When a couple decides to get divorced, money may be one of the top reasons for the end of the marriage. Many divorces come from financial stress, and this is one of the reasons that couples are more likely to get divorced after job loss.  But it is not just a lack of money that causes problems in the relationship. Merely the way that people view money can create a rift between them. This difference in perspective, when they cannot find a compromise, could end the marriage. Why is this so serious?  You may be surprised that perspectives on money could be serious enough to end a marria ..read more

Child support is a financial obligation that ensures both parents contribute to the financial well-being of their child post-divorce or separation. In Tennessee, it is possible to request modifications to an existing child support order, provided there are sufficient grounds. As such, some of the reasons a parent may request modification may include the following. Changes in income or earning capacity If either parent experiences a substantial change in income, such as job loss, promotion, or a decrease in earnings, it can warrant a modification to ensure that the child’s financial needs are a ..read more

During the divorce process, the question that lingers in every parent’s mind is how their children will cope with the divorce. When an ex-spouse is toxic, this concern becomes even more pressing. Co-parenting with a toxic ex-spouse can be incredibly difficult and emotionally draining. It, however, may be a necessity to better ensure the well-being and healthy development of the children involved, depending on your circumstances. How to co-parent with a toxic ex-spouse Since the well-being of your children supersedes any personal animosity or grievances between ex-spouses in the eyes of the law ..read more

If you get divorced, one potential child custody option to consider is known as birdnesting. Under this plan, you and your ex will take turns living with the children, but those children will always live in the same family home. They don’t have to move, but the child custody schedule just tells you when it’s your turn to live in the home and when it is your ex’s turn. This doesn’t work for all couples. It can be expensive, and it also requires that you and your former spouse communicate and interact with each other frequently. But for couples who get divorced on relatively amicable terms, ther ..read more

Trying to share custody in Tennessee generally means that parents have to split time with their children. They also generally need to work with one another to agree on important parenting matters. A custody order approved by the courts establishes their obligations to one another and their children. Usually, the parents in the family have a responsibility to follow the exact terms of their custody arrangement whenever possible and cooperate with one another when minor adjustments are necessary.  Still, people may find themselves in scenarios in which their current custody order no longer ..read more

When it comes to marital relationships, divorce is often perceived as the flip side of happiness and marital bliss. Yet, paradoxically, many couples who once stood at the altar pledging eternal love and commitment find themselves walking down the path of separation. What leads seemingly content partners to the decision of divorce, even when happiness was once abundant in their union? Unrealistic expectations One prevailing factor behind the dissolution of seemingly happy marriages is the burden of unrealistic expectations. In the initial stages of marriage, couples often envision an idyllic fu ..read more

If you need to create custody arrangements for your minor children and you and your ex do not get alone, it’s worth learning more about parallel parenting. The term refers to sharing parenting in a way that is somewhat different from co-parenting – which is what most former couples engage in after a romantic split. Parallel parenting is for parents who can’t effectively co-parent Co-parenting requires a lot of cooperation and communication. At least, it does if it is to be effective. The problem is that some former couples hate the sight of each other. Even if things are not that extreme, the ..read more

Custody arrangements can be difficult when parents travel a lot. If both parents live near the children after a divorce and they both have similar work schedules, then it may be relatively straightforward to set up a custody schedule where the children move back and forth between the homes. But if one spouse travels often for work or for pleasure, that can change things. For example, perhaps you want to have custody of your children, but you have to travel for business. Maybe you’re a performer, a professional athlete or an executive with a tech company that does business all over the globe. Y ..read more

Naturally, divorcing dads worry about maintaining close bonds with their kids, but what if you were never married to their mother? Without a legal tether to your children, your parenting rights could be in jeopardy during a conflict or dispute with your co-parent. It helps if you have taken steps to establish your paternity, which gives you legal parenting rights. Beyond that, maintaining strong and loving bonds with your kids is another way to preserve your rights. Here’s how. Stay present and available Demonstrating that you are a consistent and healthy presence in your children’s lives can ..read more

Marriage, a legal and emotional bond that unites two individuals, can sometimes inspire challenges that lead to a decision to divorce. Whether your marriage is on the rocks or not, it can help to understand the leading causes of divorce. Comprehending these factors is crucial for maintaining a healthy and lasting marital relationship. Should you decide to dissolve your marriage, knowing what led to the divorce is crucial for streamlining the divorce process and for more effectively navigating future romantic prospects. Lack of communication Communication is the cornerstone of any successful re ..read more