In this enlightening episode of Restorative Divorce, we explore a topic close to every parent's heart: the power of apologizing to our children during divorce and coparenting. Join us as we delve into practical strategies and heartfelt insights to help young parents navigating dual incomes find clarity and connection in their coparenting journey. Discover the profound impact of modeling accountability and responsibility for our children, and learn how sincere apologies can repair trust and strengthen family bonds. We'll also discuss the importance of fostering emotional resilience and growth i ..read more

In this episode, we delve into the intricate world of family law, exploring the nuanced benefits of in-person court appearances versus the convenience of short, quick Zoom sessions. Our expert guests shed light on why the traditional approach to court proceedings can offer a more comprehensive understanding of the complexities involved in family matters. We also emphasize the critical role of completing financial disclosures in family law cases. Unveiling your financial circumstances through detailed disclosures not only ensures transparency but also aids in making informed decisions. Our lega ..read more

?️ Dive into the complexities of co-parenting in the digital age with our latest podcast episode! Join us as we unravel the impact of electronic devices on child custody arrangements, exploring the highs and lows of navigating technology in divorced or never-married co-parenting scenarios, particularly in Illinois. ? In this episode, we address the ever-evolving landscape of parenting in a digital world, shedding light on the conflicts that arise and the emotional stakes involved. Discover the alternative path of mediation, a cost-effective solution to tackle co-parenting challenges without co ..read more

In this insightful episode, we bring together the legal expertise of a seasoned Divorce Attorney, Erin Birt, and the emotional guidance of skilled therapists (thank you Michael Galbraith and Bill Doherty) to delve into the complex realm of Discernment Counseling. Whether you're at a crossroads in your marriage or contemplating the divorce process, this episode provides invaluable insights into finding clarity and assessing your readiness for this life-changing decision. This episode is an excerpt of Erin's presentation at the Illinois Counseling Association's Annual Conference where she presen ..read more

If you're going through a divorce or separation, it's important to work with a divorce attorney or mediator that understands the often overlooked details by couples.  In this episode, we're going to discuss some of the lesser known divorce details you need to know - from filing taxes to handling parenting time reviews, we'll take a look at everything you need to know to plan ahead for a successful restorative divorce process.  We'll cover planning for tax season, planning for the summer season, and planning for your legal or mediation costs so you can make the best decision now for y ..read more

You can overcome the challenges of divorcing a narcissist with planning, support, and an experienced attorney. Listen for valuable divorce tips whether you are in litigation, mediation, or the collaborative divorce process. We cover the DSM-V for Narcissistic Personality Disorder, Narcissitic Traits, What to Expect, and How to Handle Divorcing a Narcissist ..read more

In this podcast, we'll discuss different mortgage options for the family centered divorce. We'll discuss different mortgage options, loan assumptions, real estate market conditions, and whether a spouse can qualify as a first time home buyer. We'll also discuss the importance of planning early to keep your house, and how a divorce mediator will help you through the divorce process. If you're considering a family centered divorce, be sure to listen to this podcast! We'll discuss all the different options available to you, and help you choose the right mortgage plan for your situation. By listen ..read more

Why Prep for the Holidays in Spring? If you need to mediate to change your holiday schedule with your coparent, start preparing by listening to this episode. I will cover tips for modifying your holiday parenting schedule in your custody judgment and how to navigate holidays without your children.  ..read more

If you are thinking about getting a divorce or you have learned your spouse wants a divorce, this episode is for you. In this episode we cover Part 1 of the 3 Ways to Self-Sabotoge Your Divorce. Learn from the mistakes of others to protect yourself, your children, and your divorce process. Want to know what to avoid and how to help yourself? Listen now. Contact us today for help at (630) 891-2478 or www.birtlaw.com ..read more

Becoming a parent changes you and coparenting can change everything. In this episode we talk about how becoming a mom, dad, or parent can change your relationship, tips when considering a separation or divorce, what is a Guardian ad litem, and what parenting communication tools can help restore communication for coparents in Illinois ..read more