As an INFJ, I am always having a hard a time socializing with people first. I just started my first job and I feel really out of place whenever I’m with my colleagues. How do you guys cope up with this kind of situation? Do you open a topic to start a conversation? submitted by /u/seimahnem [visit reddit] [comments ..read more

Over the last 5 years when I decided to move abroad and away from my family to face the uncertainty of life in a foreign country of which I didn’t speak the language I was a very scared boy who thought he knew what he was doing. In the first two years of adventure I found out about MBTI Personality Test kind of thing and I was very excited. I was in a process of discovering myself so it was great to have a community of like minded people to share my ideas and struggles which were probably very similar. Over the years though I changed a lot in regards to my personality, and despite knowing it ..read more

I’ve always had a strange experience of time but tonight a particular thought really stuck out to me. I was making yogurt for the first time and it was a success. As I was putting the pot in the fridge to strain, I felt accomplished and thought “this is something I’d like to do when I’m an adult” …and I realized that I have these thoughts frequently, but I am well into being an adult. This kinda happens with everything, like a perpetual feeling of disconnect with the present. Always thinking I’ll figure everything out further along, but then I snap out of it and realize I AM “further along” a ..read more

I'm 25M and I have been witnessing lots of changes in my personality for the past 4 years or so. I think it's largely due to developing Ti. I have had same freinds for the oast 7 years and there is a stark difference between how I feel and interact with them 7 years before and now For example I'm more reserved now, I hate small talk even though I'm capable of it. I also don't take any disrespect and I'm more aggressive than before. I also have started to strategize my relationships and i have started to hate people a lot, which I never did as a teenager. I also started to care less what other ..read more

Where do ppl like this usually hang out besides work or school? I feel like ppl like this are rare and hard to spot irl submitted by /u/TheHoundven [visit reddit] [comments ..read more

As an INFJ, what nametag would you give yourself? ___________________________________________ ___________________________________________ submitted by /u/useriogz [visit reddit] [comments ..read more

All of the following types have been named as "golden pairs" for INFJs, so I wanted to figure out which is the most compatible from an INFJ point of view. View Poll submitted by /u/Tight-Cartoonist-708 [visit reddit] [comments ..read more

Hey everyone! I fell that many INFJs might relate to my predicament. I have done a lot of personal growth over the last 10 years and as a result I am often sought for advice and information by my friends. However, the situation is now totally imbalanced as I feel that most of my friends are now taking a lot more than they are giving. Has this happened to any of you? If so, what did you do? Were you able to find some friends who didn't seek your advice so much and who were able to show up equally for you? submitted by /u/petitemere88 [visit reddit] [comments ..read more

I saw something one time that said people's first kiss was at age 15, and I was like there's no way. I over 15, but below 18, and never even gotten close to one. I'm curious when you guys' were? submitted by /u/KadenHays07 [visit reddit] [comments ..read more

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