A funny opener is especially effective when you’re a man. Self-deprecation and humorous envy work; jokes against other people – not necessarily. Why are humorous openers a good idea?  About 60% of singles are more likely to respond to a message if it’s funny, underscoring how humor can be a game-changer in online dating. Humor is an effective way to start a conversation because it’s unexpected and grabs attention. In a world where everyone is trying to impress, it’s an easy-going and effective approach, especially in the first few messages. A funny opener is especially impact ..read more

The wig girlies are my heros. They can change it up and NOT miss a Beat!!!!! Curly one day! Straight another day! But I literally know NOTHING about wigs. But again the girlies at Irresistible Me got me RIGHT!  Get your note pad ready! What’s the shortest wig length that you sell vs. The longest? Our shortest wig is the pixie wig in 4" inches, and our longest wig is the put on & go pre-cut lace wavy human wig natural black -  in 28" inches.  What does a pre-plucked hairline mean?  A pre-plucked hairline means that the wig's front hairline has been carefully plucked t ..read more

Congratulations on your pregnancy! I'm already 10 months PP! I can hardly believe it. As a mum-to-be, you are probably doing everything you can to ensure that you and your little one are healthy and happy.  One of the most annoying thing while being pregnant is sticking to a diet. While there are many foods that can help you stay healthy during pregnancy, there are also some foods that you should avoid. Here's a quick rundown of the foods to steer clear of.  1. Raw or undercooked meats: These can be a source of harmful bacteria such as E. coli and Salmonella.    2. Fi ..read more

This one is for my self-employed girlies/entrepreneurs.  Sooo 6 months have got gone by and I'm back to work.  I'm happy for money but sad I didn't have 18 months were it was dedicated solely to baby girl. I'm writing this anyone who might be or could be in my position. If you're returning to work, it's important to discuss certain boundaries with your clients. This is hard BUT needed. This could include establishing clear communication about your schedule, times when they can reach out to you and outlining your expectations for accommodations, such as pumping breaks or flexible ..read more

5 years ago, I stepped into the world of Mommy blogging in Canada... It's been fun. I've had the opportunity to have some cool experiences and bring my whole family along.  Some mommy blogging tips! First and foremost, it's important to have a clear understanding of your audience. Identify your niche and your target audience. For example: Black moms in Canada or breast feeding moms in USA.  Next, focus on building relationships. Networking/connecting is essential. Plus it can all be done online(if you're shy). Go to mommy events, connect with other bloggers/content creators/infl ..read more

Baby #2 is on her way! Pregnancy can be an amazing but also a challenging time. No one reminded me that doing all this with a child is WORK!! Also with so many physical and emotional changes happening, it's easy to feel overwhelmed or negative at times.   Here are some tips to help you stay positive during your pregnancy. *I'm using them too:   1. Surround Yourself with Support: Lean on your partner, friends, and family for encouragement and support. Connect with other moms-to-be, and seek out positive influences that lift your mood.  2. Take Care of Yourself:&nb ..read more

Are you on the hunt for some great deals on baby clothes?  Thrifting can be a great way to save money while also finding some unique and stylish pieces. Here are a few things to keep in mind when thrifting for baby clothes.   1. Check for stains and signs of wear:  Make sure to thoroughly inspect each item for any stains, rips, or other signs of wear and tear.  It's also a good idea to give everything a good wash before putting it on your baby.   2. Look for quality fabrics:  While thrifted clothes may not always be name-brand or designer, you can ..read more

Ava started daycare when she was 17 months. And I was very reluctant on sending her. Why? I worked from home and felt like I had to keep her home. BUT the truth was she needed little friends. Something that I couldn't give her (being an only child). So we started daycare part-time so she could have the best of both worlds. A bit of time with friends her age and home with mommy. When it comes to picking a daycare every family has different needs, so you should know what is important to you way before you step foot into a facility. These might be small BUT very important questions to ask your ..read more

I'm 20 months into my aligner journey. Such a tricky decision when you're in you 30's. At first, I tried to figure out which option was best for me: braces or clear aligners. Both have their pros and cons, and ultimately, the decision comes down to your personal preference.  Come with me while I take you through my thought process. Appearance  Braces are metal brackets and wires that are visible and tightened. Clear aligners, on the other hand, are made to be invisible and custom-made to fit your teeth. They are made of a clear, flexible plastic material that fits over the teet ..read more

Congratulations on your pregnancy mama! It is a wonderful time of your life when you experience a lot of changes, both physical and emotional. With Ava my skin was really good until after birth. Here are a few things you may experience. When it comes to your skin, you may notices such as breakouts, stretch marks, and dryness. If you're a part of the lucky bunch who haven't experienced this... how do you like being God's favourite LOL. I'm joking...  I will be sharing some of the must-have skincare products that every pregnant woman should consider adding to their routine.  1. S ..read more