Gather 'round the Kinky Campfire, where your hosts Bartholomew Hunt and Ms Ru serve up a piping hot blend of humor and insight on the fascinating intricacies of BDSM and non-monogamy lifestyles. Ever wondered how to subtly signal your kinky interests on the battlefield of dating profiles? We've got you covered with tales from the front lines, including what to look out for and how to spot the green flags of a genuine, respectful connection in the vast wilds of fetishization.  Let's face it, discussing your alternative lifestyle passions can be stickier than s'mores at a campfire. We shar ..read more

Ever wondered what the difference between 'kinky' and 'vanilla' really is, or struggled to navigate the often misunderstood landscape of BDSM roles? Fear not, kindred spirits, for I, Falkor, alongside the ever-intriguing Ms. Ru, will guide you through these murky waters with humor and a wealth of knowledge. Our latest episode of Around the Kinky Campfire promises to demystify the complexities of kink, BDSM, and non-monogamy, making you laugh, ponder, and possibly squirm—all in the name of education and entertainment. Sex education is no joke, but that doesn't mean we can't crack a few as we a ..read more

As we pop open a bag of nerd clusters, the playful banter sets the stage for an episode that's as much about the crinkle of candy wrappers as it is about the crunch of complex relationship dynamics. We're two peas in a podcast, bringing you a scoop of nostalgia with a nod to "A Knight's Tale" and Heath Ledger, served alongside a helping of heartfelt frustration at his too-soon departure from our screens. It's a rollercoaster ride from the giggles of an ASMR experience to the serious talk of how couples navigate the developmental dance of their relationships without stepping on each other's toe ..read more

Uncover the enigmatic roots of the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator with me, Julius HH, as we traverse the intellectual legacy of a mother-daughter duo and the indelible mark they left on the psychological landscape. Whether you're an INTJ like myself, or another of the 16 personality types, this episode promises to gift you with a richer understanding of the MBTI's origin story. Sip on your pineapple seltzer and join our Pillowfort session as we delve into the historical intricacies behind a tool that's become a staple in our quests for self-discovery. Grappling with the complexities of human beh ..read more

Gather 'round the Kinky Campfire, where Miss Ru and I, Batty Coda aka Julius, ignite a lively dialogue that will leave you both informed and entertained. Ever wonder why your favorite fast-food soda tastes different at each restaurant? We'll quench your curiosity and then some, as we sip through our quirky drink choices and delve into the flavors of nostalgia with "Ferngully." But hold onto your leather hats, because we're going beyond mere reminiscence—we're opening the floor to discuss demisexuality, the nuances of kink versus BDSM, and the importance of leadership within our vibrant communi ..read more

Ever felt like you're slogging through the swamp of small talk, only to find yourself stumped at the shore of silence? Fear not, my fellow conversational adventurers, as I, elacomy dome—known in some circles as the cuddle gigolo, and in others as HH Julius—usher you through the enigmatic maze of casual banter. Together, we'll discover that these seemingly simple exchanges are more than just idle chatter; they're the golden keys to unlocking new worlds of understanding and empathy. Our cozy pillow fort becomes a haven for demystifying the mechanics of mingling. As we peel back the layers of th ..read more

Have you ever wandered off into your thoughts at a party, or felt your energy sap in a crowd, leaving you to wonder if you're an introvert, or perhaps something more complex? That’s where my journey began, leading me to the discovery of Carl Jung's fascinating concept of introversion and the spectrum it exists on. Our latest episode takes a deep dive into the world of introvertism, where I share my own experiences and challenges, and the surprising ways they've shaped my interactions and leadership style. We'll peel back the layers of personality traits, from the thinkers to the anxious, and d ..read more

Gather 'round, fellow adventurers, as Ru and Gently McFluffin Stuff bring you tales from the wilds of kinky campfires and creative conventions. Embarking on a quest through the realms of non-monogamous kink and BDSM, our latest episode offers personal insights and candid conversations that aim to enlighten and destigmatize the often misunderstood. Whether you're a seasoned traveler of these communities or simply kink-curious, join us for an episode rich with the nuances of social dynamics, the thrills of identity expression, and the complexities of ethical non-monogamy. Strap on your geeky pi ..read more

Ever felt the urge to unearth the animal within you, to connect with your ancient, instinctual self? Well, buckle up, my fellow kink enthusiasts, because Julius H. H.—yours truly—is about to guide you through the primal jungles of the BDSM community. Join me as we explore primalism, where the raw intensity of our kink identities meld with the world of geeks and polyamory. Whether you're a seasoned primal player or simply curious, this session promises to reveal the depths of an often misunderstood realm, shedding light on the multifaceted nature of primal roles and their intrinsic link to our ..read more

Have you ever found yourself curious about the world beyond vanilla relationships? Well, stoke the fires and join us as we illuminate the paths through the realms of Dominance and Submission (D/S) dynamics. This isn't your typical kink talk; we're breaking down barriers and challenging the myths head-on. From the diverse roles that transcend gender stereotypes to the surprising ways D/S relationships can extend beyond the bedroom into everyday life, we're revealing the truth behind the leather and lace.  In our vibrant discussion, we delve into the importance of negotiation and consent i ..read more