How can I politely decline my friends and family’s insistence to date someone and manage peer pressure to enter a relationship? Do people think they know what is best for you? Are they always trying to set you up with someone but you want to be left alone? Does your family also put in their opinions about your relationship status? It might be time to tell everyone to butt out if you enjoy being single right now. While they generally have your best interest at heart it’s not really their business to tell you what they think you should, or shouldn’t be doing in your life. It can become very tiri ..read more

Dear Sybersue YouTubeToday’s topic affects many relationships. Why Does My Partner Continually Walk Away During Our Disagreements? What boundaries should be set when your partner leaves the room during an argument? There are many ways to handle disagreements, but it takes two people to be on board with wanting to repair things so that they can build a stronger partnership throughout their years together. It is important to learn from your mistakes, as opposed to ignoring them or repeating them. The first thing a couple should prioritize is learning how to listen to each other and respecting ..read more

Dear Sybersue YouTubeSome couples who have been together for many years lose the desire to nurture the love within their partnership. This is a huge mistake because we all have a choice of where we want to be in our relationships today! Complacency, and taking your partner for granted, have become a big problem in many long-term relationships! Thinking that your partner will always stick around, regardless of what is transpiring between you, is a dangerous mindset to allow yourself to be in. We all have boundaries and a breaking point when our needs are unmet. It is very important not to lose ..read more

Dear Sybersue YouTubeBoth sexes want to make a great first impression, so you would think everyone would be on their best behavior on a date. Unfortunately, this isn’t always the case. It is important to understand how you come across to others. Are you friendly? Are you confident and respectful? Apart from physical attraction, what other attributes stand out and make a woman take notice? Many people are dating online and don’t spend much time investing in someone who shows up in their feed. There’s a lot of swiping going on if the attraction isn’t immediately there. Sadly, a lot of men and w ..read more

Dear Sybersue, My wife and I have been married for 15 years, and sadly, any form of intimacy has become non-existent in our relationship today. I am attracted to her, and we do love each other, but she is not interested in being intimate at all. We are both in our late 40s and we don’t have children. I have expressed concern about this issue many times, but she continually shrugs It off. We used to have a great sex life, but that changed about five years ago. I’m now thinking of ending our marriage mainly due to this reason. It’s not very enjoyable living with someone who has a problem being i ..read more

Dear Sybersue YouTube ChannelShould your career be your only focal point before you commit to a partnership? Is it possible to balance a demanding career and a relationship? While self-development is important before committing to a relationship, it doesn’t mean that you should put your love life on hold for years while pursuing your career. It’s always a great idea to complete your University degree or set up your business plans before you have any distractions, but it is not written in stone that this should always be the case. Making career decisions as a couple can help strengthen the dy ..read more

Today’s video and post were sent from Katie: Why do I keep Attracting Men Who Cheat on me? Dear Sybersue, I am a 25-year-old woman who is having a difficult time trying to find a sincere and loving boyfriend who wants to be with me in a committed relationship. I don’t have a problem meeting men, but I do have a problem with them stepping out of our partnership and cheating with other women. Not only that, but I seem to be attracting the same type of guys that all say and do similar things. Their actions and words are good in the first month, and then shortly after that time frame, they become ..read more

If you are presently in a part-time relationship, are you happy in this setting or do things feel tentative or unbalanced? Would you like to see them more often, but you feel nervous about bringing this up, due to the fear of scaring them off? Are you sacrificing what you really want in this casual partnership, because you don’t like being alone? A partnership can mean different things to each individual couple, but the foundation should always be based on reciprocated trust, mutual respect and solid communication. You should both know where you stand and where your relationship is headed. If ..read more

Today’s video and post are about organizing your life and cleansing your personal space post-breakup. It’s about letting go of persistent memories by removing memorabilia from your home, your phone, and your social media accounts. Should you get rid of everything that reminds you of your Ex, or is it important to keep something to remind yourself of why you once loved them? Regardless of the way the relationship ended, they were a part of your life for a reason; no matter how small of a reason that might have been. I believe that the people you allow in your life are there for a purpose. Regar ..read more

Dear Sybersue YouTube ChannelI have recently received emails from men and women with similar dating dilemmas. The generalized concern is that they are frustrated by repetitive dating games & the constant mixed signals they receive. The claim being made is that both sexes seem to be interested in each other on the first few dates but then begin to act disinterested, start playing hard to get by being unavailable, or simply just walk away without a word. There are also complaints about people saying they are too busy and can’t commit to making another date for a few weeks. They will then te ..read more