It may not matter to you, but it matters to me.  When the respect is gone, how do you muddle though? I know there’s a lot of parents out there who have this bugbear about clothes sharing with an ex for weekend visits.  You get to the point that you resent sending away brand new clothes because there’s a chance they never come back.  School things required for the following week end up sitting in someone else’s house.  It’s very frustrating. Often it’s the mum tearing her hair out wondering why they just can’t return things. I was glad when my ex complained about not liking the cl ..read more