"What am I entitled to in a divorce?" is a question that almost everyone going through a divorce asks. And it’s not easy to answer. That’s because each situation is as different as the marriage that’s dissolving. Not only that, there’s usually a big difference between what's being proposed and what is fair – even when the numbers on paper look like a 50-50 split. So how do you know if you’re getting what you're entitled to in a divorce? And how can you be sure you're not giving up something you should be getting in your divorce settlement? This post is all about who gets what in a divorce ..read more

With mortgage rates at their highest point since 2000, the ongoing lack of affordable housing options, and continually rising inflation, it seems now more than ever couples are living together after divorce. And while living together after divorce isn't for everyone, with some careful planning, and clear communication, it can work for some couples. To help you decide if cohabitation after divorce is right for you, and if so, what you need to know and do to make it work, in this post I’ll share with you: 3 reasons why some couples choose to live together after divorce; The “divorced but livin ..read more

Once you've made the difficult decision to divorce, you may feel a bit of relief - like a weight has been lifted off your shoulders. But you now have another important decision to make. You need to decide which method to use to actually get the divorce. In this post, you'll hear what our panel of experts have to say about the best way to get a divorce and which divorce method they recommend to their clients ..read more

Divorce is a stressful, major life event that can flip your life upside down. Not only do you have to contend with the legal and financial aspects of the divorce process itself, but you also have to come to grips with the reality that your marriage is ending and "life as you know it" is changing in every possible way. It's normal to feel out of control while going through a divorce or separation. But there are some things you can do when dealing with the emotional turmoil of divorce and self-care is critical to your mental health. This post is all about how to cope with divorce ..read more

The cost of divorce mediation is not determined solely by the hourly rate of the mediator. The competency, skill level and experience of the mediator, services provided by the divorce mediator, and thoroughness of the mediation process are other factors that contribute to the cost of divorce mediation. The only way to ensure your divorce mediation will be as cost-effective as possible is to hire a mediator who is experienced and highly skilled, provides a comprehensive service, and has a thorough process. Here's how each factor affects how much your divorce mediation will cost.   True ..read more

If I asked you, “What is child support?” what would you say? Something like, “It’s when one parent gives the other parent money for the kids after they’re divorced?” And if I followed up by asking, “What is child support used for?” would you say, “Um… their expenses?” Even though child support impacts more than 60% of all divorces in the United States, there so much confusion around the subject. If you have children, it's crucial that child support be addressed carefully and thoroughly at the time of your divorce, because it can have a significant impact on their lives now and for many years ..read more

Chances are, when you got married, you and your husband were both equally excited to start your new life together. Unfortunately, when it comes to ending a marriage, the situation isn’t always so balanced. Many women call us and say, "I want a divorce but my husband doesn’t. What can I do? Can you tell me how to divorce my husband?" If your husband doesn't want to divorce, it can be incredibly frustrating for a wife. But let's get one thing straight right off the top... If one spouse wants a divorce, both spouses are getting a divorce. Wives don't need their husbands' permission to divorce th ..read more

Most people going through a divorce think they know the answers to the questions, “What is alimony?” and “How does alimony work?” But in addition to being the most difficult topic to resolve in a divorce, it’s also the most misunderstood. And there’s a lot of misinformation floating around that makes separating fact from fiction extremely difficult. Even what it’s called is confusing! It can be referred to as alimony, spousal support, maintenance, or even spousal maintenance - depending on the state you live in. But to keep things simple, in this post, I’m going to refer to it as alimony. It ..read more

As a parent preparing to begin a divorce in Illinois, there’s no doubt your children are your number one priority. And they should be. You love your kids and want the world for them. So now that you're getting a divorce, how do you make sure they get the financial support they’re entitled to and their needs are put first above all else? That’s where child support in Illinois comes in. And there's a lot more to determining Illinois child support than you might think.   ..read more

As a mom or dad preparing to start divorce mediation in New Jersey, your children are most likely your number one concern. And they should be. You love your kids and want the world for them. So now that you're getting a divorce, how do you make sure they get the financial support they need in order to live healthy and happy lives? That’s where NJ child support comes in. And there's a lot more to child support in New Jersey than you might think.   ..read more