Shared by E & S Everyone’s journey into non-monogamy is different, each beset with their own advantages and challenges, but I believe our story is unusual even among the groups of adventurers and thrill-seekers one finds in “the lifestyle.” My partner and I met in high school at age fifteen. She asked me to the Sadie Hawkins dance, and we’ve been largely inseparable since. She was my first sexual experience, and I hers. We remained monogamous through to our wedding almost ten years later, and we remained faithful to one another to our twentieth wedding anniversary. She was my first, and I ..read more

Shared by Plesh Hartley I stood next to the pool, enjoying the beautiful Mexican weather, the sunshine, the light breeze, the sound, and the smell of the ocean a few feet away. “It’s now or never,” I thought as I removed my sarong and draped it across my chair, the sun and breeze stroking my naked flesh. As I surveyed the swimming pool at the resort, I took in the variety of naked bodies before me, thinking how far I’d come since our first trip to the nude beach merely one year ago. Drifting back to that day during the previous summer when I had, admittedly somewhat reluctantly, agreed to visi ..read more

Shared by Dick & Jane As Jane came up for air, it was abundantly clear that we’d tapped into something thrilling and sexy as fuck. Her flushed smile betrayed the appropriate enthusiasm for being buried in three pairs of boobs for the first time, “This is awesome!” Jane settled into her cowgirl canter while we encouraged our lovely bed-mates as they worked the largest double dildo we’d ever seen into a varsity-level scissoring maneuver that makes us wet/hard just thinking about it. As newbs, we only have so much to offer those that have been exploring this thrilling lifestyle in the wild ex ..read more

Shared by Kiley ‘Sexyswingerchic’ Swinging has always represented a different path of sexual exploration for me. As someone who has spent 3 years in swinger spaces, and not just your average ‘swing on the weekends’ swinger, I’ve been someone completely divulged within these spaces for years now. I’ve learned a lot along my journey. The biggest thing I’ve learned is truly how important creating inclusive spaces is as a community. I remember the first time I ever stepped foot into a swingers club with my partner. It was a cold January day in 2021. COVID was at its peak, but my husband and I had ..read more

It’s common for swingers to look out for other swingers. The main reason for this may be that swinging is still taboo in some social circles. Many swingers prefer to keep this part of their life separate from their “daily life” because they don’t know how their friends would react if they knew about it. That’s why – whether you’re a seasoned swinger couple or newbies – you will probably be wondering, from time to time, about how to get more swinger friends. Let’s tackle this topic from two perspectives. The first is finding “swinger mentors,” something many swinger newbies would probably like ..read more

If you are going to play in the swinging lifestyle, the odds are good you will eventually come across. It is one of the most common issues for vaginas. According to the CDC, bacterial vaginosis will impact roughly a third of vaginas at least once, if not multiple times. That’s why it is important for all swingers to become informed about it. Bacterial vaginosis is often called BV because regular people like simpler terms. Let’s be honest. It is also easier to say BV. Even though we will keep things simple in this article, you should talk with your medical doctor if you suspect you have BV. BV ..read more

Are you ready to ignite the flames of passion and curiosity in your hotwife lifestyle? If you’re ready to add a touch of excitement to your intimate escapades with some hotwife adventures, we’ve got just the right questions to help you have fun and stay safe! We don’t want to dive into the steamy depths of this thrilling experience blindly.  Let’s discuss the art of screening potential playmates. In this article, we’ll walk you through a list of questions to ask eager candidates, ensuring that you find the perfect fit for your hotwife adventures. From safety to desires, boundaries to kink ..read more

If you are living the swinger lifestyle, then there is a good chance you have collected many spicy pictures. Now, the question here is how you can make sure that your private stash is protected from prying eyes. In other words, how can we prevent these sensitive pictures from getting leaked online? Some swingers are lucky and can openly live a nonmonogamous lifestyle. But there are others who can’t be open about swinging (or simply don’t want their family to see their spicy pics), and this article is for them. If you are the type of person who would rather have this side of your personality pr ..read more

We all want to stay safe while enjoying our swinging experiences. That means taking smart precautions. So here are ways to vet others in the swinging lifestyle, whether it might be a new swinger friend or a large group of potential attendees for a swinger party. Before we start investigating & vetting people, let’s talk about the different places you can recruit. Each of these places has a risk factor that can vary greatly. The free sites are flooded with scammers & picture collectors, and that isn’t going to change. As soon as the troublemakers are banned on the free sites, they creat ..read more

The scary thing about life is that we don’t know what we don’t know.  We need to learn from mistakes & misfortunes to better protect ourselves.  Today is about educating ourselves about the hard lessons others have learned before we face them in our own life. There have been isolated cases of death threats and people being exposed online.  Thankfully it is rare, but one time is still too often.  So let’s talk about how we can upgrade our privacy protections in the swinger lifestyle. Security Basics There have been countless troublemakers who have targeted the swinger co ..read more