Of all the things your girlfriend wears — or um, doesn’t wear — her sexiest look is the one that’s the most natural and raw: straight out of the shower, with wet hair and a towel or robe (at most). When you think of the shower, it’s easy to see why it’s an ideal steamy place to get it on: the humidity, the pressure of the water flowing down, the ability to get super hot or surprise with cold, and of course, two naked, wet bodies doesn’t sound bad either.  “For many, there is nothing quite as hot as being in close intimate proximity to your lover with water cascading down both of your bodi ..read more

We’ve been having fun missionary style for years — perhaps even decades. Sometimes we shake things up with a touch of doggy-style, maybe messing around in the shower, but there’s always those days we want to take a break from our go-to positions and try something a little out there. We want to go wild, maybe even a little risqué. If you are looking to get a bit more acrobatic or a touch more wild, you can start on spins on familiar favorites (love the cowgirl, try the reverse cowgirl!), but that’s not the end of it — there’s also the out-of-control cowgirl, and that one may blow your mind. Som ..read more

Here’s a common hurdle to achieving weight loss success. You’re full of motivation and eager to make some drastic life changes, including eating healthier foods, eating fewer unhealthy foods, and hitting the gym. The first week or two go great, just smooth sailing the whole way through, but right around the third week, diet fatigue strikes. Those chicken-and-broccoli dinners no longer seem so appetizing, and you start to miss some of your favorite foods that, in your haste to drop weight, you cut out entirely. This initial misgiving isn’t going to go away. The longer you withhold, the harder y ..read more

The early stages of dating are fraught times. While they can be full of excitement and intense feelings of happiness, until you know someone well, you also can’t know for sure what’ll make them change their minds about you. Whether you’re having a first conversation after matching on a dating app or you’re going on your second or third in-person date together, before your interactions solidify into a real relationship, there’s still lots of time to turn someone off by doing or saying the wrong thing. And, if you talk to people who date men, they’ll tell you that guys often seem like they’re ju ..read more

It may be a massive cliché to say that human beings come in all shapes and sizes, with a massive variety of skills and abilities, but in the wide world of sex, there really are some astonishing feats of size, strength and sheer horniness.  To be sure, there isn't anything sexy about whipping out a ruler or a calculator and taking measurements, but for the sake of science, human beings have gone to extreme lengths to quantify and qualify, rank and order, whether we're talking about orgasms or penis sizes. How big does big get? How small does small get? How many other quirky and hard-t ..read more

Have you ever played “Never Have I Ever” before? Here are the rules: Everyone puts up ten fingers, and you go around in a circle and one by one share something sexy or scandalous that you’ve never done before. When someone else shares something you have done, you have to put one finger down — and of course, drink. The first person to put all 10 fingers down loses (or wins, depending on how you look at it). Well, AskMen is still playing Never Have I Ever, and the rules are simple: In each edition of this column, we speak to someone about doing something new in bed, whether it’s a long-time fant ..read more

Orgasms are pretty great — so great, in fact, that many people would have them all day long if they could. But while cultural stereotypes often posit that men are hornier than women on average, it’s actually much less likely that a cis man spends all day orgasming than a cis woman. In fact, the concept of “giving someone multiple orgasms” is typically only associated with women getting them. Why is that? While many things to do with sex have sociocultural gendered roots, this one is absolutely a question of biology — and it comes back to something called ‘the refractory period.’ RELATED: How t ..read more

So, you’re considering being a guest star in a couple’s threesome. Maybe it’s a couple you’ve known for quite some time, or a pair you just met and felt a connection with. Being a third in someone’s threesome can be fun and freeing. When done right, VIVA STREET’s relationship expert Annabelle Knight says it can also be personally fulfilling. “Being a third in a threesome can be an opportunity for personal growth and individual sexual exploration, allowing you to push your boundaries and fulfill your wildest threesome fantasies,” she explains. RELATED: Real-Life Threesome Stories Shared by Peop ..read more

“Eat your vegetables” — it’s one of the oldest and perhaps most obvious pieces of nutritional advice, and with good reason: a diet high in veggies can help reduce your risk of many chronic diseases (and leading causes of death). Yet only 9% of American adults manage to eat the recommended amount of veggies, according to the Centers for Disease Control & Prevention. Especially men, it turns out, are slacking in this regard. Enter greens powders, which are chock-full of nutrient-dense vegetables like chlorella, spirulina, wheatgrass, spinach, barley sprouts, and kale. Are they a substitute f ..read more

The moment of sexual climax is a complex one, yet simple on the surface. You’re having sex, presumably, because it feels good. You orgasm, which is inarguably one of the best feelings there is. What’s not to like? Unfortunately, the answer is, surprisingly, a fair amount of things. Cumming feels great, but with it being a moment that has certain cultural expectations, it also has the potential to be a weird interaction between two people. Of course, the physical reality of ejaculating semen can be unpleasant in a few different ways for the other person. The emotional tenor of the moment can be ..read more