This week on Behind the Swipe, host Hoyt Prisock welcomes therapist Hilary Woodman, an expert in narcissistic personality disorder, for a deep dive into the complexities of narcissism in relationships. Hilary unpacks the clinical aspects of narcissism, distinguishing it from simple egocentrism, and sheds light on how these traits manifest in harmful ways within intimate relationships. Throughout the episode, Hilary discusses the defining characteristics of narcissism, such as a marked lack of empathy and a tendency to exploit personal interactions. With a blend of professional insights and re ..read more

In this engaging episode of Behind the Swipe, titled "Talk It Out, Don't Tough It Out," host Hoyt Prisock sits down with therapist Armann Fenger to explore the critical early stages of relationships. The conversation focuses on the inevitable "glitch" — those initial moments of conflict or misunderstanding that test the budding connection between partners. Armann, with his blend of professional expertise and relatable insights, challenges the traditional "tough it out" mentality, advocating instead for the transformative power of open communication. The episode delves into how fears and misun ..read more

In this special episode of "Behind the Swipe," host Hoyt Prisock takes us on a journey back through the pivotal moments of season one, weaving together the rich tapestry of online dating experiences for those venturing into love's digital frontier in their later years. Highlights include a deep dive into the nature of rebound relationships from episode two,  where the conversation transcends the superficial to touch on the profound need for validation and connection after the end of long-term relationships. We also revisit insights on the complexities of engaging with newly single partne ..read more

In this profoundly personal episode of Behind the Swipe, we delve into the world of early-stage dating relationships with the esteemed Wendy Palmer Patterson. With over 40 years dedicated to enhancing the fabric of romantic partnerships through Imago Therapy, Wendy's wisdom is a beacon for those navigating the often turbulent waters of love, especially in the digital age. As your host, I've had the privilege of Wendy's guidance in my own life, an experience that's not only transformative but deeply cherished. Her approach, focusing on the 'us' in relationships as a separate, nurturable entity ..read more

In this week's episode of Behind the Swipe we delve into the intricate dance between love and the potent neurochemicals that guide our hearts and decisions in the realm of online dating, especially for those navigating the scene in their 40s, 50s, and beyond. Join host Hoyt Prisock and guest expert Dawn Maslar-Biggie, author of "Men Chase, Women Choose" and renowned as the Love Biologist, as they explore the fascinating world where biology meets emotion. This episode sheds light on how hormones such as dopamine, oxytocin, and vasopressin play pivotal roles from the initial spark of attraction ..read more

In this episode of Behind the Swipe, host Hoyt Prisock welcomes back Dr. Karin Luise to explore the process of healing from past emotional wounds stemming from relationships. Dr. Karin, an accomplished author and life coach, shares profound insights from both her professional expertise and personal experiences, offering listeners valuable guidance on navigating the journey of healing and self-discovery. The conversation initially focuses on the significance of acknowledging one's emotional pain and the necessity of taking responsibility for one's healing journey. Dr. Karin emphasizes the empo ..read more

In this episode of "Behind the Swipe," we delve into the transformative impact of AI on online dating, guided by the wisdom of Bill Gates who heralds AI as a pivotal breakthrough. We'll explore the nuances of generative AI, its role in enhancing dating profiles, and the ethical boundaries it tests. From the cinematic foresight of "Her" to practical applications like profile enhancement and communication aids, this episode unpacks the complex dance between technology and human connection. Join us as we ponder the future of AI in romance, balancing the marvels of tech with the timeless quest for ..read more

In this episode of "Behind the Swipe," we delve into the transformative impact of AI on online dating, guided by the wisdom of Bill Gates who heralds AI as a pivotal breakthrough. We'll explore the nuances of generative AI, its role in enhancing dating profiles, and the ethical boundaries it tests. From the cinematic foresight of "Her" to practical applications like profile enhancement and communication aids, this episode unpacks the complex dance between technology and human connection. Join us as we ponder the future of AI in romance, balancing the marvels of tech with the timeless quest for ..read more

Picture rediscovering intimacy after 40—does it spark anxiety or excitement within you? Together with the insightful Christine Baumgartner, we navigate the realms of sex and body confidence, tearing down the barriers of self-doubt and highlighting the universal quest for connection that transcends physical appearance. This candid conversation is an invitation to embrace vulnerability, understand the nuances of attraction, and appreciate the deeper layers of sexual energy that often go unnoticed after long-term relationships have ended. Embarking on the path to fulfilling intimacy demands more ..read more

Resistance to change is a natural human condition.  But if you are online dating in your forties, fifties or beyond, a change is exactly what you are looking for. In this episode,  with therapist Cindy Hopper, we uncover how adopting a beginner's mind and inviting discomfort into our lives can lead to profound growth. We're not just talking romance here; it's about smashing through the barriers that life tends to throw at us, with a good dose of humor and wisdom to keep things in perspective. Embark on a journey that transcends the mere swiping left or right, as Cindy and I reveal t ..read more