Here's the next Ex Men Roundtable discussion, what will the legacy of your divorce be for your family and the wider world post divorce? Present were Peter Hobler, Dustin Droen, Jason Blount, and Larry McInnes. In this episode we talk about: • How are your kids going to be affected and how can you ease their experience? • How there might be more than one legacy • If your kids are watching and listening all the time, how do you want them to see you? • How we react to circumstances shows the world who we are • Remember, your kids will decide what your legacy is for them and so much more... We ..read more

Here's the next Ex Men Roundtable discussion, how forgiving yourself frees you up to be the person you want to be, plus it helps with forgiving others. Present were Peter Hobler, Dustin Droen, Jason Blount, Stuart Young and Larry McInnes. In this episode we talk about: • Sometimes those things we hold against ourselves, are not our fault • How feelings are bringing messages and how we can understand them • Using personal values to set rules about how we behave • accepting you’re just human and not perfect helps us understand our mistakes • We’re all on a journey and with grace you can realis ..read more

Here's the next Ex Men Roundtable discussion, what are signs, what could they mean and where they might come from? Present were Peter Hobler, Dustin Droen, Jason Blount, Stuart Young and Larry McInnes. In this episode we talk about: • Getting specific about what you want and why • Consider the symbology and mythology of events or potential signs you notice • Signs are subjective and maybe it’s our subconscious mind alerting our conscious mind • What is your job if you think you’ve seen a sign? • Being intentional about what we focus on affects our mood and thoughts and so much more... We'd lov ..read more

“Challenges of the Holidays” Here's the next Ex Men Roundtable discussion, how to deal with family get togethers over the Holidays. Present were Peter Hobler, Dustin Droen, and Larry McInnes. In this episode we talk about: • Recognising what may trigger you at family gatherings and plan to mitigate it • Shifting what we might be focussing on to shift our energy - ahead of time • Post divorce, create new traditions for you and your kids around Holiday times • Giving the feeling you want to have - to someone else (EG: make them feel valued) and so much more... We'd love to hear your thoughts in ..read more

Here's the next Ex Men Roundtable discussion, this time we talk about spicing up life by embracing change. Present were Peter Hobler, Dustin Droen, Jason Blount, Stuart Young and Larry McInnes. In this episode we talk about: • Doing something you haven’t done before, or in a long while • The planning of things is part of the process • How anticipation adds enjoyment • Can some of the bad times be enjoyable? • Acknowledging the positive helps all experience and so much more... We'd love to hear your thoughts in the comments below. Your Ex-men are: Peter Hobler, MBA, is the driving force behind ..read more

Here's the next Ex Men Roundtable discussion, this time we talk about how quickly time passes, how we’ve changed and how we might anticipate the future. Present were Peter Hobler, Dustin Droen, Jason Blount and Larry McInnes. In this episode we talk about: • Living in the moment before another 20 years go by • What do we want for ourselves for the next 5 years? • How memories can bring us down as well as lift us up • How to protect ourselves from being triggered and so much more... We'd love to hear your thoughts in the comments below. Your Ex-men are: Peter Hobler, MBA, is the driving force ..read more

Here's the next Ex Men Roundtable discussion, continuing on from Ep67, this time we had fun discussing speed dating - pros/cons and if it works. Present were Peter Hobler, Dustin Droen, Jason Blount, Stuart Young and Larry McInnes. In this episode we talk about: • Setting a goal for what you want to experience • What is speed dating? • How to make it fun rather than tortuous • When should divorced dads consider this style of dating? • Our personal preferences on alternative ways to meet people and so much more... We'd love to hear your thoughts in the comments below. Your Ex-men are: Peter Ho ..read more

Here's the next Ex Men Roundtable discussion, this time we discuss what we think is unique about ourselves. We had a handful of sound issues on this one but it’s definitely worth a listen. Present were Peter Hobler, Dustin Droen, Jason Blount, Larry McInnes and Stuart Young. In this episode we talk about: • Leave people better than you found them • Learning to look at ourselves more honestly • Simplification and listening helps in all walks of life • The Sage Perspective and how it can help cope in stressful situations • Deliver the ‘Wow!’ factor wherever possible and so much more... We'd l ..read more

Here's the next Ex Men Roundtable discussion, this time we discuss what a coach is and what you should expect from one. Present were Peter Hobler, Dustin Droen, Jason Blount, Larry McInnes and Stuart Young. In this episode we talk about: • Legendary boxing coaches that weren’t successful boxers • If coaches can be born out of academia, training or experience • Can coaches be good leaders? • Coaching is a big part of parenting • What a coach isn’t and so much more... We'd love to hear your thoughts in the comments below. Your Ex-men are: Peter Hobler, MBA, is the driving force behind The Ex ..read more

Here's the next Ex Men Roundtable discussion, this time we discuss why we can keep making the same mistakes in relationships after divorce, and how we can make better decisions. Present were Peter Hobler, Dustin Droen, Justin Blount and Stuart Young. In this episode we talk about: • The metaphorical emotional knot we’re left with post divorce can be hard to untie • The question we can ask ourselves that could help us make better decisions • Taking time to uncover what we think we were getting from the marriage relationship • Dealing with the withdrawal symptoms that drive certain destructive c ..read more