Be honest, how emotionally safe do you feel in your relationship? Many people tend to focus on whether their partner fits their standards if they are compatible, share the same values, and other things along those lines.  While shared values and being compatible do matter in the relationship, the latest research in neurobiology shows that one of the most important metrics of a happy, healthy, and loving relationship is emotional safety. It’s also key for a satisfying sex life.  So, […] The post The Link Between Emotional Safety and Sexual Satisfaction appeared first on Volont ..read more

Wouldn’t you like to be a fly on the wall and find out what other people are doing in their bedrooms? Your answer to this question will depend on whether or not you’re a voyeur, of course, but knowing what other people find sexy can be interesting.  If you’re curious to learn about other people’s sex lives, you’re in luck. Let’s look at some of the recent research and findings on couples’ sexual desires and fantasies and see what exactly […] The post Research Reveals Couples’ Sexual Desires appeared first on Volont ..read more

This article was scientifically reviewed by Human Sexuality expert Dr. Laurie Mintz. She is a professor, researcher, private practitioner and Fellow of the American Psychological Association. Website | Academics | Instagram   Fact: We’re having sex earlier and getting married older. That means there are more years between adolescence and commitment for most of us, leaving more time for sexual adventure and casual hook-ups.  Like it or loathe it, that’s the way of the world we live in. Some say we […] The post No Strings? The Effects Of Casual Sex On Your Mental Health appeared ..read more

Technology has revolutionized the way we interact with each other – especially when it comes to dating. Dating apps have allowed people to connect with potential sexual or romantic partners from the comfort of their couch.   Convenience has been one of the main selling points of dating apps. The ability to meet someone despite your busy schedule or introverted personality. This has been the backbone behind some of the major dating apps people are familiar with like Tinder, Bumble, and […] The post The Top Niche Dating Apps for Your Needs appeared first on Volont ..read more

We all want to connect with others, and for many, that means exploring different romantic and sexual relationships, but meeting someone that you have a connection with can be easier said than done. That’s why it can be so exhilarating when you feel like you’re finally getting a hot dose of romance.  Most of us who are actively dating have been in a similar scenario: You connect with someone on app. Your conversation is electric and there’s even more chemistry […] The post The Dangers of “Love Bombing” appeared first on Volont ..read more

Cold Netflix nights are played out. As nice as cozying up by the fire has been, you’re ready to do some adventuring – or at least step outside. The weather is warming up, the grass is looking lush and green, flowers are blooming, and love is in the air. After cozying up for the winter months, it’s time to get out and see the world – with your sweetie in tow.  Spring is the time for renewal, rebirth, adventure, and […] The post Spring Date Ideas 2024 appeared first on Volont ..read more

Most of us are very familiar with the lure of breakup sex. To have such a strong connection with someone that you just want to experience it one more time before you call it quits. Even if you know it’s not in either of your best interests. So, why do we do it (literally)? A study of 17-24 years olds found that 27% of participants reported having breakup sex within two years of ending a relationship. Even scientists are not […] The post The Science Behind Breakup Sex appeared first on Volont ..read more

Ah the cold, cozy winter evenings. You know the ones we’re talking about when all you want to do is wrap yourself in a huge blanket, relax in front of the fire – and have sex. That’s at least according to a number of U.S. studies regarding seasonal effects on sex drive; winter is when we all start getting a little hot under the collar, or is it? Let’s dive into what sex in winter really looks like. Winter Sex […] The post How Winter Affects Your Sex Life, According to Science appeared first on Volont ..read more

You’re in the first few months (or weeks) of dating someone. When you’re together, you can’t keep your hands off each other. When you’re not, you can’t stop thinking about them, fantasizing about them, talking about them.  That’s what we call the honeymoon phase or NRE (new relationship energy) – the sexual and romantic excitement that comes with a new connection. However, this feeling doesn’t last forever, and when it fades, your sex life is also likely to change.  If […] The post Sex Tips After the Honeymoon Relationship Phase Ends appeared first on Volont ..read more

We all have our preferences in the dating world, right? Whether it’s in the realm of appearance, personality, or other, the majority of us have some kind of boxes we’d like ticked when it comes to finding a partner or merely someone to spend the night with. In some cases, a potential partner may have seemed like the right fit before or during your date, but then you realized that you just didn’t fancy them all that much. It happens. […] The post How Do You Tell Someone You’re Not Interested in Them? appeared first on Volont ..read more