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Sociable Introvert
1y ago
“To go wrong in one’s own way is better than to go right in someone else’s.”
― Fyodor Dostoyevsky, Crime and Punishment
Earlier this year I turned 30 and this post pretty much sums up my life experience for the last decade.
I procrastinated on writing my thoughts down regarding this event for half a year. Mostly due to the high stress to make it perfect I had put on my shoulders. Such dates happen just once, so it felt like I had to hone every detail of this post to perfection.
“Every thought must be thought through and shine brighter than the sun,” – I thought. The old good perfectionism, bot ..read more
Sociable Introvert
4y ago
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Sociable Introvert
4y ago
Homeostasis is the
ability of a system to remain balanced. As many of life phenomens this one has
two sides as well. From one point it helps to maintain an inner equilibrium despite
the chaos of the external world. This ability provides high chance that a
system will adapt and survive. If a system is not able to restore its balance,
it may cease to function.
From the other hand
this is the reason why it’s so hard for us to get new experience.
We tend to live in the
most comfort way we can afford. We’re striving for it naturally. This means
that every new experience that lies beyond the ..read more
Sociable Introvert
4y ago
There is a
popular belief that a successful man must control 100% of his/her life. If circumstances
prevail over your plans, then you’re weak.
This belief
was shaped by countless self-help gurus.
It has to
be said, that I’m quite a fan of self-development and this blog has quite a
bunch of content focused on personal growth. However, this does not replace the
fact that life coaches are people, and people, as you know, make mistakes.
Initially,
I was an adept of this belief as well. I truly believed that it’s just you who’s
responsible for everything that takes place in your life. If ..read more
Sociable Introvert
4y ago
Lately, I was approached by a completely fucked up
exponent of human race. This so called person works for one of the clients of
the company I’m currently working for.
I was publicly and unexpectedly accused of asking
payment for the software that “didn’t work at all”. Unfortunately, that’s quite
a widespread characterization of a software engineer’s work by a pea-brained
employee from the client’s side.
Those who can formulate the task correctly and in case
of problems work on them together in an adequate way worth their weight in
gold. Of course, it’s not required to say that these peo ..read more
Sociable Introvert
4y ago
We want to be nice, so we lend money to a friend, who has just wasted his/her on a brand-new car.
We want to be helpful so we solve colleague’s problem when we’re not asked/obliged.
We want to be loyal to the company or our boss, so we keep working several hours beyond 6 pm, answering phone and replying to email on weekends. No overtime pay, of course, just “Thank you. You’re a good man.”
Bran Stark to Theon Greyjoy Game of Thrones You’re good manWe eager to be trustworthy, so we take more and more responsibilities, until we burn out.
We want to be loved, oh yes, we really do ..read more
Sociable Introvert
4y ago
Making the ancient Greek goddesses as good examples is a spectacular path for every lady to build up the self-esteem and gratefulness for herself as a lady standing total in her capacity.
Recognizing the qualities of every one of the models and seeing these qualities within her, every lady winds up ready to approve the sparkling light of her inner goddess.
The seven goddess archetypes are listed below:
1. Artemis: Goddess of the Hunt and Moon
She’s an embodiment of the free ladylike soul who is confident, focused, and goal-oriented. Artemis esteems sisterhood and is relentless in ..read more
Sociable Introvert
4y ago
В последнее время всё сложнее заставить себя дойти до кинотеатра: жалко тратить деньги на шаблонный сюжет, пялиться в темноте на экран (учитывая, сколько времени в день проводишь перед экраном), а после просмотра еще несколько часов отходить от месива спецэффектов.
Таким фильмом был Годзилла 2 ..read more