YES, we love flowers. YES, we love jewelry. YES, we love gifts. But what we love more than anything is that you thought about what would make us happy, and you went out of your way to put in the effort behind creating or finding these gifts. Below are ideas from 50 women who shared what they would want within a $100 gift budget. As you’ll see, the majority of these gifts have to do with a pampering and R&R. I hope these gift ideas under $100 for women help you choose something for your lucky lady. ? Massage Skims, Comfy PJ Set, Lingerie, something sentimental  Gold Vermeil Jewel ..read more

One of the most exciting things about love is that it can happen so unexpectedly. You could be in a fender bender and meet your future partner, exchanging insurance information (real story). You could be visiting your Spanish professor in Spain, attend a dinner party, sit across from a beautiful Spanish bombshell who doesn’t speak a lick of English that you’ll soon call your wife (also a true story - my parents’). I’m deeply curious about life and love. So much so that at times I can’t help but ask couples how they met each other. From love at first sight, string theory, to heartbreak/divorce ..read more

We fear the unknown. I remember feeling a sense of pride telling people that I’ve never taken any drugs… whilst holding a tequila drink in my right hand. I had the belief that any mind-altering drug (but not alcohol), would make you feel out of control. That ANY psychedelic drug led to a highly visual experience, or that it could trigger a psychotic episode and change you/ your personality. I knew NOTHING about psychedelics. That is… until I microdosed mushies with my girlfriend at a bar crawl one night. But that’s a tale for another time ?.   An instagram message I received from someon ..read more

Love isn’t for the weak. You’ll see how the majority of responses include underlying emotions of fear: Fear of rejection. Fear of abandonment. Fear of not being enough. Intimacy isn’t just sex, it’s vulnerability. The type where you share the depths of your internal world with someone you hope will choose you regardless of what’s illuminated. This level of vulnerability is scary, I can’t disregard that. But the reward of being fully seen, supported, and celebrated for who you are is worth leaning into every wince of discomfort. The other common responses included: people pleasing, having a lac ..read more

As you know by now, our Instagram community can ask almost anything and receive anonymous crowdsourced insight on various topics. This insight expands our awareness, compassion, and intellect by considering different perspectives and experiences. The Question:     Poor hygiene/ bad odors are extremely repelling. We've relied on our senses for survival. Good smells compel us to seek pleasurable rewards (food, partner choice, sex, etc.). Repelling odors warn us of danger (toxic fumes, diseases, rotten food, etc.). I think ANY girl would be MORTIFIED if they were the girl in this scena ..read more

Men underestimate a woman’s intuition and her investigative work. The second a guy approaches us (online or in person) we begin subconsciously and consciously vetting him. We stalk e v e r y t h i n g. But the most common response from majority of women was that they look at who a guy is following. Scrolling through a guy’s ‘following’ list is very telling. In many cases, it tells a story of fantasy, desires, and past— a pattern. We are looking for a man’s pattern: who he’s attracted to, what he’s attracted to and how he’s spending his time. If the majority of his ‘following list’ is flooded ..read more

In a world where the digital landscape is constantly reshaping our perceptions of intimacy, empowerment, and entrepreneurship, one platform challenged the status quo like never before. OnlyFans, the controversial subscription-based social media platform, created a paradigm shift that blurred the lines between personal and public, intimate and accessible. I asked a friend and former OF content creator, to share her experience on OnlyFans. Through her intimate anecdotes and candid revelations, I was able to peel back the glossy veneer and confront the authentic human experiences that shaped her ..read more

A note from Steph:11/10 recommend reading this article beginning to end. There’s really great insight I share from women for men and vice versa towards the end. Based on 6,000+ men and women who voted. The majority of men and women WANT THEIR PARTNER TO MOAN— authentically. After I posted this question, an overwhelming amount of men messaged me and said they want any and all moaning to be “authentic”. I received a lot of messages similar to this one:     This ☝? goes for men too! Check out a few other messages I received from men: It’s proven that communication between partner ..read more

A man from our Instagram community wanted me to ask our female audience this exact question: “What quality/trait in a man are women LEAST attracted to?”. In turn, 266 women shared their dislikes with me. If you want me to share ALL 266 responses, ping me the in the comments below. I’ll share an update on IG if enough people request all the responses :). PSA: I am working on these related articles below so be on the look out for those this week: Top 5 least desirable traits in a woman according to men. Top 5 most attractive traits in a man according to women. Top 5 most attractive traits ..read more

Ask and you shall receive. Someone from our community asked how long men and women wanted sex to last. Check out the data below based on 1,400+ men and women. Based on 1,456 men and women that voted. Related article: How often do men and women want oral sex? 2% of men want sex to last 5 minutes. 39% of men want sex to last 10-15 minutes. 48% of men want sex to last 20-30 minutes. 11% of men want sex to last 45+ minutes. 3% of women want sex to last 5 minutes. 41% of women want sex to last 10-15 minutes. 50% of women want sex to last 20-30 minutes. 6% of women want sex to last 45+ minutes This ..read more