If you’re in a long-term relationship and feel like your sex lacks, then let it be known that you are not alone. Scientists have discovered that oxytocin, a bonding hormone that helps turn you on, is mostly released during the early stages of a relationship. In fact, the hormone is so strong at the beginning of a relationship that it works like a drug and continuously makes you crave sex. However, as time goes on, there’s a natural decline in the release of this hormone. That being said, there are ways to boost the release of this hormone and rekindle your sex life. To help make it easier, Pi ..read more

If you are feeling like your and your partner’s sex lives aren't what they were when you first met, you aren’t alone. Couples try all sorts of things to try to spice things up from simply going out for a romantic dinner to more obscure ideas, such as getting piercings in certain areas or, in some cases, surgeries such as breast enlargement or scrotox to please their partner’s various turn-ons. Many people are wired for something new, even in bed, and so sometimes, we need to switch things up a little to keep the fun in a relationship. Here are 12 tips to help spice up your bedroom activities ..read more

Dating these days sucks. The pandemic left us lonely and starved of social interaction for two years and, because of this, many people forgot what the protocol was. They’ve been deprived of their chance to learn it during their most formative years or just became too impatient to care about courtship anymore. This certainly isn’t being helped by the digital age we’re living in, where instant gratification always takes precedence and misinformation spreads like wildfire. Photo courtesy of Victoria Pousada Kreindler. Now, we, as a whole, are left confused on how to approach dating. Do we ask i ..read more

It’s been some time since we last talked about consent and the importance of setting boundaries in relationships. Learning how to enjoy everything from a one-night stand to a long-term relationship consensually is pivotal to anyone having sex. In fact, we would argue that setting healthy relationship boundaries for yourself is a form of self-love! Sometimes, teaching healthy boundaries to adults is necessary, whether that adult is yourself (and learning how to create essential relationship boundaries) or your sex partner. What is consent and how do we define setting boundaries?  The con ..read more

A glittering night sky broken by the bright white streaks of shooting stars. The murmur of a nearby stream. Flames flickering golden from a fire pit (propane, if you live somewhere with high fire danger, of course). It’s a setting fit for a romance novel — or for putting some extra spark into your romantic life. Let’s face it: We all hit ruts in our relationships. Even more so when we’re stressed, tired, or bored with our lives. Often, the best way to get out of that rut is to do something fun, different, or exciting. If you’re looking for fresh ways to increase the spark or keep the flames a ..read more

Navigating sex after divorce can be an emotional experience for men. For years I’ve coached men as they’ve faced their insecurities. I’ve seen man after man show up with the same crushing self-doubt that is killing their possibilities of having an epic sex life. The way we have sex begins long before we get into bed for sex.   “I never fail at anything, how did I fail at this?” This is the question that haunts men. Once the mediation and court hearings are over, the settlement and custody agreements are complete and the final orders have been signed…once the adrenaline from it all s ..read more

…In Bed Edition. Photo courtesy of The Adventure Challenge. Valentine’s Day is right around the corner… are you ready for this day of romance (and sex)? Here are our favourite Valentine’s Day gifts to buy, that you and your partner — whether they’re casual or long-term — are sure to love. This year, we’ve compiled a round-up of the top gifts on the market, enjoyed by our little team of Cupids. Trust us when we say that you don’t want to miss out on any of these! ...In Bed Edition. Photo courtesy of The Adventure Challenge. The Adventure Challenge’s …In Bed Edition Retails at $49.99 USD ($55 ..read more

Even the most devoted masturbator may become tired of his regular rituals after a while, though an erect penis can provide hours of infinite ‘entertainment.’ Fortunately though, there are many sex toys available to make solo play so much more enjoyable and pleasurable (provided, of course, one practices appropriate penis care when using these products). Most guys are acquainted with sex toys such as penis rings and the like, but there are other unique sex toys that many folks may be unaware of… Until now, that is.  Check out these more obscure options for self-pleasure that you might not ..read more

Picture this: you’re at a banquet. Guests are smacking their lips as they devour the delicacies. Scrumptious trays pass under your nose, scents sending your mouth watering. You need only ask, and the feast is yours. But you’re afraid. Which would you like? What are the dishes called? You sit in frustrated silence as everyone else dines away. Sounds pathetic right? Yet, this is exactly what women experience every day — in their bedrooms. We go hungry while our partners feast. Well, I call B.S. on that! It’s time we pull up to the table, grab two forks, and dig in!   The Orgasm Gap is Real ..read more

Here at Between Our Thighs, we love sexting. The thrill of composing the perfect message, of egging on teasing a partner. Even the excitement that comes with exploring boundaries and uncovering new territory. There’s so much more to it than just sending a plain ol’ sext and hoping for the best. But you knew that, didn’t you?  If you’re looking for some amazing sexting examples, you’ve come to the right place. From starting off the conversation to sexting ideas to keep the eroticism going, we’ve got it all. Please Note: All sexting exchanges should be done so completely consensually, whet ..read more