Change only comes after you realize you're miserable in your current state. ⁣⁣⁣⁣ Not exhausted. Not in need of a break. That's a state of burnout. It requires stepping back, reevaluating priorities, resting and reenergizing.⁣⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣⁣ I'm talking about being so miserable that the morning alarm triggers your anxiety for the day, you think of excuses to call in sick everyday and drag your feet to work.⁣⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣⁣ Something needs to change.⁣⁣⁣⁣ Perhaps you need to change your role or join a different company. Maybe you're gravitating towards a different field of work.⁣⁣⁣⁣ You may be lacking a grat ..read more

When we start raising children, we realize how much effort and work is required. What we saw as just activities, outings, dinner time, lunch prep, homework, madresa etc.- it all required ton of energy and commitment from our parents to fulfill these duties.⁣ ⁣ Giving birth is easy. Its raising the child that's hard.⁣ ⁣ If we truly want to make an impact on our children by guiding them to success in both Deen and Dunya, we have to invest the time. Being a parent is super difficult some days.⁣ ⁣ We have to be:⁣ Available (present, in the moment)⁣ Fully committed ⁣ Be involved ⁣ Be patient We ..read more

Studies show that it takes 30 days to form new habits and let go of bad ones. Think about how often we see a 30 day challenge. The month of Ramadan was sent as a gift for mankind. A month of transformation, to cleanse our souls and bodies. Everything that has been prescribed to us has benefits. I hope the breakdown below inspires us to be more appreciative when engaging in the commandments of Allah. Fasting Detox for Mind & Body Stimulates brain and heart function by encouraging growth of new cells. Boosts the immune system by repairing the gut lining and rem ..read more

  Light: it shines, guides and nurtures. The Prophet (PBUH) is our source of constant guidance. The Qur'an refers to him metaphorically as ‘Siraj Munira’. Like the sun, the illumination of his message guides not only those who were present with him but still reaches us today. Unlike the sun which is constant, the moon (like the believer) goes through many phases. It does not produce its own light, but rather, its noor is a reflection of the sun. When it faces the sun, it shines at its brightest, and when it turns away, it is lost in darkness, ‘like the old date stalk’. But from its dark ..read more

  The Cave: a place of solitude, reflection, and protection. In Surah Al-Kahf, Allah teaches us important lessons by way of stories of peoples of the past, each imparting divine wisdom. The youth of the cave fled persecution from a tyrannical ruler and sought Allah’s protection. They were preserved in sleep for 309 years as a sign to their people. Allah protects the righteous who believe in Him, no matter how difficult their situation. The Prophet (PBUH) warned that the greatest trial to face his ummah will be that of the Antichrist. The central theme of the surah is one of trials: fa ..read more

  The legacy of Hajar (A.S.) is so powerful that it gives us hope during moments of uncertainty. Her character is truly inspiring. Ibrahim (A.S.) took Hajar (A.S) and their child Ismael (A.S.) to Makkah. At the time, the foundation of the Kaaba was buried beneath dirt, but he knew that he was on sacred grounds. In the abandoned desert, he set up a little area with some dates and only the slightest amount of water. With great sadness and pain, he left his wife and child to continue on his mission. Hajar (A.S) understood that this was the command of Allah and that they would not be neglect ..read more

  Tawakkul: Put your trust in Allah Maryam (A.S) was the greatest woman to have ever lived. She has the honor of being the only woman to be mentioned by name in the Qur’aan. The perfect example of modesty and devotion. When her mother Hanna conceived after many years of struggle, she vowed to pledge her child to serving the blessed masjid, and sought refuge in Allah from Shaytaan. Her dua was answered and her promise was kept. Maryam (A.S) spent her time in secluded worship in a private prayer room in the eastern part of the blessed Masjid Al-Aqsa. She was under the care of her right ..read more

We will always be alone, unless... There are moments we can recall when we felt helpless, exhausted, defeated, or overwhelmed with sadness. It could've been during a phase in our life when when we were in the middle of a storm, when things just kept getting worse. OR a regular day that turned upside down and suddenly all the built up exhaustion poured out. In either which scenario, you'll recall feeling very lonely. Realizing that no one, no matter your relation, they were unable to fill that void. That part of you, your inner child, who needs nurturing. You no longer felt strong/capable and ..read more

"I know what I need to do, I'm just not in the right mind space for it yet" This thought process gets shaken up after learning the above terrifying truth. Whether it's performing Salah, doing good deeds, praying Quran, giving in Charity, embracing Hijab, letting go of Sinful actions etc. We love to hear and speak about the mercy of Allah and His blessings. It brings calmness to the heart. BUT at times we need to hear the painful reality of the grave and hell. Remind ourselves that we were created for one purpose only. To worship and that there WILL be a day of Judgement... His punishment is ..read more

World's Most Influential Man CLOTHING: "The sleeves of his shirt reached his wrists." (Tirmidhi) Portrays his humility, as excessive clothing used to be considered a sign of pride BEDDING: "He slept on a straw mat which left marks on his body." (Ibn Masud) "What have I to do with the world? I am like a rider who had sat under a tree for its shade, then went away and left it." (Tirmidhi) FOOD: "The Prophet PBUH neither ate on a dining cloth, not ate soft bread throughout his life." (Bukhari) His eating habits were exceedingly simple ROUTINE: "The early hours are blessed for my nation" (Tir ..read more