To start with please be patient with my Te trickster, I'll try my best to make it as comprehensible as I can. Chapter 0: Super-shortened, watered down version that doesn't explain things properly but might help some people. TL;DR: Nobody starts mature - everyone is deluded by their skewed perception and they don't know it. The patterns for this are analogous for every type - it's not an individual matter. Everyone projects but not everyone is wired the same way, leading to... The perfect MBTI type romantic pairings Ver 10.5 (Read the OP and prove me wrong if you can; Chapter 0 has the short ..read more

What do you think? Personally, I think if I had a SO, I'd prefer us to have our own places. It's probably just another reason I'm incompatible with most women. That's okay, I'm used to it. I understand of course that sometimes financial restraints make it impossible to live alone. But I'm talking here about if you have the financial means to live alone, and you have a SO, would you prefer to live with them, or live alone ..read more

ENFP here, I'll just get straight to the point cause it's late and I want to go to sleep. I have a crush on this (very hot) ISFJ girl. I don't have much classes with her, so I couldn't talk to her that much. Because of that, my first move was just straight up asking her out. She said no, which I should have seen coming. Anyways, I didn't quit. I kept making moves, almost every opportunity I could. I once caught her looking over at me when I was talking to my friend about my projected height... ISFJ Crush ..read more

Recently I have seen some guys "define" masculinity through action/achievement, and femininity as something you can "just be". But this seems strange in whichever way you view femininity... If femininity is 1) tied to womanhood, thus inherent, so must masculinity be inherent 2) performance, then it definitely is achieved through actions and takes effort to maintain... Is there a third way to view this? Thoughts? Alternatively, tell me what you think femininity is ..read more

I realized I've only ever been on three formal dates in my life. Guys usually start out putting their best foot forward and wanting to date me properly, but I quickly morph that into something casual, because that's just who I am. I don't know how to play the "dating" game. Waiting 3 days to call or when where you should have a first kiss, etc. I always end up the casual person but that also means men don't have to try as hard with me. I'm matter of fact, no BS. If I think we're going to... Have you had a proper "dating" experience ..read more

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And do you think you should learn to settle, or go for the great love? Is it okay to be with someone who makes you think, "You are good enough." or do you want to wait until you find someone who challenges you in a good way and inspires you and you can learn from? I do believe that there are a lot of people who stay in bad relationships, There are many reasons for this, for example, many people do want to be alone so they go for someone who is interested and seems decent so they won't be... Do you think most people settle when it comes to romantic relationships ..read more

To start with please be patient with my Te trickster, I'll try my best to make it as comprehensible as I can. Chapter 0: Super-shortened, watered down version that doesn't explain things properly but might help some people. TL;DR: Nobody starts mature - everyone is deluded by their skewed perception and they don't know it. The patterns for this are analogous for every type - it's not an individual matter. Everyone projects but not everyone is wired the same way, leading to... The perfect MBTI type romantic pairings Ver 10.4 (Read the OP and prove me wrong if you can; Chapter 0 has the short ..read more

I decided to have a new imaginary boyfriend and I haven't thought about them almost at all yet, so ask me questions so I can flesh them out if you feel like knowing the perspective of my imaginary boyfriend. I will answer for them (since obviously they can't actually type or talk, literally). And feel free to fuck around and try to use your imagination here if you want. If you need an imaginary partner. Let me know if you want me to ask them questions as well. Thanks ..read more

I am INFP and in love with an ENFJ. We consider ourselves friends and we have a good relationship. We've known each other since September 2023. We had a very close relationship, she talked to me about things she didn't tell anyone, we did activities together just the two of us. And I had a strong feeling of reciprocity from my feelings towards her. In fact, we really had our own bubble. My friends told me that if she's not straight it makes me go for it because our relationship seems... INFP and ENFJ strange relationship ..read more