Hi so me (32M) and my wife (28F) have been together for 5 years. We got officially married (ROM) last year August and planned on having two weddings this year on March and April. At the beginning of March I started noticing behaviours that she was glued to her phone every night and kept the phone face down. This was a red flag for me because we always practiced and open phone concept and never hid it from one another. During the first wedding in March at my hometown, I noticed she was getting more and more glued to her phone but I didn’t say anything because I really did trust her. For the Ap ..read more

This has been bothering me (27m) for a while about my wife(25). My wife does not have a drivers licenses and she was talking about where she would the first places she would go. The back story is that she has a friend that she went to college with (male). She says that they are really good friends, but even her mom thought that they went out together, but she says they didn't. We lived in a really bad neighborhood and had to move. We now live 6 minutes from where he lives. One time I dropped her off at his house and left and really didn't think about it. So yesterda, one of the first places s ..read more

I caught my mom cheating on my father with her 'friend'. I am turning 19 and my mom and my dad are married for 17 years. She had a first husband that she separated with because of cheating (they had my eldest sister and brother), my father also had the baby mama of my 2 older sisters (they weren't married). My mom and dad are not good for each other even before. My dad is a compulsive gambler and a drug addict. My mom is a narcissist. These past few years they have been talking about annulling their marriage because of countless problems that come to our family. But, we never had a problem wi ..read more

I don’t know what to do I’m (21f) feeling extremely isolated and like i’m in a massive depressive state. My long term boyfriend (22m) cheated on me about 6 months ago. We spent two months apart, and then we tried to make it work. It ended up happening again and he told me he also fell out of love with me. I feel so massively brainwashed and alone. I have never been the best at making friends and being with him only made it harder, so I feel like I have no support other than my therapist. I think I also have some pretty significant abandonment issues. The trust I had in him was so, so strong ..read more

I suspected my husband was talking to women online a few times but got the "you're crazy" response. Its been just over a month since I first found out my husband for the last 3.5 years has been sexting hundreds of people online, he never told me I found out because he was getting strange messages on reddit. He said that's all it ever was was online messages... I believed him until 2 weeks later I decided maybe i should go through his old phone and seen messages with a person who talked about being physical with him in our home while I was away with a dying family member ( less than a year ago ..read more

I can’t even begin to explain the empty feeling in my chest and how hard it is so fall asleep some nights. I wish I would have known that this would never go away back when I decided to stay in the relationship after they fucked everything up, it would have been a lot easier to leave back then. I don’t feel like the same person and I don’t like myself anymore. I don’t think someone who loves me would put me through all this, but at this point I don’t think anyone could love me for who I am so its hard to leave when I genuinely don’t think I’ll ever be able to be in a relationship where I don ..read more

I had no idea for a title. I'm feeling off balance at the moment, but ducks do really come into it. Last year in June was my Dday and today is the first time in awhile for me going outside and doing something recreational. I always loved the outdoors, but ever since I discovered things - I don't like or want to do much anything. So today our daughter got a fishing license and now we're at a nearby pond. It's a place me and DH used to go to frequently when we lived closer to it. After a few minutes of being here it hit me. Memories of us coming here and I was happy, but at the same time totall ..read more

I had no idea for a title. I'm feeling off balance at the moment, but ducks do really come into it. Last year in June was my Dday and today is the first time in awhile for me going outside and doing something recreational. I always loved the outdoors, but ever since I discovered things - I don't like or want to do much anything. So today our daughter got a fishing license and now we're at a nearby pond. It's a place me and DH used to go to frequently when we lived closer to it. After a few minutes of being here it hit me. Memories of us coming here and I was happy, but at the same time totall ..read more

Please refer to my last post here: https://www.reddit.com/r/Infidelity/s/uc01MQ5iU8 The context is needed: TLDR context: gf cheated on me 6 months ago a week before we got together, even though we had an exclusive agreement, and then told me 2 weeks ago. After about 5-6 days no contact, she said she really needed to talk to me and I agreed to meet her today. I don’t know what she had in mind, but I knew my mind was not changing. She cried. She wrote a whole ass ode almost, to me, saying how I am the one who showed her the spark in life, how I brought the twinkle back to her. How I’m the only ..read more

I, 32m, and my wife, 33f, have been married for almost a year now. Seven months into our marriage, I catch her in an emotional affair (spicy text messages) with a coworker that lasted a whole day and would have continued had I not caught her when I did. She trickle truthed me about this dude from the very beginning, and the month leading up to the cheating, lied to me about not talking to him outside of work. Fast forward four months, her and I have been arguing for awhile now and it's definitely put an extra strain on our relationship. The argument got a little escalated, to the point where ..read more