Low body image and sexual performance anxiety are common, yet unlikely topics of discussion. And not talking about them only adds to these issues.  If you experience sexual anxiety and have body image issues know that you’re not alone. Around 16% of women and 25% of men experience sexual performance anxiety. According to experts, around 90% of women and 20 to 40% of men also report body dissatisfaction. Let’s talk about body confidence, sexual anxiety, how it can affect your […] The post Educational Tool for Sexual Anxiety appeared first on Volont ..read more

For women, menopause is just a part of life, but the end of your reproductive years certainly doesn’t mean the end of your sex life. Lots of things are changing during this new season of your life, but many things will stay the same. Luckily, the conversation on sex after menopause is gaining some momentum, but there’s one niche topic that rarely gets addressed – squirting after menopause. Can someone still squirt after menopause? How else can menopause affect your […] The post Does Squirting Stop After Menopause? appeared first on Volont ..read more

Be honest, how emotionally safe do you feel in your relationship? Many people tend to focus on whether their partner fits their standards if they are compatible, share the same values, and other things along those lines.  While shared values and being compatible do matter in the relationship, the latest research in neurobiology shows that one of the most important metrics of a happy, healthy, and loving relationship is emotional safety. It’s also key for a satisfying sex life.  So, […] The post The Link Between Emotional Safety and Sexual Satisfaction appeared first on Volont ..read more

Wouldn’t you like to be a fly on the wall and find out what other people are doing in their bedrooms? Your answer to this question will depend on whether or not you’re a voyeur, of course, but knowing what other people find sexy can be interesting.  If you’re curious to learn about other people’s sex lives, you’re in luck. Let’s look at some of the recent research and findings on couples’ sexual desires and fantasies and see what exactly […] The post Research Reveals Couples’ Sexual Desires appeared first on Volont ..read more

Sex toys are one of the best ways to create more opportunities for pleasure, increase accessibility, and have more fun in and out of the bedroom! While they’re often thought of as a tool for masturbation, sex toys are a great option whether you’re having sex with yourself or someone else.  For queer people, especially queer women, sex toys are not a “substitution,” but a wonderful way to amp up your sex life. Still, finding the right one for you […] The post The Best Sex Toys for Queer Sex appeared first on Volont ..read more

Late that Saturday evening, Harold hauled the last box through the door of his new apartment. He swiped sweat off his forehead and stretched his back after carrying the boxes to the twelfth floor, albeit with the aid of an elevator. He had jammed all his belongings into the one-bedroom apartment on Florence Avenue, all to escape his last roommate. He had moved to this place, because the guy had been a terror for Harold. Life now would be quiet. […] The post Florence On Florence – An Erotic Story appeared first on Volont ..read more

Ever wondered how others masturbate? The National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior conducted by the Kinsey Institute of Indiana University analyzed the results of people ahes 14 to 19 to discover if they masturbated and how often. They found that people of all ages masturbate. About 20% of men aged 18 to 59 reported masturbating two to three times a week, while a majority of women masturbated once a week or less.  It’s difficult to separate masturbation from pornography, […] The post Most Popular Masturbation Fantasies appeared first on Volont ..read more

Joan had accumulated so many hours of paid time off for her job as a saleswoman in the pharmaceutical company that her young manager asked her to stay home for a day. “You know the company policy, Joan,” said Shawn Markson, a handsome African American. “Use it or lose it. And I don’t want you to lose it. Take one day out of life.” “It would be so nice.” She tapped her finger on her bottom lip. “Make it a […] The post Joan Jett and the Black Cock – An Erotic Story appeared first on Volont ..read more

If isolation taught us anything, it was that time is currency – and you should spend it seeing new places. But just because you’re headed abroad doesn’t mean you need to leave the orgasms at home. LELO launched a travel-friendly version of its clitoral stimulator, DOT, in a smaller (but still mighty) size that won’t take up precious space in your luggage. Even if you aren’t headed on a European vacation, DOT Travel is perfect for business trips and small […] The post Finally, a Sex Toy Designed for Vacation – DOT Travel appeared first on Volont ..read more

The sexual wellness market is booming. In 2023, the market was valued at $32.7 billion. It has been steadily growing since 2019 and is expected to reach $80.7 billion by 2030. Between 2019 and 2020, it has grown by 26%, mostly due to the pandemic and its effects on singles and couples. Single people invested in exploring and enhancing solo pleasure, and couples were also more interested in experimenting with their sex lives and relationships during the worldwide lockdown. Pandemic-inspired […] The post People are Buying Sex Toys More Than Ever, According to Data appeared first on Volont ..read more