Brothers, Welcome to a new year. We are all in different stages of the divorce process.  For those who are in the early stages of divorce, you may enter into this new year with fear and sadness, seeing that the path ahead looks gloomy and dark.  For those of us who are farther along in the divorce journey, we might view this new year with excitement and the potential start or continuation of a refreshing new journey.  Regardless of where we are in our own personal journey of recovery from divorce, none of us can effectively move forward without faith. This begs us to ask the que ..read more

Greetings Brothers in Christ, Divorce forces us to reflect on who we are, along with our past (and present) behaviors. There are a lot of different circumstances that lead to divorce, but if we truly look within ourselves we are sure to find things about us that we would want to change. Many of us carry bad habits that have done ourselves and others serious damage. As Dale says, we need to be determined to finish our life well. Part of that is spending time working on ourselves and cleaning our internal house.  So what is a habit? A habit is a stable disposition to act formed through repe ..read more

Divorce Recovery is a journey only you can make, but you shouldn't have to make it alone. It has been said that "First we make our choices, then our choices make us." The first choice we make is who we hang with. Proverbs 13:20 says, "He who walks with the wise grows wise, but a companion of fools suffers harm." Man, that is true! Rene Descartes started us on a path of radical individualism when he finally concluded that at bottom, “I think, therefore I am.” But the Africans (and more tribal communities) have always known, “I am because we are.” I (Dale) recently joined a new church ..read more