While most books in the genre focus on different techniques, The Sex God method stands out by focusing on the mental aspects of sexual ..read more

Desire makes the world spin. Desire makes us change careers, get a divorce, and move to the other side of the country. Desire makes us want a woman, and if we are lucky and skillful, desire makes her want us right back. To get better at this push-and-pull mechanic that’s part of the natural dance of being alive, you should study “how to make a woman desire you,”. This way, you increase the chance of getting the woman of your dreams. In this blog post, you’ll learn everything you need to know. Let’s dive into the different pillars of desire. 1. Confidence is Desire King When women list why the ..read more

The first time you kiss a girl is a special moment, so of course, you want her to like it. You want to know that you are a good kisser and know how to kiss her well. You probably also want her to want more. No problem. The fact that she is kissing you means she likes you; if your kiss is good, she will want more. By using just a few of the following techniques, your kiss will be good. Use all of them, and your kiss will be amazing. Kiss Slowly A great kiss is not a rush job, and it’s no point in being too forceful in the beginning since you want something to build towards. Start with a slow a ..read more

Making a girl wet might feel like an intimidating task. But not to worry, the first thing you need to know is that girls do get horny just like guys. Yes, we have plenty of sex drive and all we secretly want is for a guy to come along, sweep us off our feet and make us wet like never before. To achieve this, you just have to play it right, use all your charm and a couple of the well-aimed tricks that you will learn below. It’s not rocket science, but to become good at it does take some practicing and experimenting, that’s what makes it so much fun. Be Attentive Making a girl wet starts much ..read more