Untangling the financial knots of a divorce can be daunting, especially when a mortgage is involved. That's why we brought in Sam Mehta from Blue Fire Mortgage Group, a guru in the realm of home loans and separation settlements. Together, we dissect the strategies to keep a cool head and a low mortgage rate even as your marital status shifts. Sam illuminates the often overlooked details, such as orchestrating an amicable stay for both parties on the loan and the ins and outs of clearing one's name from mortgage obligations after a consistent year of payments by their ex-spouse. His insights al ..read more

Navigating the division of assets in a divorce can feel like trekking through a legal labyrinth, but fear not, as this episode promises to be your guiding light.  Host Scott Levin is joined by attorney Elizabeth Van Clief and financial forensics guru Ashlyn Downing to dissect the complex process of splitting restricted stock units and retirement funds during divorce.  The discussion introduces concepts of separate and community property, and how an asset can be both. Figuring out how to divide RSUs and 401ks, IRAs and pensions often require the assistance of financial analysts who a ..read more

Dive headfirst into the world of divorce mediation with us, your hosts Kelly Myers and attorney-mediator Scott Levin, as we uncover the surprisingly harmonious alternative to courtroom battles.  This episode is a must-hear for anyone standing at the crossroads of marital dissolution, offering a guiding light toward a path less fraught with conflict. We tackle the misconceptions about the necessity of legal warfare and lay out the compelling reasons why mediation not only saves time and money but also preserves relationships, especially when children are involved.  Scott, drawing on ..read more

I am Scott Levin, a seasoned peacekeeping attorney, and I am joined by the Brook Olsen who is a high conflict divorce coach who shares my belief that a collaborative path to resolution is generally much better for a divorce, whether it involves narcissism or any other personality challenges. We discuss the skepticism surrounding mediation in such fraught circumstances.  And we get into how strategic coaching and a genuine understanding of each partner's journey can transform seemingly impossible disputes into agreements that honor the interests of the whole family.  We also contras ..read more

I am Scott Levin, a family law attorney in San Diego, California. I help clients divorce as a mediator and do not litigate cases. I focus my skills, effort and work to the niche of mediation for divorce because I am able to impact so many families and children by helping couples and parents navigate divorce amicably.  This conversation peels back the layers of the divorce process, revealing how mediation often presents a more harmonious and effective path than traditional litigation.  You'll learn why rushing to lawyers might not be your best first move, as we share real-world examp ..read more

Unlock the secrets to transforming conflict into collaboration with the incomparable Alice Shakina, a mediation maestro who joins me, Scott Levin, Chief Peacekeeper, on a exploration through the finesse of dispute resolution.  Alice and I dissect the power of inquiry, and she reveals how the right questions can peel back the layers to reveal the core interests of conflicted parties.  This episode is a must-listen for anyone eager to seek out an alternative path to legal dispute resolution ripe with open communication and empathy. Tune in for an enlightening discussion that not only ..read more

Are you facing the daunting challenge of negotiating a divorce with a partner whose personality could fill a Shakespearean drama? Fear not, for Scott Levin, a top rated divorce mediation lawyer in San Diego, CA, alongside coaching maestro Lara Brunstrom, unravels the intricate dance of mediating with a narcissistic spouse. Our enlightening discussion cuts through the noise, offering a clear path to amicable settlements even amidst the highest of conflicts. Dive deep with us as we navigate the complexities of communication, the role of experts in easing tensions, and the strategy behind choosin ..read more

Navigating the stormy seas of divorce and co-parenting, we're joined by Jay Skibbens, whose transformative approach to custody coaching shines a beacon of hope for those lost in the fog.  As a former educator and a seasoned guide through the choppy waters of familial change, Jay offers a lifeline to estranged partners striving to prioritize their children's well-being. Our candid conversation traverses his move from teaching to coaching, unpacking the power of non-adversarial strategies and the art of boundary-setting in co-parenting—an art that's as delicate as it is crucial. This episo ..read more

As we continue to highlight January being child-centered divorce month, we have a wonderfully intimate conversation to offer you to day. Navigating the aftermath of a divorce can feel like steering through uncharted waters, especially when it comes to ensuring your children thrive. That's where Dr. Linda Altes comes in, lending her expertise to our enlightening discussion on crafting parenting plans in the child's best interests at heart. Our conversation traverses the nuanced terrain of co-parenting schedules, including the 2-2-5, 2-2-3 and 3-4-4-3 models, and how these arrangements can be a ..read more

January is child-centered divorce month. To help stress to those in the midst of separation with children, we hope to help explain how coparents succeed following the divorce by navigating the process collaborative through mediation.    Struggle with the rollercoaster of parenting? You're not alone. Sit down with me, Scott Levin, a California family law attorney, as we navigate the parental labyrinth with Debbie Zeichner, a revered parent coach. This episode isn't just a beacon for those walking the parenting path in calm seas; it's a lifeline during the storms of co-parenting post ..read more