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Read Trevor James' Blog for professional cuddling advice and much more related to cuddle therapy. Trevor James is a Certified Touch and Cuddle Therapist, Intimacy and Connection Coach, and "Dr. Cuddles". Dr. Cuddles is a professional cuddle service for men who may be touch- or affection-deprived, including those with depression, loneliness, and intimacy issues.
Trevor James Blog
3w ago
As a professional cuddler and someone who has been in a few relationships, I can attest to the power of physical touch, specifically cuddling. It's easy to get caught up in the day-to-day responsibilities of life and forget to prioritize intimacy with your partner. However, cuddling is an incredibly effective way to strengthen your bond and improve communication in your relationship. In this article, I will explore the science behind cuddling, the different types of cuddling positions, and how cuddling can improve your relationship.
The Science Behind Cuddling and Its Effects on the Body
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Trevor James Blog
1M ago
Cuddling with our pets is one of the most rewarding experiences we can have. It's a way to show them how much we love and care for them, and it can also be a great way to relax and de-stress.
There are many benefits to cuddling with pets. For one, it releases oxytocin, a hormone that has been shown to reduce stress and anxiety. It can also help to improve sleep quality, boost mood, and even lower blood pressure.
In addition to the physical benefits, cuddling with pets can also provide emotional support. Pets can help us to feel loved and accepted, and they can also provide a sense of security ..read more
Trevor James Blog
1M ago
Cuddling is a natural human behavior that provides a number of physical and emotional benefits. It can help to reduce stress, improve sleep, boost the immune system, and increase feelings of happiness and well-being. While cuddling is often associated with romantic relationships, it can also be a great way to connect with friends.
There are many different ways to cuddle with friends. Spooning is not the only cuddle position. Some people like to simply sit close together on the couch or in bed, while others prefer to hold hands or give each other hugs. There is no right or wrong way to cuddle ..read more
Trevor James Blog
2M ago
What is the Fear of Being Touched?
The fear of being touched, also known as haphephobia or aphenphosmphobia, can be an isolating and uncomfortable experience. Touch aversion is a feeling of intense discomfort or fear when someone attempts to touch you. It can be physical, such as when someone attempts to hug you, or it can be psychological, such as when someone attempts to shake hands with you. It can be caused by a range of things, such as trauma, anxiety, or a heightened sense of tactile sensitivity. It can also be caused by a combination of factors.
No matter what the cause is, it is import ..read more
Trevor James Blog
2M ago
When a friend told me recently that he’d booked a massage because he was desperate for some full body, skin to skin touch, I asked him why he didn’t just ask his husband for some touch.
“The trouble is,” my friend confided, “whenever we try to massage each other it always leads to sex, and that’s just not what I want right now.”
We live in a world where there are many taboos around touch, but where we are also bombarded by sexualised imagery and narratives.
As a result, sexual interactions are one of the few opportunities most people get to experience full body touch; so it’s no wonder that m ..read more
Trevor James Blog
2M ago
Valentine's Day is a special time to celebrate love and appreciation for your partner. But if you're looking for something unique and memorable, there are plenty of unusual ways to make the day special. From exploring an unknown city together to creating a personalized gift, these ideas will help you add a little spice to your Valentine's Day celebration. Whether it's a romantic night out or an intimate evening at home, these creative and fun ideas will help you make the day special for your partner. So why not switch things up this year and make your Valentine's Day celebration an unforgetta ..read more
Trevor James Blog
2M ago
It’s a scenario all too familiar to many: you’ve found someone you enjoy cuddling with, and you’re both having a great time. But then something changes, and you start to feel like things are getting a bit too intense. Before you know it, you’re in a relationship that you didn’t sign up for. If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone. Many people have been in the same situation, and it’s not something to take lightly. Fortunately, there are ways to avoid getting too attached to your cuddle buddy and maintain healthy boundaries. In this guide, we’ll discuss how to do just that. We’ll explore the ..read more
Trevor James Blog
2M ago
New Year’s resolutions are a time-honored tradition, but that doesn’t mean they always work. Many people set themselves up to fail by resolving to do something they cannot keep up on their own, such as give up alcohol for the next 365 days. Yet, there are ways to follow through with resolutions and achieve them. The key is focusing on smaller goals so they aren’t so overwhelming. There are three simple ways you can successfully follow your resolutions and actually achieve them this year. Keep reading for more information about how you can succeed with New Year’s resolutions and actually achie ..read more
Trevor James Blog
2M ago
Whether you’re looking for a cuddle buddy to share a warm hug with, to share a bed with for some extra body heat, or to just have a friendly face to talk to, finding a safe and secure cuddle buddy in your area can be a challenging task. Searching for someone to cuddle with can be a daunting process and it’s important to ensure that your cuddle buddy will be a safe and secure choice for you. To help make sure that the person you choose is right for you, there are a few things to consider before you begin your search. This article will discuss the best ways to find a safe and secure cuddle budd ..read more
Trevor James Blog
2M ago
The holidays bring so much joy, but they can also be a stressful and overwhelming time. With celebrations, parties, shopping, travel, and family obligations, it’s easy to become overwhelmed and overworked. To ensure your wellbeing during the holidays, it’s important to practice self-care. Self-care is all about taking the time to prioritize your mental, emotional, and physical health. If you want to make sure you stay balanced and stress-free during the holidays, this guide is here to provide you with practical self-care tips to help you recharge. From taking breaks and getting enough sleep t ..read more