FADING OUT
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A three part post Part 1: IN RETROSPECT I spent 17 years in a marriage to a man with the most psychologically twisted persona I had ever encountered. He looked just like any regular guy.  I had no idea what I was dealing with until it was too late.  After 17 years of pain and stress, with costs to my health, both mental and physical, I left him. After divorcing him, I endured 16 more years of harassment and stalking, spying, breaking and entering and smear campaigns. First he played the victim and cried long and hard about "what was I trying to do kill him?" Then when I didn't re ..read more
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HOLDING ON
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I held onto my children by a thread. I kept hoping for a better outcome, the one where they didn't become narcissists and drug addicts themselves. The one where they didn't betray me, dupe me and use me: The one where they didn't drink and use drugs and abuse their spouses: The one where they didn't abandon their children and families by disappearing so no one could find them: The one where they didn't steal and cheat me or try to contest my inheritance for their own benefit: The one where they didn't bait their spouse into reacting to nude photos on their phone and then follow it up with mali ..read more
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The Bridges and Triangles of Parental Alienation and Psychopathy
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Remembering that this is from my experiences only: It is time now to investigate two triangles: “The Perverse Triangle"”The Cross-Generation Coalition” and “The Triangulation Bridge”. I could continue to reveal to you many accounts of the mistreatment I received from my ex-husband and our two children. I have done some of that in my past posts. What this has led up to, however, is the triangles and bridges. When  a child crosses the rickety, swaying ,dangerous triangulation bridge and turns to look back after reaching the so-called safety on the other side, he/she all too often sees that ..read more
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IF ONLY
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When I began this blog over a year ago I was under the impression that there wasn't much out there on the traumas that I had experienced. There was clinical information on Narcissism but that didn't tell the human story of how much it hurt and why it hurt to endure these things. What I wanted to talk about were the attacks and the callous and heinous ways that these marauders of my soul acted toward me.  I was also on a healing journey of my own. I had been told many times before writing this that writing it down would help me to heal and bring me some peace. Sometimes it did and other ti ..read more
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THE IMPOSSIBLE DREAM
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Things had become so terrifyingly exhausting that I wanted to leave it all behind. I had to find a way to get out from under this torture. I knew I was trapped but maybe there was a different avenue to freedom. I was chatting with a Doctor from another clinic and she was telling me that she could get me all the information I needed to work in the Middle East. She had done it and it had served her well. I asked her about my children and she said that the common practice was to place them in French boarding schools while you sign up for a year over there. I was seriously considering it but after ..read more
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THE FAMILY CON ARTIST.
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They draw on their ability to talk people into things. *I was never sure where this ability came from because it just appeared one day, but later I recognized that it had been practiced over time. Was this part of the genetic makeup which was so evident on my ex’s family line? There was always the chance that they had learned it from someone but who would teach them that? Their father? None-the –less it had become a part of their characters and personalities and something they shared like a genetic trait. They learn what works TO GET THEM WHAT They WANT almost every time. They Practice manipu ..read more
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BLUE RIBBON STRAWBERRY JAM
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About two years before all of the preciously described incidents of betrayal and manipulation had started to show up, I was to be forewarned of unspeakable harmful untruths through a jar of jam. It would be some 30 years before I would unravel how deeply concerning this was and how blind I was to the magnitude of such behaviors. It was something that ran so deep and was so frightening that one would even consider it a curse. There was something in my ex's family line that would bring the best of us to our knees: Something so secretly sinister that it defied description. This thing was so insid ..read more
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"HEY, YOUR SHOES ARE ON BACKWARDS"
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Would it surprise you to know that the answer to the question in my last post is: They are most likely a combination of all of these labels in some form or another; each one having a different set or combination of traits and tactics. They walk like phantoms among us appearing to be a regular guy or girl while concealing their true nature from all who know them. What they hide inside of themselves is a raw force: an acquaintance of which you will never forget. I often think of the story of the trickster coyote in Indian Lore. He is said to have put his shoes on backwards so that nobody would k ..read more
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BY THESE THREE
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It seemed never ending. I was being attacked from all sides. My ex-husband was one day hoovering me and the next day punishing me. He was relentless in his obsession:" I love you, come back to me", to "I will get you for this". My daughter was becoming an alcoholic and was his spy or lieutenant, as they call them. She was sneaky and full of rage. My son was a thief and a closet drug addict and con man. Of course, this was all hidden from sight so they could continue their abuse of me undetected. They enjoyed watching me go crazy because I couldn't figure out the plot and put the pieces togethe ..read more
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UNDERMINING
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Right away my ex began his crusade to play on my emotions to get me back. He sent big bouquet of roses to my office which I either gave away or tossed in the dumpster. He called to plead that he was a pitiful victim and "what was I trying to do kill him?" My counselor had forewarned me about this and cautioned me not to talk to him or agree to discuss any issues with him because he would misinterpret them to mean that I wanted reconciliation. Either that or he would get angry with my answers, so I just said I can't talk right now and hung up every time he called. This provoked nuisance calling ..read more
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