Dear Sybersue: I am emotionally exhausted from dealing with my relationship! Dear Sybersue, I am a subscriber to your YouTube channel, and I am really hoping you can help me with this issue that I am having with my girlfriend. We have been together in a committed partnership for one year. Well, at least, I am committed, but she seems confused about what she wants in our partnership. Looking back, it has been this way from the start. I should have done something about this long ago, but I kept hoping things would change. She tells me she loves me, but her actions speak differently. She’s not ve ..read more

Welcome to Dear Sybersue! Why is love taking a back seat in the world today? I find it sad that many people are not very happy and there are a lot of unfair judgments being made about one another. All you have to do is go on any popular celebrity social media account, and it’s bombarded with critical comments from strangers! Why does this type of anger seem to overrule love so often? Doesn’t it make much more sense to treat someone the way that you would want to be treated? Just recently on the TV show, The Bachelor, there was a big discussion on how much bullying and racial comments were wri ..read more

Thank you for visiting me here at Dear Sybersue! What does adding mystery to a partnership even mean? How is it possible to do this if you’ve been together for a long time as a couple? Dear Sybersue YouTube ChannelBeing spontaneous with your partner adds excitement when you plan something that you don’t often do together. Many couples complain about how routine and boring things become in their relationship over the years. In fact, it is one of the biggest problems as to why many relationships start to fizzle out. The best way to combat this issue in your partnership is to be adventurous and ..read more

Welcome to Dear Sybersue today! One of the biggest reasons that some people jump from one relationship to the next is due to rebounding after a breakup. Moving on quickly to another relationship helps men and women get over the heartbreak of their EX faster, or at least they THINK it does. Unfortunately, this is not usually the case because there’s still so much emotional baggage that hasn’t been dealt with. This gets carried on to each new connection made along the way. If you continue to go from one partnership to the next without any time in between, you will end up stuck in one loveless si ..read more

Today on Dear Sybersue, I discuss how important it is to make a great first impression when you are out on a date. You only have that one time to get it right, so be aware of how you come across to others.  It is one thing to be single today, but if you don’t know the basic dating etiquette, it can leave you single for a lot longer. The most important thing to remember is that you are a good person & and are worthy of having a loving relationship. Your self-esteem & body language need to show this for you to meet a special person with the same rapport. There is someone for everyon ..read more

Today’s topic can be a difficult one because you may not even be aware that you are caught up in this scenario. The difference between wanting and needing a relationship. It is important to be in a partnership for the right reasons and be on the same page for the most part. When you want to be in a relationship, you are ready to have a supportive, loving, intimate partnership that is healthy and reciprocated. Needing to be in a relationship is often due to insecurities and having a dependency on someone else to make you feel secure and accepted. Some people don’t feel like they are a whole pe ..read more

Dear Sybersue YouTube I have shared many conversations with men about what women enjoy when it comes to being romanticized. Does this always mean expensive dinners at a local hotspot or a weekend getaway to some fancy hotel? The answer is no. If you set a precedent as being a big spender on the first few dates, you are setting up the situation to continue in this manner. You need to see if there is any type of romantic connection between you both before you plan extravagant dates. Some men relay that many women are high-maintenance and expect to be spoiled on a date. It is up to you who you c ..read more

Dear Sybersue YouTubeToday’s topic is a popular one that I have discussed often with clients. Can Single Men and Women Be Content Without a Partner? Many people are fed up and are beyond frustrated with the difficulties dating presents. This brings out uncomfortable emotions stemming from sadness to anger, and confusion about how to live their lives without a romantic partner. In answer to today’s question; yes, you absolutely can be content being single, and have a very fulfilling life! Being in a partnership does not define you. Of course, having love in your life is very important, but it ..read more

You may think you’re compatible and on the same page with a new partner and what you want as a couple, but it takes a lot of tough conversations to ensure that is the reality. One of the reasons dating is so important is because this is when you are investing your time and energy to meet a potential partner who is on a similar page as you are. Some men and women put all their needs out quickly and have many expectations of what they are looking for in a committed relationship. Some people don’t have enough boundaries and end up in repetitive patterns that don’t work out. There is a happy medi ..read more

Today’s topic is something I have wanted to talk about for a while. Some of my clients have become very frustrated with how their new relationships started out fast and exhilarating, but then abruptly ended within a few months. Everything was going so well, and they were showered with phrases like “I love you, I’m excited about our future together,” received numerous compliments/gifts, the sex was incredible, and then poof, things took a drastic turn. When someone comes on very strong and says and does all the right things, it can be very exciting to be on the receiving end of all this! Unfort ..read more