So I(F15) knew this guy(M14)when I was in 8th and he was in 7th, now a year later freshman and 8th grade. Recently he started texting me and we started talking and so on, we aren’t official yet. He wants to hangout this weekend and his friend and his friends gf will come to the mall with us. Im debating on going, not that I don’t want to go, I’m just nervous bc most of the time it’s awkward as we didn’t really KNOW each other it was like a hallway wave friend. Sm helppp I’m so scared of it being awkward and uncomfortable submitted by /u/AccurateAdeptness758 [visit reddit] [comments ..read more

I need help. i’m a 16M and my partner is a 16M trans. We’ve been dating for about a year and se have both been through multiple bad relationships prior. Their last relationship was with someone who held a gun to their face, and my last relationship was with someone who tried to stab me, and we bonded over that. Recently, our relationship has been hard on me, as they keep on disappearing and not responding to my messages. they then appear, saying they were in a hospital. They’ve disappeared again. I’m really worried about them, but the thing that’s also been a really difficult time with is tha ..read more

I saw the end of my first intense relationship about a month and a half ago. It lasted about 1 1/2 - 2 months, and in the end my partner decided I wasn't what she wanted. Here's a little background info before I get to the point: We met through volunteering and hit it off. She said she was "holding herself back" from liking me for a while but eventually showed intense feelings for me. I reciprocated and the relationship grew. In hindsight, we may have gotten intense too quickly. We both made it clear how much we liked talking to each other. She considered us "casual" but had an intense defini ..read more

Hello. Just to preface this, she told me this all in PE a few weeks ago and I've just took to reddit. I'll try to remember as many details I can. TLDR at the bottom. Here are all the fake names: My friend --> Becky (16F) Becky's best friend --> Ashley (16F) Becky's other best friend --> Jackson (17M) Guy Becky was talking to --> Ralph (16M) School Social Security Officer --> SSO So a few weeks ago, I noticed Becky wasn't responding to my texts anymore. I asked her the next day at school and she told me she got her phone taken away. I asked her again and Becky avoided the ques ..read more

Sorry for the grammatical errors, I am so tired these days due to school and relationship stuff my head can’t catch a break I (16F) like this guy (16M) let’s call him N, N is a very sweet guy and has legit all my boxes checked off. I share a lot of mutual friends with him so I can kinda talk to him in real life (not really since I get way too nervous) but right now I’m struggling with trying to see if I’m doing anything wrong, I try to find and content through our mutual interests like poems, and philosophy. He seems super engaged but then he never initiated conversation with me so I am just ..read more

For context, me (17M) and my ex (16F) had gotten together last year at the end of summer break and we had been dating for nearly 6 months when she broke up with me. I made a lot of mistakes in the relationship because this was my 2nd relationship ever and I recognize how much I messed up but I tried my best to be loving like how I thought I should be. I bought her multiple gifts for Christmas and her birthday and tried to be really good to her and I used to write her notes every morning for awhile to give her on the bus. She was very rough on the exterior but would be really sweet occasionall ..read more

I would really appreciate some advice from anyone who has experienced a similar situation. For context, me and my boyfriend Gavin met while in high school though a mutual friend, and became close as we were in the same friend group. Mid way through our senior year (August 2023), I found out that Gavin had had feelings for me ever since we met but never perused his feelings. I realised that I had feelings for Gavin too. It was slightly complicated because I was moving to a different state for university, so we agreed to be exclusive without explicitly discussing dating. By March 2024, we were ..read more

Hi, this has been a problem for a bit and I am absolutely lost what to do and where to go now. As you read the title, I am under personal situation where I have a crush or feelings for someone, but I am still in a relationship that I have been in for a year. I think it’s best if I gave a little bit of background. The person who I’ve been dating which I will call her R who is a grade older than me first started dating in the beginning of last year which would make her the first person I’ve ever been in a relationship with. The whole chunk in the middle of that year was a really great experienc ..read more

I (15F) have gone through a similar situation to the one I am in now. I liked the same guy as my ex-friend, and she caused a lot of drama which made the guy I liked ghost me (btw he liked me back). Now I am in a similar situation with my best friend (15F) who helped me through the drama with my ex-friend who is also her ex-friend. Recently I got to know this guy again (16M) and began to like him. I had told my friend a couple weeks ago that I liked him. Then recently she would brag about how she got invited to a dance with the guy I like. After that she was like "I think I like him" so I kind ..read more

Me and this guy used to talk and we both had mutual feelings for eachother. To the lead up of him breaking it off, he was acting completely normal and was responding fast, but the day right before our hangout (That he offered) He said he wanted to be left alone, and that he wasn’t getting attached and he wasn’t ready. I didn’t respond, and the next day he continued to text me asking for me to please respond to him, and to talk to him. I told him I wanted to leave him alone because thats what he wished for, and he told me I should not leave him alone, and he was open to being friends. Reguardl ..read more