I am 20F lesbian. My parents did not have a very good marriage. My dad financially and mentally abused my mom. My dad's mother told my mom that I would never amount to anything because half my DNA was my mother's DNA. I saw my mom cry on the phone to her parents multiple times to her parents. But she still stayed with my dad as divorce and separation were taboo and she did not want to give me the stigma of having divorced parents. Also, she had less earning potential than my dad. Plus (she used to argue), if they divorced, my dad would just marry another woman and ruin her life too. When I wa ..read more

So basically as the title says, how do you manage to avoid parents eyes and go for a hookup? Personally I find it very difficult because my parents are very intrusive and always want to know where am I , what am I doing, etc etc. submitted by /u/Seolasia [visit reddit] [comments ..read more

I never used Grindr, and even though I want to get laid, i don't like how hypersexualized the community is and the sex without attachment that people usually do. I don't like the idea that people simply date to get into the pants of other people at the end of the day. Even though I am not asexual but i don't like the way sex is represented within the community. Do you think there is screws loose in my head? submitted by /u/Radheon [visit reddit] [comments ..read more

I am guessing that this post will be not liked by many and might be downvoted as well but here I go. Do your worst !! as a bottom guy, all other bottoms i came across are straight up rude. They judge your every step. They judge your looks thoroughly in bits and pieces. They act like the main character because they're in high demand and tops will be mad in love for them. Either they will be Nicki Minaj fan or a swiftie who will judge by your Spotify playlist. Will Use slang or cuss at you at every random moment. Are usually More femme than my straight female friends. Does want a relationship b ..read more

It's been about an hour since I sat down to write this. There was a time when I had to push myself to write about something that wasn't you. But today, I have to sit and think for ages to come up with something that has you in it. Lately, my thoughts have been different. Not tainted with your voice, not covered in your name. It's supposed to be better, but it feels anything but that. It feels like someone is pulling away a piece of me and I'm not ready to let go. Yesterday I went to our spot. I walked through every lane we walked together, only to make myself feel you again. Telling mysel ..read more

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I am 20F, lesbian now. As long as I have known, I have wanted to be a boy. When I was about 3/4, I once spent an entire afternoon trying to figure out how to pee standing up with the apparatus I have already got. I was not successful. When I was about 5, I started grade school and literally used the boys bathroom till I got caught and reprimanded by one of my teachers. At about age 6-7, I started cutting up glue bottles to use as a "pee funnel". This worked, but I could not use this as peeing outside would have gotten me bullied and my parents would have gotten super suspicious if I carried i ..read more

Dating apps have plunged and deteriorated in quality according to me and queer mixers barely help me meet new people who are willing to open themselves up to me. I am emotionally drained from constantly searching for a meaningful connection. Its going downhill and I am loosing hope. I wish for a partner to witness my life with me and for some reason this wish keeps eluding me. I just want to be held and seen. Is this too much to ask? submitted by /u/Forward_Yam_6999 [visit reddit] [comments ..read more

I think the place we've gone wrong in society is when change became something to be ashamed of. ​ Why fight for rights by saying we are 'born this way' or 'like that forever'? ​ We deserve to live, and it shouldn't matter if gender is learned because it doesn't change that gender identity should be respected. ​ it shouldn't matter if sexuality is born from trauma, or is innate for a person, it's okay anyway. ​ we are the way we are, regardless of how we came to be. ​ If we don't start trying to change the mindset of truth being unchanging and stone solid, then every time we have to fight for ..read more

Venturing beyond my comfort zone, I boldly embraced feminine attire, complemented by makeup and acrylic nails, along with stylish block heel boots, for the first time in the lively streets of the capital city. It was a courageous step, pushing the boundaries of self-expression and fostering newfound confidence within me. Each stride amidst the bustling atmosphere felt like a triumph in my journey of self-discovery. Despite initial apprehension, the experience proved to be incredibly empowering. Excited to share this milestone with you all! submitted by /u/EnigmaticEscapist [visit reddit ..read more