Hi! So I got inspired by that post about singing and voice ranges I saw earlier in this sub and was wondering. Is/was there someone's voice that makes/made you think "if I sound anything like them someday, I'll be the happiest"? To me it'd be Hozier. A thunderous voice, powerful and soft at the same time. submitted by /u/floof_goof [visit reddit] [comments ..read more

My friend and I (both trans) transitioned medically when we were 17. Texas has resumed investigations into trans families and my friend’s mom was given a notice to appear last Monday. She went and said there were about 12 other families there. And it’s probably only a matter of time till my dad gets a notice. I don’t want to loose either of them. I feel scared, and I’m not sure what to do with myself. Shit like this makes me feel like nothing I do matters because the powers that be hate me for being trans and will do anything to ruin my (or others I love) life. But I know worrying about it ri ..read more

Dude I’m on my like 8th UTI in 12 months. For context: -all UTIs have been confirmed w urinalyses at a dr office -been on T for a little less than a year and a half -always wash hands and genitals, partner’s hands and genitals, and toys before touching my genitals -don’t allow for possible contact w front hole by anything that’s already touched my ass or theirs -wipe front to back and have started using a bidet since -my sheets are clean -YES I use estradiol cream -I get them either after having sex or after using a toy, regardless of whether I use a condom or not -YES I pee after sex / mastu ..read more

I have this major health anxiety and I literally panic every time I have a headache or get a cat scratch, so I am insanely worried about starting Hrt. This is partially because my mom tells me I'll die in 8 years if I start hrt but like the damage is already done I guess and besides I freak out about taking any prescribed medication so... I know everyone says hrt its fine but like is it? My family has a history of intestinal cancer, hypothyroidism, anemia, osteoporosis, arthritis and my 24 year old brother has osteonecrosis I think. I have asthma (but its not serious), constant stomach issues ..read more

some nsfw & generally uncomfortable topics, please lmk if not suitable for here! not sure how to articulate well, ig hoping to hear if anyone relates? dating straight I’m ok with people not accepting/being interested, but my ex was the opposite? to simplify, very ‘over-invested’ in the fact im trans. loved to tell others ’(when he said he was trans) I was WAY more interested’. would crudely joke with me/around friends about my body or trans life, often monologued on serious disgust/hate of men as a whole (and cis exes). I was stealth those days but she told just a couple people we knew mo ..read more

I don't know if anyone will actually care about this, but I'm super excited and happy. I just came out to my older brother and he took it really well and was super supportive. It gave me a lot of hope for when and if I come out to my parents soon. Anyways, have a wonderful day!!! submitted by /u/that_gay_gal [visit reddit] [comments ..read more

i’m stealth and my friends sit on my lap or grope me as a joke. if they feel a rough stp, they’re gonna think im constantly hard. i really need a squishy one? any ideas? submitted by /u/raisankid [visit reddit] [comments ..read more

Sorry for spelling and grammar I'm 15 and vary emotional rn.my mom just got off the phone with a clinic in Mexico (whare I'm trying to get T from in 13 days) and said I could change my name legally to Mylo, and was told our insurance covers our travel.this will be my 3rd attempt to get on T I'm so excited and scared rn ,and for the future I already have a top surgery Referral from the last attempt to get on T. submitted by /u/dino_mylo9 [visit reddit] [comments ..read more

WHY are so many trans dudes into petplay??? Particularly the puppy play subgenre of kink. If no one has studied this, they need to, and if they have, please send me a link. I am genuinely interested in the science. Because there has to be a link. There is no way it's all merely coincidental. this isn't shaming at all btw, I myself fall into this category lol. it's just silly to me that it's so common to find a transmasc fella in the community. submitted by /u/Feisty_Airport3572 [visit reddit] [comments ..read more

How do you guys find finding people? whether mainstream apps, trans targeted dating apps/ sites, or just ‘traditionally.’ is it any harder for trans people than it is for cis people? I’ve never tried online dating cause i feel like it’s kind of pointless? I’m bi but for various reasons i’m only really looking for cis guys or trans women, but I know there are pretty much 0 trans women in my town, and very few guys willing to get it on with another guy, especially since i’m on T now so it’s harder for them to pretend I’m female (which i don’t mind, casual sex is casual sex yknow) Wondering if i ..read more