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I don't really know what I want or like so it's feeling confusing. I don't know my strengths or any hidden talent. But people say it's generally good to have a good paying job that will secure life in the long run. Computer science seems top major but it's competitive and I don't know nothing about it. I'm in college for radiology tech program. I'm not sure if I should continue pursuing it. Lot of people work remotely and desk jobs type like I see they have weekends off and generally seem happy. They also tend to have lot of opportunities to succeeded. I'm 27 already and I feel messed up with ..read more

There's a common misconception that you need to be naturally good to be successful. However, you just need to be the person who outlasts everyone. You need to be the person who puts in the work DAY IN and DAY OUT. The simple key to success is making a habit of doing the things that nobody else wants to do. Quite frankly, in today's society with everyone distracted on social media. ITS NOT THAT HARD TO DO. If you could focus for an HOUR today, you probably could focus longer than most people. The people that put the work in day in and day out may seem better than you... but thats simply becaus ..read more

I'm new/Introduction Hey all, I would like to introduce myself: Im a 36yr man and unfortunately chronicly sick since the end of 2020. I have physical difficulties and chronic pain 24/7. Also I have some mental health diagnosis that are crippling. Before all this I was a fit and healthy dad. Ran my fair share of obstacle courses and my best was an 8-10mile Spartan race. I also had a homegym but I couldnt workput anymore due to my chronic pain, slipped disc and worn a worndown spine. From my neck all the way down to my tailbone I have not much discs left. Im not operatable bc the risk is to hig ..read more

And what about them makes it that they inspire you? submitted by /u/Effective_Cricket810 [visit reddit] [comments ..read more

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Reserve at least half an hour for alone time. That would clear your mind and make you move on more quickly. Have digital decluttering every night after 10 pm. Reward yourself for every tiny achievement you made every day. Embrace your weakness unless you want to live with them. The harder you train, the easier you live. Exercise regularly to build discipline, resilience and self control. Take time to give thanks everyday. Practice gratitude. Take responsibility for your actions. Do your best to fulfill your duties. Don't feel sorry for yourself. Don't waste your entire lif ..read more

At 9pm (21 April 2024) tonight my wife died. She suffered through 4.5 years of ALS the last 2.5 years completely paralyzed and using a computer with her eyes only. We have 6 kids aged 23-10. My 23f daughter looked at me yesterday and said “Dad you cannot shut down we need you.” I already have things in place so this doesn’t happen. Therapy, great friends. I built a support system. So how do you get through tough things? One step at a time and one day at a time. DON’T GIVE UP! Tomorrow I call about the funeral insurance. I call the church. I call the mortuary. My kids are staying home from sch ..read more

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Say you have a stable life (job, relationships, finances, health, housing) and you want self improve without doing your head in, what mental or creative things would you focus on? For example when I say focus on, I mean things such as improving your meditation practice, learning a programming language etc., as opposed to just removing negative things such as social media. For context, asking because I often can’t decide where to direct my energies (which books, creative pursuits etc.), because I feel both paralysed by choice, I don’t know if directing my energy will pay off (sunk costs) or I ..read more