We Speak Connection. Our sexologists and sex therapists can help you learn to deepen emotional and sexual intimacy. Schedule a Free Consultation Transitions are so important in attachment. They can be as mundane (yet beautiful) as a daily sunset and the comings and goings of individuals back into togetherness... but it is a time of vulnerability. We are wired to connect and even subtle transitions and changes call for mindful embodied attunement. Simply put, have a belly to belly and heart to heart embrace with your partner, or offer words of affirmation or simply hold hands and smile. Making ..read more

We Speak Relationship. We Understand Sexuality. Our San Francisco and globally based sexologists and sex therapists can help you learn how to talk about sex and cultivate deeper intimacy. Let’s Talk! Schedule a Free Discovery Call ..read more

We Speak Relationship. Have a healthy and fulfilling intimate sex life. Let’s Talk! The most basic of all human needs is the need to understand and be understood. The best way to understand people is to listen to them. This applies to intimate emotional connections, as well as dynamic & satisfying authentic sexual experiences.  San Francisco Intimacy & Sex Therapy Centers offers sexuality coaching, intimacy counseling, couples counseling and Sex therapy. We Speak Sex ..read more

A Couples Counselor, Sex Therapist & Love & Relationship Coach From California Relationship Centers and San Francisco Intimacy & Sex Therapy Centers, Speaks On Why Your Relationship or Marriage Is Struggling and How Our Couples Therapists Can Help You Have A Healthy Relationship Here at California Relationship Centers, most people seeking couples therapy or coaching, believe they have too much conflict, don’t tend to resolve conflict, feel disconnected, and/or believe they are not very good at communicating.  If a couple has prior experience with any type of therapy or coachi ..read more

Is Change Possible?  A few years ago I watched a lesser-known movie with Meryl Streep and Tommy Lee Jones, called "Hope Springs." In the film, an older couple is trapped in a loveless marriage until one of them takes the initiative to try and change that. Early in the film, the wife asks a friend: "Is it possible to change one’s marriage?" The unequivocal answer of her friend is: "No!" Despite this discouragement, what follows is a full-fledged effort at couples therapy in the form of a week-long out-of-town therapy intensive in which lasting positive changes are made. As a couples thera ..read more

Joy might save your relationship. What is joy? Joy is an emotional mix of delight and happiness. Joy uplifts us at our deepest level of self, and often inspires love, excitement, hope, fulfillment, and a feeling of richness to life. Joy is simple, yet also deeply impactful. Joy is an emotion we often do not give enough credit to, and as adults, we tend to forget about prioritizing it, altogether. Cultivating joy is not only important in your own life, but also in your partnerships. In fact, joy within your partnership is not only pleasant, but also an absolute necessity to creating a healthy ..read more

 Message of Hope for Couples in Conflict It seems like almost every time you talk to your partner, you can immediately feel the tension between you. You can sense the conversation is not going to go well. It’s become very familiar. That circular arguing and fussing that seems to go nowhere but planet hurt. When faced with re-occurring negative relationship patterns that trigger stress, anxiety, and a plethora of other uncomfortable (to say the least) emotions, there are four common thoughts that can come up that are extremely de-stabilizing and can make the situation worse than it is. I w ..read more

Napa Valley  Couples Therapy Center: We Speak Relationship. Leading SF Bay Area Marriage Counselors and Sex Therapists can help you have the relationship you desire. Let's Talk It's Inevitable. All couples will argue and push each other’s buttons at times. In fact, partnerships often bring up our core wounds and needs, bringing to the surface that which most needs attention. This happens in many forms, but it is most obvious when we are triggered, such as when our partner’s behaviors activate a sensitive issue within us. A couples counselor can help you figure out the anatomy of how a fi ..read more

RECOMMENDED READING FOR A CALMER MIND & DEEPER CONNECTION TO SELF AND OTHERS: In order to maximize the work you are doing in Individual, Couples or Sex therapy, our San Francisco psychotherapists & psychologists recommend that you do some reading in between sessions.   SAN FRANCISCO COUPLES THERAPY & SEX THERAPY READING SUGGESTIONS Schedule a Free Phone Consultation   RELATIONSHIPS & ATTACHMENT John Welwood: Perfect Love, Imperfect Relationships: Healing the Wound of the Heart John Welwood: Love and Awakening: Discovering the Sacred Path of Intimate R ..read more

SAN FRANCISCo BAY Area & Napa Valley COUPLES COUNSELORS & SEX THERAPISTS SPEAK ON HOW TO BUILD A SECURE RELATIONSHIP As the year draws to a close many people create lofty New Years resolutions and set intentions and goals to have their best year ever. For many single people, finding love often ends up in the center of their vision board or top of their New Years goals list. What happens to couples once they have found the love they so desperately once longed for? Often love no longer makes it on the New Year’s Resolution list because we already have our partner, so why focus on more lo ..read more