A couple of months back Pastor Bolaji Idowu complained in a tweet that he's finding it hard to get unmarried people to stop having sex and on the flip side he's finding it difficult to get married couples who should be having sex to actually be intimate with each other. Now, I'm not married but I decided to share my two cents as to why I think both problems are on the increase in the faith community especially in Nigeria where I live. I hope you enjoy this week's episode of The 30 Minute Podcast. Remember to share it with someone else you think might enjoy it and remember that new episodes dro ..read more

On this episode I look at HYPERGAMY which is defined as the action of marrying or forming a sexual relationship with a person of a superior sociological or educational background. After watching an interview on Youtube of a woman who's relationship failed basically because she was earning more and paying all the bills in the home, I began to wonder if it's actually ethical, reasonable or even normal for a person to seek a mate or a spouse who is better off economically than they are so that they can take care of them. Also, seeing as it's the societal norm for a husband to ..read more

In my life can't remember a single instance when a woman has apologised for something she did to me. If I think long and hard I might be able to remember one or two instancse but regardless, I don't think many women are in the habit of apologising or of taking accountability for their actions, especially when it comes to relationships and I've often wondered why.Something happened in my personal life not long ago that sparked this thought in my head. I had a misunderstanding with a lady that was quite dear to me and I felt like I was wronged and I wanted to talk about it but she didn't. I thin ..read more

Ali Abdaal's video on how to make 2024 the best year of your life provided the template for how I plan to reach my goals this year, 2024. On this episode of the 30 minute podcast I share my plans in 2024 in 9 major areas of my life in line with the 'wheel of life' model. These areas or pillars or parameters are family, friends, growth, money, mission, body, mind, faith/soul and romance. Have you written down your own goals for the year? What are somethings you want to accomplish in certain areas of your life? Share in the comments ..read more

The debate of what people bring to the table in a relationship or whether that question should be asked at all really made the rounds on social media in 2023. Some were for it, most were against it. In this video, for the benefit of people that are open to the conversation and finding answers, I talk about how you can go about answering that question and I give examples of some things one can say when answering that question. Feel free to share your own examples or thoughts in the comments below. Please leave me a comment or a review and rate this podcast with as many stars/points as possible ..read more

On this episode I talk about whether it's important for men to be the spiritual head in a marriage and in the home. After watching a special episode of Dear Future Wifey I had a few questions about being the spiritual head in a marriage and I decided to thrash it out a bit and research what the Bible says on the matter. This was definitely my best episode so far this season. I thoroughly enjoyed examining this topic and I hope you enjoy it too. Thanks for listening and reading this and please remember to LIKE, SHARE & SUBSCRIBE ..read more

On this episode I talk about why people don’t like being asked the question ‘What do you bring to the table?’ and why it’s actually an important question to ask not just the person you’re dating or talking to but also to ask yourself. I also share my opinion on why men ask the question so much in today’s dating space and what information they seek to gain by asking the question. Please leave me a comment or a review and rate this podcast with as many stars/points as possible. Thank you and enjoy the episode ..read more

To mark Men’s mental health month this month and International Men's Day I talk about how and why men are reluctant to speak up about challenges they face in life because of the notion that it makes us look weak. I also talk about the people we can talk to about the problems we face and I even share one of my personal challenges and how I would try and solve it by talking to my Dad. Mental health is a state of mental well-being that enables people to cope with the stresses of life, realize their abilities, learn well and work well, and contribute to their community. It is an integral component ..read more

On International Podcast Day, I shared my top 5 foreign podcasts that I listen to. On this episode I share my top 5 Nigerian podcast. If you're looking for new podcasts to get into you can check them out. Also, I'm trying to discover new podcast so please share with me names of Nigerian podcasts you think I'd like. Send me a DM on IG or Twitter on @EniolaTito Here are my top 5 Nigerian pods: • The African Creator • The Honest Bunch • Dear Fopsy • Low key relatable • I Said What I said Please leave me a comment or a review and rate this podcast with as many stars/points as possible. Thank you ..read more

It's the season 1 finale episode and on it, to mark International Podcast Day, I talk about my top 10 foreign podcasts that I listen to. Starting my own podcast back at the beginning of July was scary but it's something I really wanted to do in order to express myself better on different things that interest me and I think it's one of the best decisions I made this year. If you've ever watched or listened to an episode of my podcast i want to say thank you from the bottom of my heart. Keep watching, keep engaging, keep sharing and keep watching the adverts when they play so that I can earn my ..read more