The Quarter Life Coach
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The Quarter Life Coach
4y ago
Oh, how I loved the words ‘Well
done!’. I was a total sucker for those words. Approval was like a drug and it
made me feel warm and cosy inside. Anything from doing a painting to acing a spelling
test to just being a good girl- I was hooked on praise! It was easy to get as
well; the rules were clearly defined and established. Keep your head down, stay
quiet and be good.
As I got older and moved through secondary school, the rules seemed to change but no one told me. The praise wasn’t as forthcoming and what took its place regularly was criticism. There wasn’t any excitement or celebration ..read more
The Quarter Life Coach
5y ago
Most of the decisions we make on
a day to day basis are simple and straight forward: we decide on what to wear,
what to watch on Netflix, what to eat for lunch etc. They don’t cause us too
much stress or inner turmoil- most of the time!
However, the prospect of having to make career decisions can leave many people feeling completely stuck, powerless and scared. Our career is such a big part of our lives that ultimately, a new decision in this area will actually change your life.
No pressure right?
Should you move city for work? Do
you take that promotion? Do you walk away from the in ..read more
The Quarter Life Coach
5y ago
This is one of my favourite topics and the
reason why about 90% of my coaching clients come to me for support! Decisions!
It’s the core of the quarter life crisis- some of the biggest decisions that we
make in our lives happen in our 20s and 30s in relation to travel, love and
dating, career, where we’re going to settle, what we’re going to do with our
lives. It’s overwhelming for so many people because a) there’s so many choices
and b) we don’t know how to make decisions!
What happens then is we tend to get quite
paralysed, get into cycles of over-thinking, start feeling anxious and feel
u ..read more
The Quarter Life Coach
5y ago
(The secret to great relationships)
Myself and Colm have a great marriage and we’ve had an
amazing relationship for almost a decade. Obviously we do of course have
arguments and frustrations and I want to slap him when he’s snoring and keeping
me awake- but for the most part we’re a really good team!
One of the things I credit with that, is knowing each other’s
love language. Many years ago, I came across a book called the ‘5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman’ and
wow- it made so much sense!
Imagine you’re in a relationship, you’re dating or you’re
married- you know that there is real lo ..read more
The Quarter Life Coach
5y ago
Sounds like a strange statement for a life coach to
make but trust me on this…. For the past 8 years, I have supported thousands
of women and men around the world who felt stuck, uncertain, at a crossroads
and trying to figure out what their next step would be. The problem always came
down to these three things:
Conflict of desiresLack of self beliefPersonal resources of time, energy and attentionWe’ll start with conflicts
of desires.
We all have things that are important to us, things
we want to do, be and have this week, this year and in our lives. Often, and I
mean really often- the t ..read more
The Quarter Life Coach
5y ago
The following story is one that’s
been circulating for awhile.
A professor of philosophy stood before his class with some items in front of
him. When the class began, wordlessly he picked up a large empty jar and
proceeded to fill it with rocks about two inches in diameter. He then asked the
students if the jar was full.
They agreed that it was full.
So the professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar.
He shook the jar lightly and watched as the pebbles rolled into the open areas
between the rocks. The professor then asked the students again if the jar ..read more