It makes sense. I'll try to distract myself from the idea. Thanks for your advice. Statistics: Posted by ellieww — Sat May 18, 2024 2:48 am ..read more

Hi Ellieww, and welcome to the boards! Masturbating in public is never recommended because it violates the consent of those around you. During any sexual act, you need the enthusiastic consent of all people involved. Masturbating in public (such as in school) violates this consent because the people around you did not and cannot consent to see or be around a sexual act. Does that make sense? Engaging with fantasies when you are masturbating in private is okay, but if you feel that this particular idea is hard to get out of your head, or that its bleeding into your public life, it may help to ..read more

I cannot stop thinking of having my bullet vibe inside me while sitting at class. I want to do it right now! I am pretty sure it is not allowed at school and something severely bad would happen if I did it. But I cannot sweep the idea away. I have used my bullet vibe some times in my bedroom privately and it felt so enjoyable. But I need to be more excited. Then the idea came into my head. OMG! What to do? Statistics: Posted by ellieww — Fri May 17, 2024 10:54 am ..read more

Hi caramia, welcome to Scarleteen! Ace and allo people can be and are in relationships. What’s important, as you mentioned, is that you tell your partner about your feelings so you can both be on the same page. Obviously, overstepping their boundaries is a big NO! But being open and clear with your communication, as well as being direct instead of dancing around the subject out of anxiety, will help a lot in the long run. I would also recommend making it clear from the beginning that you aren’t looking to overstep their boundaries or break up, as this type of talk with ‘allo’ partners as an ..read more

They have already established that they will only go as far as making out, and even though we haven't even gotten to that, I realize that I do want a sexual relationship at some point. How do I approach this topic? I really don't want to break up or anything like that but I also will NOT consider overstepping their boundaries. Statistics: Posted by caramia — Mon May 13, 2024 2:21 am ..read more

Hi MariaSjohn, The idea that inserting something into the vagina will change its tightness or make it loose is a myth. The vagina is made up of many muscles that are made to expand and contract again. Using a menstrual cup would not have any effect on the "tightness" of your vagina. Another thing that is important to touch on is that a vagina being tight can often mean a person is not aroused during sexual activity. Proper arousal before insertion means the vagina is able to produce its own lubricant and loosen the muscles slightly. No one should make you feel like you have to change anything ..read more

Hi.... Iam using menstrual cup after my marriage 9 months before... My husband was in abroad. And he came after 4 months of our marriage and stayed for 2 months... But we think now my vaginal wall is not tighten comparing to our first time intercourse. Not too loose... But not like the first tym.... I think may be it is because of the use of menstrual cup... Is it possible...? So husband said to avoid using cup for few months before he came... Is it helps to recover the tightness? Or any other ways??? Plz help me Statistics: Posted by MariaSjohn — Sun May 12, 2024 6:26 pm ..read more

Hey there CasWasHere, While we cannot recommend any sex toy stores to minors as they are adult sites, we can definitely talk about how to go forward here with finding toys in a way that’s discreet given your guardian’s thoughts about things like intimacy and romance. First, if you do end up making an online purchase (of any kind!), checking online for their privacy policies, and cross-referencing that with things like external reviews and the Better Business Bureau is a good general practice before making online purchases. Not only does doing this protect your identity online, but it’ll prev ..read more

I was worried about that, I read some stuff about them including giftcards with the customers full name and making it clear what the site was on their packages. Happy I read this otherwise I would’ve went through with the purchase. It was mainly because they had a deal, only 19.99, about 29 including batteries, delivery fee and tax, and only 24 with a promo code. Very saddening, I am quite broke and here I was doing chores galore to earn money. I have only gathered 31 dollars. I suppose I will look elsewhere and provide updates. My first choice was Adam & Eve but they are not cheap, at all ..read more

Hi Cas, I would not recommend ordering from EdenFantasys. They have a history of mistreating their affiliates, sending indiscreet mail to customers, and I've even heard rumors about them selling used sex toys. They have an F on their Better Business Bureau page. My personal favorite online sex toy shops are Peepshow Toys and SheVibe. Statistics: Posted by StephR — Wed May 08, 2024 7:25 pm ..read more