@Carolina188 Please read the rules for this sub-section. https://www.talkaboutmarriage.com/threads/sex-section-rules-please-read-this-first.2459/ And.... Go ..read more

How common is it for a woman to get sore after having sex, and what are some of the factors it depends on? I obviously have my own guesses as to what the factors could be, but I'd like to hear the opinions of others ..read more

Been married to my husband for 2 years, together for 5. Sex has always been very vanilla, but there was a lot of passion in the beginning, so I never saw it as an issue. I still enjoyed it and always got off. Frequency was always consistent and good enough. I feel like we didn't experience a "honeymoon period" in terms of our sex life. Affection in all other forms certainly did. In previous relationships I have had fairly adventurous and interesting sex. Sex with people who made me feel... Incompatibility/Resistance to Spicing things up - I'm frustrated ..read more

So some background: My husband and I have been together for 6 years, 3 married and 3 dating, and have 1 child. Our relationship has always been rocky as in we bicker and argue a lot about big things, little things you name it. So we have always been trying to work on that. We moved in together 6 months into dating and sex was ok. Like once maybe twice a week. I definitely wanted it a lot more and initiated 95% of the time. I would always try to communicate that I was unhappy and wanted it... Help! Lying and masturbation by husband ..read more

Hello! I’m a new member and would love to hear everyone’s perspective regarding intimacy issues between my wife and I. During my wife’s 2nd and 3rd trimester our intimacy became less and less frequent and then stopped completely during her last month of pregnancy. We are first time parents so I have nothing to compare this to but this seems totally normal in my opinion. It has now been 3 months since our child’s birth and there has been zero intimacy whatsoever, other than occasional... Intimacy issues after childbirth ..read more

Okay I took my husbands virginity back in may of 2015 at the end of our sophomore year of college. We were friends our first two years of college and I had sex with 18 guys before him (10 guys my freshman year of college and 8 my sophomore year of college.) Now he had a huge crush on me before we dated. I remember we both took a class together and I would always catch him staring at me and he would get nervous talking to me. He had a lot of hangups with sex and intimacy before me and was a... Any other women here take their husband’s virginity. If so how was the experience and how is you’re s ..read more

Today was our weekly engagement. Scheduled and mechanical as per the norm. Started with pillow talk and open eyes then went straight to PIV. No foreplay (her choice). Once inside, the eyes shut and stayed shut for most of the engagement. Is this normal? What is this behavior telling me ..read more

My wife and I have been having issues (see other post) following on from the post someone messaged me to say that they had had issues in the past and had tried swinging. They had met another couple and were now enjoying a once a month foursome with a few different couples and this had really helped there relationship and sex life. The member mentioned that it allowed them to explore new things and to learn new techniques which were then brought back to their sex life. I mentioned this to my... To swing or not to swing ..read more

Disclosure: I'm mainly venting here out of despair. I can't seem to do anything about this and I need to get it off my chest. Married 15 years, together 16. Me (48) her (43). She is my first love and first lover. Very little experience before meeting her. TLDR; Husband is a zero at pleasing his wife and can't seem to improve. Concerned she may check out of the relationship if he continues to work on this and gets noowhere with it. My wife requires clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm... My incompetence - ruining my marriage ..read more

Do most couples use tissues? Towel? Condoms? Let it fly ..read more