I'm an introvert. I spend time hanging out with friends, mainly on important occasions, but then I have to spend time alone to recharge. The last time we went out was in early March for a birthday celebration. In early April, I was invited to continue going to a friend's house far away to visit, but I strongly refused. Now they invite me again, but this time I was wondering whether I should go or not. There are 4 people in our group. This time one of them wanted me to join to help another 2 friends make up because they had a conflict. I really want them to stop being angry with each other, bu ..read more

Every few months, the topic of "anti-social" people in the work place comes up on some of my social media and I find myself seeing a lot of "You should be friendly to your coworkers" and "The people who don't talk are always weird and off". These are usually in response to people who hold the cardinal "Your coworkers are not your friends" opinion. Yes, we spend a lot of time at work and yes it can be the only way to meet people, but the reality is, if some shit goes down, you're going to be on your own. This topic continues to show that extroverted people cannot stop projecting onto those of ..read more

Hellooo, i learn English and i need practice my speaking, because it's really hard for me. I tried to speak in Tandem parties, but there are so many people who i think extraverts and they speak very fast and i don't understand them. of course it doesn't depend who speak fast or slowly by who are you, extravert or introvert. I just want to try talk with people who looks like me Little bit about me: I'm 24, I'm from Kyrgyzstan. I like cats, playing piano, drawing. I'm interested in language learning(English, Japanese, and i wanna start to learn Chinese), Japanese and Chinese culture(anime, mang ..read more

Here’s some context: Growing up, I was shy and awkward. Pretty much throughout my elementary and high school experience, I never really had any real friends I have had some temporary friends but those didn’t last long. I never had those experiences where I had stories to share and what not. It wasn’t until I was 22 where I reconnected with an old high school acquaintance and since then we became close friends. This led me to making two other close friends and fostering my own social circle too. I mean I am still awkward, but I made friends with people who are popular and outgoing. I am 28 now ..read more

Hi everyone! I’m highly considering a niche type of business venture that would solve a problem that both myself and a few other introverted individuals have encountered, and I want your opinion on whether or not it’s something you’d be interested in if it came to your city! The local business community in my area is booming, so I have no concerns in terms of connections and marketing, just in pure interest. As we all know, most introverts love a solo day of zero social responsibilities. That being said, the options to “go do something” while remaining solo are limited: outdoor walks, go to t ..read more

Im looking for a girl that introverted, anti-social, socially damaged and over 28... We can build up and shape the life we need.. -no matter where from. -no matter which language we can speak. submitted by /u/RISER-8 [visit reddit] [comments ..read more

My first relationship and I get so drained and anxious. Advice please I'm introvert. Im dating a nice guy. My first relationship. He had previous where he lived with his ex. They Brooke up 6 months ago. I get horrible feeling in stomach when I'm around him sometimes and I feel drained. He has had this too. We call it a horrible vibe. I get it slot and it worried me it's a flag we are compatible .idk what causes it. I'm looking for advice. I want to continue seeing him but I'm afraid later down the line I won't like him but I'll be too far in. I obsess over tiny differences or if I get irritat ..read more

I guess I should've been more vocal that I'm cool with not having one but they were insisting and I figured it is a bit cooler to just let it happen but it fees so weird to me. For some context, I was the opening crew of a restaurant that opened up and had been vocal that I would be leaving at X date so there were no surprises. I just had prior arrangements to move back home. So I've been working there half a year now and that date is up and they wanted to throw a mini get together at the store one last day which is cool but I really hope they don't expect me to speak or anything. And there i ..read more

i’ve always been like this, I could tell you something in full detail of a random conversation we had 7 months ago but remember the outfit you were wearing. i’ll notice something random like you scratch your left eye everyday but today you were scratching your right eye for some reason. or just very little behavior changes that shouldn’t even be noticeable but for some reason I can tell if something seems off. I’m with my girlfriend basically 24/7 so a lot of times i’ll do something that helps her before she even thinks about it. For some more context, i’m a quiet person, not in like a social ..read more

I love having friends and do like to be around people more and more. But I always have this feeling that my relationships are "hanging by a thin line" like if I don't put any energy in it, text or update people are forgetting about me right away. I don't say that this is happening but thats how I feel like. Is this a normal feeling, should I just chill about it and let thibgs go their way without feeling pressured to always put energy in it? Like i get "nervous" that i might lost a friend if they dont text back for a few days, i mean its not the best sign if it happens a lot (which it doesnt ..read more