
IPV and Me
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I am a survivor of Intimate Partner Violence. Here I share my story with you, as well as give advice on everything I've learned over my recovery; how to spot an abuser, how to leave safely, how to get help and how to live life as a survivor of abuse. I have learned so much during my own experience and also as a spokesperson for domestic abuse with the Allstate Foundation.
IPV and Me
3w ago
Today's episode features my first guest: my little sister, Tamara! Today we tell the story of TV personality and former popstar Kerry Katona's lifelong journey with toxic men and focus particularly on her abusive relationship with her husband, George Kay.
Sources:
https://www.safehorizon.org/thethingswecarry/#:~:text=%E2%80%9CThe%20Things%20We%20Carry%2C%E2%80%9D,holding%20upon%20entering%20a%20Safe
https://www.fathers-4-justice.org/2019/07/george-kay-died-broken-heart/
https://www.amazon.com/Kerry-Katona-Whole-Again/dp/1915306043/ref=sr_1_4?crid=3QZP8UK2WV5ES&keywords=kerry+katona+whole+a ..read more
IPV and Me
2M ago
Everyone knows the media circus that was the Depp v. Heard trial. But did anyone truly listen to the evidence presented by Heard and her team or was it over for her before it even started? Part 2.Sources and Helpful Articles:The Sun Articles: https://www.thesun.co.uk/tvandshowbiz/6159182/jk-rowling-genuinely-happy-johnny-depp-fantastic-beasts/ https://www.the-sun.com/news/1731157/johnny-depp-libel-case-wife-beater/UK Trial transcripts: https://www.nickwallis.com/depp-trial-court-transcriptsTwitter threads by user chateau bunny ‘:dismissing the lies against Heard: https://twitter.com/cocainecro ..read more
IPV and Me
2M ago
Everyone knows the media circus that was the Depp v. Heard trial. But did anyone truly listen to the evidence presented by Heard and her team or was it over for her before it even started?
Sources and Helpful Articles:
Amber’s 2018 piece for the Washington Post: https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/ive-seen-how-institutions-protect-men-accused-of-abuse-heres-what-we-can-do/2018/12/18/71fd876a-02ed-11e9-b5df-5d3874f1ac36_story.html
A timeline of Heard and Depp’s relationship: https://www.insider.com/johnny-depp-amber-heard-relationship-timeline-2020-7#:~:text=In%20December%202018%2C%20Heard ..read more
IPV and Me
3M ago
This week's episode features stories from everyday women taken from the book series #SheWins.Address Confidentiality Program - https://victimconnect.org/learn/address-confidentiality/Lovern’s website - https://lovelifenow.org/Alisa’s website: https://www.alisadivine.com/thehotline.orgSources:Books - https://amzn.to/3LEEUnV and https://amzn.to/427BKiW ..read more
IPV and Me
3M ago
Audrina Patridge is well known for her time on the smash hit reality show 'The Hills', but Audrina spent many years suffering abuse at the hands of her partner, Corey. This episode goes to show you never really know what's going on in a celebrity's personal life. .I had the pleasure of being interviewed recently for the wonderful domestic abuse awareness podcast, 'Piece Over Pieces'. Check it out here and let me know your thoughts! https://open.spotify.com/episode/2ccUiVI6QygedeojEAQrTE?si=e3ab874dfd3e48e6Sources:Audrina’s memoir - https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/choices-audrina-patridge/1140 ..read more
IPV and Me
6M ago
Hedda Nussbaum spent years being tortured and abused by her partner, Joel Steinberg. Little did she know it would end in the most horrendous thing any parent could go through.
Sources:
https://www.irishmirror.ie/news/irish-news/grieving-sister-alleged-murder-victim-28865619
https://medium.com/@johnmarkgreenwriter/unstoppable-722c5cbe7d03
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3CfwWV-XVuY
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9halqAwG3rM&t=28s documentary
https://archive.vanityfair.com/article/1988/5/what-lisa-knew article from vanity fair
https://vimeo.com/45276028 documentary
https://www.youtube.com/w ..read more
IPV and Me
6M ago
Welcome back! This week is a two-parter as I have so much to say on the leaving process. Reach out to me on @IPVandMe on all social media platforms or my personal account on Instagram @MandGoggs. thehotline.org for help.
Sources:
New York Daily News Article: https://www.nydailynews.com/new-york/ny-wake-victim-crowbar-attack-20210623-pe46vwmsmfdvbebmuyuwveezgm-story.html
No Visible Bruises book: https://www.awin1.com/cread.php?awinmid=5487&awinaffid=879747&ued=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.bookdepository.com%2FNo-Visible-Bruises%2F9781912854851
Crazy Love Book: https://www.awin1.com/cread.php?awinm ..read more
IPV and Me
6M ago
This episode highlights the danger of leaving an abuser. This is the story of Claire and Charlotte, and the Hart family.Sources:Book written by Luke and Ryan Hart: https://amzn.to/3ofvk2xLuke’s letter to Ryan: https://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/luke-hart/brother-strength-saved-me_b_16145554.html?1492844010Luke and Ryan Hart’s website: https://www.cocoawareness.co.uk ..read more
IPV and Me
6M ago
Part 2 of the story of Hedda Nussbaum.
Sources:
https://www.irishmirror.ie/news/irish-news/grieving-sister-alleged-murder-victim-28865619
https://medium.com/@johnmarkgreenwriter/unstoppable-722c5cbe7d03
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3CfwWV-XVuY
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9halqAwG3rM&t=28s documentary
https://archive.vanityfair.com/article/1988/5/what-lisa-knew article from vanity fair
https://vimeo.com/45276028 documentary
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X5WqVneeWBM - documentary
https://amzn.to/3HkAUI1 Hedda’s book
https://www.patreon.com/IPVandMe/membership - Patreon ..read more
IPV and Me
6M ago
Tanya Selavaratnam suffered abuse at the hands of the former Attorney General of NY, Eric Schneiderman. In her memoir, 'Assume Nothing' she gives a harrowing account of the abuse and control she suffered.
Help:
https://www.thehotline.org/
Patreon:
https://www.patreon.com/IPVandMe/membership
Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/mandgoggs/?hl=en
Sources:
https://amzn.to/3WF6vc3 - Tanya’s book “Assume Nothing”
https://www.tanyaturnsup.com/bio-photos - Tanya’s website
Four Women Accuse New York’s Attorney General, Eric Schneiderman, of Physical Abuse | The New Yorker - article that broke the story ..read more