After-sex cuddles are the best and so important for a satisfying relationships. Besides the chemical release of calming hormones, it provides a safe place to share feelings of vulnerability building the connection you desire. Whether or not he hits the mark, it can be made up in 10 minutes of intimacy. Mostly positive tarot readings this week. Always complicated, but so is life. Stick around for the sex segment as we realize the most important part of being a great lover is the time spent enjoying the afterglow! Easy. Fishbone:00:07:10 Tree: 00:23.56 Handyman: 00:53:41 Post-sex snuggles:01:26 ..read more

The Intensity Zone can be uncomfortable when you don’t understand someone motive or the connection. This week, we examine how we sabotage the growing type of love during the intensity phase of meeting someone new. Why is ghosting so prevalent? It’s the best way out of the intensity zone in a relationship you’re not comfortable in yet. It’s a pattern that gets in the way of learning about new people beyond the initial excitement that is naturally caused by meeting someone to mesh with. Many of us don’t fall in love easily. And when someone isn’t wounded like us, their extra attention can feel ..read more

You’re not going crazy; the world around you is crazy and has always been. As we shift into compassionate times, the tension always builds before it can be neutralized. There is lots of hype around this eclipse, and they are very powerful and profound celestial events that bring endings and new cycles into our physical lives. You may feel like you have been a part of an endless cycle of bad relationships, but today's episode reminds you that you have learned that lesson and your greatest love is yet to come. That is exciting! I have so much hope for all of us. The readings this week were all ..read more

“I feel safe with you." Relationship Tarot Readings and A Sovereign Tarot Love Note. Sovereignty is such a gorgeous word. To protect your sovereignty is to make decisions in your life with your highest good in mind. How often do we surrender our will to others for peaceful compromise when it creates a battle within us? What we are looking for when we join forces with another is security and safety. Often, this involves a certain type of person, but not necessarily a good decision, leading to a loss of control. Living with a tyrant is exhausting and extremely unfulfilling. In the love note th ..read more

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Such simple words, yet they mean so much. They validate the suffering and striving, but so often those words are only spoken to those gaining some recognition. People who have suffered through trials, whether they be financial, emotional, physical, or mental, rarely get supported through their journey. That statement could save the world. Go out today and tell someone you watched overcome difficult obstacles that you are proud of them and create a moment they will remember always! Great Relationship Tarot Reading this week, and the love note was so inspiring! It’s the things we don’t talk abo ..read more

There is no such thing as sending a “safe” sexy pic. And think about how you’ve shown your friends the unsolicited dick pics you’ve received. It’s a fantasy to think those are private. Regardless, it’s fun to take pics and get attention from men. So how do you best protect yourself? This week we share tips for taking and protecting your pics. The recommendation is don’t hit send, but taking pics is an amazing exercise to learn self-love. The benefits outweigh the momentary high of sexting. So take them for yourself. Find all those parts of yourself you love and learn to love the parts that ma ..read more

What is sexual chemistry? It’s a bodily experience. Are we looking for connection or chemistry? Is there a difference? Or are we just looking for just the right fit into our individualized sexual narrative? Does being pegged make a man bisexual? I like the idea of multidimensional sexuality or unisexuality. It’s different than just being bi. Once it’s not about someone’s gender but more about the particular sexual experiences, then these classifications become bureaucracies. Bipartisanship will no longer be the kinkiest $hit ever. This week we do element relationship readings. These readings ..read more

We explore the theme of starting over after your 30’s and the complexities that come with it. All of the readings this week were 3rd party situations with long standing dead end relationships. These aren’t necessarily cheating relationships, just coming out of dead ones that are looking for love in all the right places. Welcome new listeners! First, we delve into the Seahorse charm, which symbolizes a secret love affair complicated by the presence of children. Despite the secrecy, you hold their attention, but they are burdened with responsibilities. It is important to work through any linger ..read more

Happy Valentine's Day! This week, we have some very special love notes that come in a companion set. Finally, we get to hear from the other side. We have two sets: The Heart and the Moon, and later, the Eye and the Chicken and Fox! I want to remind my listeners that Valentine's Day is not a day to dread, but a day to celebrate love, freedom, self-love, and the ideals of deep connection. It's not just a day for declaring love, but a day to celebrate our capacity to love as human beings. Don't fall into the trap of self-loathing that this very toxic holiday perpetuates. Listen to the whole show ..read more