Last Updated on April 27, 2024 Why do people brag? Bragging is a common human behavior, often driven by a desire to impress or gain acceptance. It’s something many of us have experienced, whether it’s out of excitement, pride, or a need for validation.  Bragging is never a good idea.  It’s important to note that bragging, despite its common occurrence, leads to nothing but trouble.  Here are some reasons: Bragging leads to jealousy and envy Whether it is friends, co-workers, or relatives, they might have jealousy issues and try to sabotage what you have to make themselves feel ..read more

Last Updated on March 10, 2024 Today is one year since I made my first post. I’m thrilled to have been writing for one year—happy birthday to this blog ..read more

Last Updated on March 6, 2024 Somebody has screwed us all over. They stole from us or even cheated on us, got us fired, or worse. We all wanted to get revenge at one point. “I’ll teach them a lesson. They will never do that again,” We thought. However, when we try to get revenge, we open the door for them to get revenge. This could keep escalating to who knows what point. We always need to find out what angle they were coming from initially. Maybe they were trying to help, and we needed to understand what they intended. The best form of revenge is success when your partner cheated on you. The ..read more

Last Updated on March 4, 2024 I spent most of my adult life making money. I would work overtime and sometimes overnight. I worked full-time and tried every side hustle possible to be the next Elon Musk—most of the jobs I hated doing they were tedious and draining. I knew one day, I would stumble upon something that would make me a billionaire. Here would come happiness and fame and glory. Here is the problem with that lifestyle and way of thinking. I don’t have any good friends left. I didn’t bother making any meaningful connections. Because I thought they would slow me down. I’m still single ..read more

Last Updated on February 29, 2024 Mindfulness is the most important skill that you can develop. Mindfulness is the act of focusing on the present moment. Whenever your mind wanders off, bring it back to the now, and don’t think about the past or the future; think about the current task. It is where your power is, and you can accomplish the most. If you wander off thinking while working on something, you will lose focus, and it won’t come out as good. Or you won’t finish the task at all. Some people waste many years of their lives being stuck on an issue. For example, ” I should have gone to c ..read more

Last Updated on February 22, 2024 Picking the right job is very important. You spend a lot of time at your job, and if you are not happy at it, chances are it will spill over to other parts of your life. Here are some things to look at when you are looking for your next job. 1. Make sure you enjoy the job The first thing to do when looking for a job is to ensure you do something you enjoy. You will spend 8 hours, if not more, there. If you enjoy doing it, you will be happier there. 2. Make sure you can tolerate your coworkers. The people you work with either make or break the job. You want to ..read more

Last Updated on February 20, 2024 Unfortunately, wisdom comes with age. However, you can look to be older than for wisdom and guidance. Just ensure they are in a good place in their life, or their knowledge is not worth taking. The older you get, the wiser you get. Here are some things I wish I had known when I was twenty. Follow your passion When you get older, certain opportunities get taken away from you. Therefore, you should follow your passion early on in life and not let anyone stop you, especially in sports or something athletic. Work hard, and you will make it. Save your money When ..read more

Last Updated on February 17, 2024 We all had somebody we didn’t like personally and professionally. But what happens when they don’t realize it? What is the best way to tell them? How do you get that person out of your life? I discovered a way of communicating this message using Zen Buddhism philosophy. It requires the correct relationship, action, and situation. To get your point across with them understanding it and not getting their feelings hurt. Correct relationship For example, you can’t tell your college professor you don’t like them. Because it is unnecessary, your relationship doesn ..read more

Last Updated on February 15, 2024 Staying organized takes a lot of work. A constant improvement of minor steps eventually leads to being clean and organized. Label everything When I got my first apartment, I bought a label maker and found a place for everything. Then, I labeled it underneath or put a label next to it. In the beginning, it was hard to put everything back in place. But, after a while, putting everything back into its proper space became natural. It also felt good. Set aside time To stay organized and clean, you must spend time cleaning. The best thing to do is set a specific ti ..read more

Last Updated on February 12, 2024 Statistics Gallup survey shows that 71% of workers are “not engaged” or “actively disengaged” from their work. Which means they don’t like their job. It may be our education system that teaches us to get a good job. But, it never mentions to make sure we like it first. My career When I started my career as a computer technician in the corporate world, ensuring I enjoyed it was never a question. I got into it because it paid well and had a promising future. I never enjoyed it; it was challenging and stressful. I told myself I would pay off my credit cards and ..read more